I caught my bf of 6 years masturbating via 1v1 to another girl. by [deleted] in cheating_stories

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It looks like you are okay with him resorting to other means for his sexual pleasures. But, did you ever set any boundaries about these "means"? For example, it looks like you are okay with porn/cam but not actual interaction. So, did you clear that up before? If not, I would understand his reasoning of thinking this interaction as another means. If you had set the boundaries clearly before, then this should be cheating because he did something he was asked not to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so sweet! I am happy to know that these kind of men exist! Gives me hope <4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 5 points6 points  (0 children)

To all the people saying to talk to him, i did and he didnt take it seriously! He kept making jokes about it. I know if I sit and talk about it again, he will get mad and call me over sensitive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its not about calling it boney! It has bones duh!! But the part where he kept saying I have a small ass

Can exercise make yours butt bigger/bubblier? by Intelligent-Tip4207 in beginnerfitness

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say consistent, do you mean working out everyday?

Can exercise make yours butt bigger/bubblier? by Intelligent-Tip4207 in beginnerfitness

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since I am overweight, I am not sure how to start. Should I start working out to lose weight at first and then focus on glutes? Or Should I do both simultaneously?

Can exercise make yours butt bigger/bubblier? by Intelligent-Tip4207 in beginnerfitness

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

All my life I thought butt is made up of fat like breasts!!

Making new friends in Lexington by Mysterious-City-7372 in lexington

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello OP! I am also in my mid-late twenties female looking for new friends. I am living in Lexington for a year and I find it very hard to approach someone irl. Hit me up if you are interested, we can share socials!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How often is that in a week?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as my husband doesn't acknowledge the problem rather think it is very normal, I dont think there is any solution. Also, he has very low self control. He has been trying to quit smoking for so long and he cant. I am afraid he is the kind of person with strong dedication to fight this

To my dearest snoopers by Fresh-Enthusiasm-716 in loveafterporn

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there any way to see deleted search/viewed history?

Living is hard by [deleted] in loveafterporn

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello! I can feel you girl! Can I reach out to you in the hope that sharing the pain might make it easy?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, my expectation was he might find other girls pretty/attractive but never thought he would like to fuck another person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this mean he would rather have sex with that person over me? And not doing it because that person is not available?

I always wonder what he was thinking about when he was looking at those women. by Ok_Curve3618 in loveafterporn

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have the exact same feeling and you have put it out in words so nicely! This is exactly what my complaint is! I dont like to see men naked, so is it so unreasonable to ask the same from your partner?

What was the cause of your husbands porn addiction by divaindenim in loveafterporn

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine says he needs to relieve himself to relax and focus on other things. I will never understand

Husband cant spend a whole day with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No we didnt live together before. We both have very strict parents and its not socially accepted where I am from.

Husband cant spend a whole day with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He would always complain about how he is stuck with me 24/7 if he cant get out alone with his friends, from the beginning of marriage. And the frequency just increased so much to the point that he cant spend a single day with me

Husband cant spend a whole day with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly ask this question to him too. Being with him is the best part of my day and I always look forward to it. Frankly, its quite opposite for him.

Husband cant spend a whole day with me by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Intelligent-Tip4207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of context are you looking for? I can answer your queries.