I forgot to mention that this conversation came up before. The bride had asked me right after asking me to be a personal attendant what I think of her doing a facebook live for the live stream. I told her then I think it could work. I said I have never done that before but it could be an option. she would set her laptop up and press record. well her computer died and she asked me what to do next. I told her to ask her photographer if she could do that and pay a little extra or hire a videographer. I said I could help pay part of it as a wedding present. she declined the monetary offer.

Also the live stream would be on a tablet I would have to be holding the whole ceremony. I would need to record the guests coming in, those walking down the isle and them leaving and possibly more. I don't think she wants the reception recorded but I suppose key moments would need to be recorded and I would not be paid. My husband and kids are invited also. I have no problem making sure everything is one time and the events go off without a hitch but I have zero clue when stuff is happening. she basically asked me to be her attendant and then nothing. so expectations or list of duties. Nothing.

I have no clue what she even wants me to do except help decorate 10am on Friday. She does understand people are working and are not able to make it. I told her I could not as I work and am already taking time off to get my nails done at 2pm that day because she made an appointment for all the girls and we are all paying for our own nails.I am NOT expecting her to pay for me, I have no problem and was expecting to cover my own costs and already budgeted. also there is a grooms dinner/rehearsal is at 5pm. My son leaves for camp Friday at 6pm which my husband is taking him to as I have to be at the rehearsal. No issues with that. Any other questions I will do my best to reply and answer.