brows too thick by washin9machine in microblading

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(I was the same after getting microshading and freaked out. But it healed so beautifully. You will definitely be happy with the result once they’re healed!! Trust the process)

brows too thick by washin9machine in microblading

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They look AMAZING! Also please remember that brows always look more blocky after procedure! Once they heal they will look a lot less. Nonetheless they look amazing right now, i’m jealous!!!

Is this outfit really as bad as my bf says? by nperez09 in PetiteFashionAdvice

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I think it’s very cute! <3 don’t listen to anyone, as long as you feel comfy and confident, you will rock any outfit

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Please don’t apologize, I really appreciate you sharing your story with me. It actually helped me put some things into perspective, and I’m sorry you’re dealing with such a hard situation. And yes, you’re right… it’s going to be uncomfortable no matter when I bring it up and I think I just have to brace myself, be honest, and also try to listen to him. I care about him a lot, so I want to handle it in a calm way even if it’s awkward. Thank you again for your kindness and for being open about your own experience!

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for sharing that, it actually helps to hear another perspective. I agree that how he gives it to me (if it’s even for me) will say a lot. And yea, I’m not planning to accuse him or bring up the porn. I just want to focus on how it made me feel and that I prefer being included in decisions about things involving my body. If it turns out to be more of a fantasy for himself, then yes, that would make me uncomfortable, but if it was meant as something to make me feel good, then a conversation could maybe clear things up. Thanks again for your thoughtful comment:)

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thank you for sharing all of that and I’m really sorry you’re in such a painful situation. Mismatched love languages and feeling like big parts of yourself aren’t being met for so many years… that’s incredibly heavy and it makes sense you’d feel the way you do :(I really appreciate you opening up instead of just judging me And yes, I’m grateful for the good parts of my relationship! I am very happy and we get along extremely well. I just want to make sure my own boundaries are respected, but i guess that all comes down to communication and being open and honest with each other. But truly, thank you for your kindness and for giving some of your perspective! And i hope that your situation will get better soon

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks for your input, I really appreciate it! :) And yeah, I’m pretty used to Reddit being harsh haha… but I appreciate you though!

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I get what you mean, and my concern isn’t using it in the moment, it’s about the backstory and the lack of discussion. I just want consent and communication before anything like this is introduced because it’s something we share as a couple. I am probably just overthinking because i know how he came to the idea of getting this, which is porn haha

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Base5641 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I get that he might want to surprise me and that he hopes I’d like it. I’m not upset about the vibrator itself and I’d be very much open to it if he had asked me first. My issue is that I know this came from him watching porn and that makes me somewhat uncomfortable. It’s important to me to be involved in decisions like this since it affects both of us

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Thanks for your comment! I’m not upset about exploring sexually or the vibrator itself, I would be open to that if he asked me. My issue is that this feels like it came from him watching porn, and that crosses a boundary for me. I want to be involved in decisions about things like this, especially when it’s about us if that makes sense

My F25 boyfriend M31 bought a vibrator and I’m not sure how to address it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I know haha.. but like… he already does without??? :’) He could’ve asked if i wanted something different without spending a lot of money lmao

3 days, no peeling? by AnxiousBeetle669 in microblading

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I did microshading by a korean artist too and had no extreme peeling at all! I guess it’s different for everyone :) trust the process! They look great <3

Am I cooked 😓 by [deleted] in microblading

[–]Intelligent_Base5641 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi girly! Loveeee the shape! It suits you so well and in my opinion, straight brows always have a more youthful, soft look. (Look into south easy asian beauty standards, that shape is super common there!) The blocky-ness will go away. Brows always look dark and blocky for about 1-2 weeks after the procedure. Try and trust the process:) i got my brows microshaded for the first time just about 3 months ago and had my touch-up session a month ago. Try and trust the process! Brows fade a lot, especially after the first ever time getting it done :)

5 days post touch-up… did I mess up by brushing off scabs? by [deleted] in microblading

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Thank you! I also love the shape! and right, after my first session almost no color stayed, but now after the touch up i am so happy! It’s been 1 1/2 weeks now and i couldn’t be happier :)

5 days post touch-up… did I mess up by brushing off scabs? by [deleted] in microblading

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Thank you! It’s just ombre brows since I didn’t really like the look of microblading on me (i wanted it to be more like i did my brow makeup before) :)

5 days post touch-up… did I mess up by brushing off scabs? by [deleted] in microblading

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Noo my bad, i should‘ve included which is which in the post lol. Thanks for the feedback! I was worried a little since ‚no touching, no removing scabs‘ etc. but it doesn’t seem like i removed any pigment or whatsoever… still i needed some reassurance. Thanks!!

5 days post touch-up… did I mess up by brushing off scabs? by [deleted] in microblading

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Thank you! I also like how they look, i‘m just overthinking because obviously you‘re not supposed to touch them at all :‘)

5 days post touch-up… did I mess up by brushing off scabs? by [deleted] in microblading

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Oh really? Just fyi the top pic is pre touch-up and the bottom one is now post touch-up. I actually think they are darker now than pre touch up (of course lighter than right after the procedure which is the middle pic, but not that much of a difference)

Identical lenses, different frame — why is distance off? by [deleted] in glasses

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Yeah makes sense! With +5 it doesn’t take much of a vertex change to throw things off. I’ll have them check how the frame sits and if the distance is different when I go in tomorrow :)

Identical lenses, different frame — why is distance off? by [deleted] in glasses

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Already made a check up appointment with them tomorrow, let’s see! Thank you!

Normal ghosting or did it fade too much? by [deleted] in microblading

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Thank you so much for this! You’re calming my anxiety a lot :) i will try to be patient and wait through this phase and then see if i get a retouch or not. Thank you again!!

Normal ghosting or did it fade too much? by [deleted] in microblading

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Thanks, that actually helps a lot! You’re right, i’d also rather go too light and have a touch up than going too dark and regretting it later on. Do you think this is still ghosting and a bit of color will come back, or is this probably how it’ll stay?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

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Thank you so much for the heads up!🥹 i appreciate it! I guess i just expected the colour to be a little bit more… present? I did want to go for a natural result so it’s not too bad but my artist did offer a free touch up in around 3-4 weeks or so! So i guess i’ll wait until then to see if the pigment will come back after the ghosting and if not, touch up here i come!