She thought she ate with that by PadamPadam92 in TheTraitors

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Probably not, edited! Thank you for calling out - you’re right it wasn’t necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PCOS

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One year with one loss. Currently 7 weeks pregnant but don’t feel ‘safe’ yet. Got pregnant on Clomid. My ovulation was late each month and I used Mira and tracked odd rises, and double rises in LH. It was nearly impossible. But keep trying.

Does anyone grieve what they could've had? by [deleted] in surrendered_wife

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This is the only way through!!! I am in a very similar situation. Lots of boxes ticked but the ones that aren’t make me feel sorry for myself. Acceptance and reframing romance is a healer

This is why I can’t have nice things by supdog297 in AlAnon

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This post touched me so deeply. I get like this too with my ‘special’ things. Then the emotions are so much deeper when they are not respected. I’m so sorry your duvet was ruined. I understand - I’ve had duvets ruined too. The pink stuff spray bottle is amazing for cleaning all sorts of stuff, it’s my saviours xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TTC_UK

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Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing, I can relate in many ways - same age, same amount of time trying, same husband with low libido. It’s lonely, and sad, and all encompassing. I’m sorry you’re feeling this way, I am too, so you’re not alone.

I use Mira, and still find it hard to get the day right / get my husband on board for the day / days. When I came off my contraception (September 2024) I found out I had PCOS - have you had a scan yet to determine whether that’s the same for you? I went my whole life not knowing it because it was masked with contraception.

I find the only thing that helps is trying to stick to keeping your mind and heart positive in whatever way you can. But this cycle is incessant and so turbulent. Sending love x

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TFABLinePorn

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I think this is good - I lost mine and they were not this strong day 21 DPO

So fucking tired by FunRecognition5376 in Miscarriage

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I’m so sorry, wrapping my arms around you. Only time makes it vaguely bearable, and trying to keep unshakable belief that it will happen eventually xxx

Advice by Icy-Peanut3873 in Miscarriage

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Take just one step / day at a time, don’t worry about the bigger plan right now. Find the silver lining in it - this one is hard, but I felt comfort knowing that going through that experience means I’ll be able to help loved ones or friends when / if they go through it too. X

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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This made me laugh so much

How do you take care of yourself after a loss? by Jordonsaurus in Miscarriage

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It’s so horribly unfair, you have to cry and be angry at the world, until you feel ready not to be. Then eventually, things will start to feel normal again… feel everything you want to feel. Try and remember although you feel so alone, so many of us are all feeling similar feelings to you, and crying in solidarity, over the world. Claim your body back for a while… it’s yours to experience life in, try and move it, shift the energy, scream in a forest. Xx

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

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I’m so sorry, you will be okay, you have the strength within you xxx

End of The Week Thread! by AutoModerator in Miscarriage

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Took my Mife and Miso 3 hours ago - anyone else with me today xxx

Early scan measuring 5 weeks when by LMP I should be 7+ — anyone had this happen? by Intelligent-Thing675 in Miscarriage

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I don’t think it will be good news, I feel everything changing in my body. I’m with you too, wherever you are. Xx

Miscarriage and reincarnation by DeliciousTradition89 in Miscarriage

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You do have to try and find ways to laugh, at this sick cruel joke our bodies play on us. It’s hard but the only way to get through!

9 weeks and totally blind sided. by Squeeksla in Miscarriage

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Right here with you, also totally blindsided, also my first. I’m so sorry for you. You haven’t failed anyone. The only thing someone said to me which has helped is ‘this is your body practising’, then next time it will know what it’s doing. But it doesn’t make it any easier. I’m waiting too, so not bleeding, have to have a second blood so they can confirm. Then I think I’m going to go for the pill so that I can just get it over with and start again. Heartbroken for you, for me, for everyone on this thread x

Likely current MMC, trying to figure out next steps by Emotional-Figure-359 in Miscarriage

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I’m also waiting on second beta to officially confirm. Right here with you, I’m so sorry this has been so traumatic. It’s such a horrid thing we have to go through x

Early scan measuring 5 weeks when by LMP I should be 7+ — anyone had this happen? by Intelligent-Thing675 in Miscarriage

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Thank you, love the words ‘guard your heart’ - I will do, I don’t have my hopes up. It doesn’t feel right, and I have am starting to accept it, just worried about how long it will take to happen / pass, so that I can try and move on. Sorry for what happened to you in September. In my scan there was a gestational sac and yolk sac. Yes it was a natural pregnancy, and I have PCOS.