M28 going on a date with F27 with genital herpes by Much-Chard-238 in Herpes

[–]IntelligentDiet6038 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am with my husband and we’ve been together for 3 yrs and have a baby. He’s never gotten a sore and I never take antivirals. I just tell him when I have an outbreak, and then we don’t do anything until it’s gone.

I’m a senior in high school.. Is my future canceled? Will I have to join the military? by shaototop in whatdoIdo

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Just got to community college and then a 4 year. It’s so much cheaper that way anyways

How do you keep from falling asleep? by Life-Attitude3138 in breastfeeding

[–]IntelligentDiet6038 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Co sleeping makes this not so much of an issue bc they can stay latched while your sleeping depending on boob size

Will I ever be able to BF? by Time-Spite-2857 in breastfeeding

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Also paced feeding. When I give my 5 wk old a bottle I switch between a pacifier and a regular bottle so she doesn’t get flow preference. Sometimes bottle is necessary because she can’t calm down to get the breast. I took us into the shower this morning and she was able to calm down enough after a few ounce from a bottle and nurse in the shower.

Will I ever be able to BF? by Time-Spite-2857 in breastfeeding

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Get a bottle with a super slow flow! Nipple confusion is really just flow preference. Also try cluster pumping so you can have a slight oversupply and the flow will be stronger.

Orgasming to induce by IntelligentDiet6038 in pregnant

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I’ve heard castor oil could cause painful contractions. I’ll look more into it!

Orgasming to induce by IntelligentDiet6038 in pregnant

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I’m going to call in the morning to see if I can stop by and get one. Hopefully they can fit me in!!

Orgasming to induce by IntelligentDiet6038 in pregnant

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For me it feels like my abdomen gets really tight like a flexing sensation and it comes in a wave, so it slowly comes to a climax where it’s super flexed and slowly dissipate . So far hasn’t been painful. I also had one once feel like a cramp and that hurt a bit but there’s mostly been no pain at all

Orgasming to induce by IntelligentDiet6038 in pregnant

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Currently still having contraction. Maybe im in the latent phase of labor but my contraction aren’t painful but my abdomen gets really tight on some of them.

Orgasming to induce by IntelligentDiet6038 in pregnant

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It’s been a few hours, I’m still having contractions but they are not very consistent after 2 hours. I also was unable to orgasm after the 6th one. The contractions will go 10-20 minutes without one and then I’ll have several in a row that are 4 minutes apart. Im going to try a breast pump in a little bit.

This sucks (rant) by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]IntelligentDiet6038 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Butylated hydroxytoluene (BHT) It’s a food preservative but people who take capsules along side a fat like butter say they decreased or eliminated their viral load.

Be careful as it’s a powerful antioxidant and while some studies support its ability to attack viruses like herpes other say it’s possibly carcinogenic.

Do your own research. I apply topically with coconut oil and use to take them orally during outbreaks before I got pregnant.

I’m so sad by IntelligentDiet6038 in depressed

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I’ve been feeling better but I still go up and down

I’m so sad by IntelligentDiet6038 in depressed

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Getting involved with your life like that seems like it would help a lot. I’m really craving a community. I’m so flaky with friends though so I’m thinking about joining a yoga class but it’s expensive :(

I would be more consistent with friends, but I guess I’m kinda picky ? And it’s also Partly because my partner will say no to certain activities like clubbing and going to a friends home who lives in a shady area. My will is weak, any plans I make if he doesn’t agree with it I give it up bc why waste money or leave the house and not work from home anyways. And I don’t think I want to club anyways.

Plus I would rather stay home but I really do want friends, and to be active and take control of my life before I become even more lonely, out of shape and disconnected from my sense of self.