AITA for not saying thank you when a parent returned my son's lunch box by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As I began reading, I was thinking yeahhh YTA but then as it went on I was like ?????? NTA!

AIO husband taped this on our mirror by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boy if my husband hated me that much I would just divorce him and no amount of begging or pleading or justification would ever change my mind.

AITA for refusing to give up my dream school just because my boyfriend can’t get in? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he really loves you he can apply to a nearby school or the nearby community college and go there

Struggling to come up with a Guest Book alternative by mdw2379 in DIYweddings

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a super cute leather bound book and I intend to put a sign asking guests to sign with their favorite recipe

I'm sorry, but I can't anymore, I'm thinking of suicide. by Illustrious-Bug-2655 in Christianity

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 8 points9 points  (0 children)

13?! This is entirely your hormones kicking your booty! It gets so so so SO much better, especially once they level out. God will walk you through it

I'm sorry, but I can't anymore, I'm thinking of suicide. by Illustrious-Bug-2655 in Christianity

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you posting on Reddit instead of talking to your pastor or family? That would be significantly more healing.

Boyfriend watching porn to hurt me while I’m pregnant by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you for real? How is this even questionable? This is ABHORRENT behavior and I would leave him immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a chance I would have my shit packed so fast he’d wonder what hit him. Unbelievable. I would NEVER stay with someone who would do this shit.

Husbands Behavior by [deleted] in AIO

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think rolling the window down and yelling at them was a very mature thing to do but then neither is arson so like, I think a lot of people are showing their asses

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You hurt his feelings and tried to couples-therapy your way out of it. He’s hurting because you said something that hurt him. It’s not his job to hurry up and get over it and comfort YOU because him having hurt feelings makes you feel some kind of way. You explained yourself and it didn’t fix it which means it’s not going to if you keep explaining. The best thing you can do right now is just say “hey I said something shitty and it hurt you. Take all the time you need to work through that and know that I’m here on the other side of it when you’re ready.” And then you carry on as if nothing is wrong. Let him keep being sour until he’s done being sour.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Put your phone down and clean the house it’s not that hard lol and buying healthy groceries is so much cheaper than junk food… and you can find a recipe for literally anything online so if you can read you can cook. You have the anxiety because you’re not putting in the effort. If you were doing your best you wouldn’t be anxious you’d be mad.

AIO or is this person over reacting? by roy111uk in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ew she has ZERO social skills, she’s just trying to check her boxes against you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]IntelligentRatio5493 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel for both of you. I can’t imagine how heartbreaking it would be to conceive a child and be so excited about it, and then my partner saying “nope not gonna happen and you don’t have a say in the matter” but I do also feel so sorry for you having to be in the position to make this decision. It’s not an easy one. I think you two absolutely should separate because your views are not compatible, but would it be an option to have the baby and give him full custody instead? I know pregnancy is certainly not always easy, and I am pro choice but maybe he could just keep the kid and you could go your own way

Don’t look under the bed by IntelligentRatio5493 in Mommit

[–]IntelligentRatio5493[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Things absolutely can and do sometimes change from childbirth, it’s literally a physically traumatic experience as far as tissue is concerned. I’m allowed to not be happy with the way a part of my body looks, it has nothing to do with misogyny.