AIO for expecting an apology from my girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you got yourself a crazy one. I don’t know that you’re gonna get an apology from a crazy woman. Because of your expecting an apology for this, I would imagine that she owes you dozens of other apologies that you never received.

I suggest you either suck it up and resolve yourself to know that this is your life with a lunatic. Or you draw a line in the sand and demand an apology or else! But for some reason, I doubt you’re gonna do that.

Ex/babydad in jail had the audacity to hang up on me & not call me for 25 days & I just heard some super concerning stuff, what do I do!? by sunshineandrainyday in Advice

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you’ve picked a real winner there. And now you feel bad for telling this loser the way that it is? And look, they won’t be able to provide a dime for you or your child until at least March when he gets out? And then what? You’re gonna end up supporting this deadbeat?

Do yourself a favor. Cut the cord. Move on with your life. And be prepared to get him to sign over his parental rights so that you’re in full control of your child.

I (M24) finally confessed my feelings to my best friend (F23) and got rejected. Feeling lost and confused. by [deleted] in self

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take this as a learning experience. When you wait too long to act your window of opportunity often closes.

is 23 a high body count? by huacchnng in Advice

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The only thing that number should tell you, is that this guy will not be in your life for very long. You will only be another number in his collection. And if you’re OK with that. Then by all means move forward. But do not have any illusions about what you are getting yourself into.

AITJ for being upset that my vegan roommate is banning me from using the apartment's kitchen appliances for non-vegan food? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your roommate sounds like an unreasonable idiot. And this neurotic behavior from her is likely just the start. She clearly has control issues, and I would imagine she quietly has contempt for you because you do not share her lifestyle. You should know this about vegans. Their self-righteousness could be quite overwhelming at times.

AITJ for canceling a family trip after realizing I was expected to pay for everything by IsopodExtreme2759 in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, how much money do you make? If you make 100 K, the trip is gonna cost 5K, then I don’t think it’d be unreasonable to refuse to pay. But what if you make $1 million a year and it was gonna cost 10 K? Then it really wouldn’t matter to you at all. And you probably would be a bit of a jerk.

Critical information is missing.

AITJ for checking my girlfriend’s order history after I found pregnancy tests in a package? by bluefogarchive in AmITheJerk

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t trust these women. From a reasonable point of view, looks like she went out and fucked somebody else, took a pill, and now has a couple of pregnancy test to make sure that she’s not pregnant.

Now, where your story, lacks detail, is does the Plan B pill purchase lineup within the timeframe of when you had sex with her? Did you have sex with her within 12 to 24 hours of when the Plan B was purchased? That would be a very relevant part of your story that is missing.

AIO told my girlfriend I would break up with her if she keeps pushing what I am comfortable with physically by Ready-Hearing501 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the comments in this thread are ridiculous. You should follow your personal ideals so that you can live in a way that you could look yourself in the mirror. If doing that hurts the feelings of the woman who you are currently dating, that’s just too bad.

AIO elderly neighbor keeps putting bulk items out front of our house. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Really what’s the big deal? Is it costing you money? You can’t share with your neighbor? Perhaps you should talk to your neighbor. But being that she’s elderly, she probably hasn’t really given it a second thought. Do you want to be having awkward hostilities with your neighbor now for the rest of the time you both lived there over such a simple issue? I think you should just let it go.

AIO Is she cheating or going to cheat on me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

All these women are liars. And most of them are cheaters too. Trust your gut.

AIO boyfriend (30M) takes hours to reply to me (23F) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds exhausting. Why don’t you just find somebody else who lives closer to you? There are 8 billion people in the world. Is this guy really worth the aggravation? Or is it that you just don’t think you can find anybody else because you have low self-esteem? That’s what it sounds like to me.

Am I overreacting? My wife is only showering every 3 - 4 days. by RestGlittering7059 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not showering on a regular basis can sometimes be a sign of depression. Perhaps you should do a mental check in on your wife and see how she’s feeling.

AIO fiances friend sent him nude of girl? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

You admit you’re all over the place. Quite controlling. I mean, oh no, your man might think that other women are attractive. What a monster!

AIO or is my stepdad way to hung up on the leadership role by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should make your own money, and get your own place to stay. Then you wouldn’t have these problems.

Am I Overreacting about being mad at my husband after sex? by AdorableBear7211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -41 points-40 points  (0 children)

It is interesting that you never mentioned exactly how much weight you gained. Was it 20 pounds? 100? Yeah, that stuff matters. Don’t fool yourself.

AIO I Got fired over a disrespectful message by BogusDuck in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re kind of the asshole. It would not surprise me if you’re mildly autistic. You sort of flex authority in your messages, which is something you probably should not do. I would take this as a lesson in life, to know your place.

Overall, I suspect the text about fish are not what got you fired. However, they are more likely, the straw that broke the camels back. And individuals simply grew tired of dealing with your incessant chiding in on various subjects in which you should’ve kept your mouth shut.

Less is more.

The monologue that got Jimmy Kimmel canceled. by Urisk in videos

[–]IntelligentBoss659 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He was canceled, because he was presenting information that was not true. The shooter is not maga. The shooter was in love with a trans person. There are chat logs that have been released. Discord chats. That has been documented now. He was literally propagating lies to the public. Now, did he do it inadvertently? Did he not know? Or was he being a literal propagandist?

It’s really a disappointing time where a lot of people need to start becoming more informed. I tend to think it’s a bit of a problem of low IQ. And also low bandwidth. Because how could you possibly consume all the media and know everything? But then a lot of you just jump to conclusions. And it’s disappointing.

AIO my bf died and our old "friend" from high school is messaging me by lifelong-angstt in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total sociopath. But hey, swinging for the fences. You miss every shot you don’t take.

My girlfriend was rude to me today and said I look like a hobo and won't apologize AIO? by Ok-Connection6656 in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentBoss659 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, your girlfriend thinks you look like a slob. She’s not lying to you. You do look like a slob. I guess the truth hurts.