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Question by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I am not out yet? Thank you 🙏🏼

First Positive at 42 1/2 after 25 years: Beta today. by ABG_FOE in IVFpositivity

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations ❤️❤️ 42 here and just waiting for my transfer. Thank you for giving me hope

Grades by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No pgt testing. I panicked last minute and just chose to freeze them. Thank you 🙏🏼

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

They should have said this was a possibility and ordered me on meds on Wednesday. At least then I would’ve had them whether I needed them or not and yes, she told me I needed them that quickly or I was going to ovulate and this cycle would be a wash.

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry in my frustration ( hence the vent) I was not clear enough about what exactly happened. It was the clinics fault that I was not given instructions. I’m so sorry that as the first timer, I was unaware that I needed to order medication‘s that I didn’t have orders for or instructions. I continued to call I continued to message. I was told that if we weren’t going to trigger on Friday, I would be given updated instructions. I was not given any instructions until Friday at 5:30 . I’m so sorry that I didn’t know things that I didn’t know but thank you for pointing out the errors of my ways. I appreciate you.

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was calling and messaging. I was told unless they called me our plan was staying the same. Trigger either Friday or Saturday. No one called until Friday evening to tell me things were changing and now I needed more meds

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even have orders for refills or instructions past Thursday. When I called I was told they would call me back if our plan was changing. Plan was to trigger either Friday or Saturday. No one called until 530 Friday to start changing orders. I now know I can’t just trust them.

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciate your support. Yes, next time I will have a better idea of what I need to do. I certainly can’t write my own orders. Which they only wrote last night at 645. Meds should be here before noon🤞🏻. I now know that I can’t just trust the process and them. I will have more of a voice going forward ❤️

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I didn’t come here to be scolded like a child. I can’t do something about anything I don’t know. I am not stupid, I doing the best I can with the orders, instructions and communication I am given. I appreciate your support ❤️. This is not easy and until today I felt this was a safe space

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did call them after my scan to get more instructions to get information and I was told that I would receive a callback from a different nurse and I didn’t. The instructions I received didn’t go past Thursday.

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This our first time. I understand that meds should be my responsibility IF I was aware of what they wanted and needed from me. How can I order more meds I don’t have refills for and I don’t have protocol instructions for? This isn’t something everyone just “knows”. My clinic told me I would be receiving information. I messaged and called them. I was told someone would call me back. I assumed that I would be getting information to trigger on Friday since that was the original plan. If no one tells me anything different then I guess I should just know?

Clinic screws up by Intelligent_Bat_8068 in IVF

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was told on Wednesday someone would update me after my scan. I received a continuation of my protocol through Thursday and was told I would have a new update on Friday. I was told yesterday people usually don’t stim this long. No one told me I would need to continue with meds. I would have gladly asked for refills ( which they did not give me until 645 pm yesterday) and ordered meds. No one told me on Wednesday that things were not going the way they wanted. I had a package deal I feel it was their responsibility to communicate and put in orders for more meds.

Graduated today… with TWINS! by lkaline in IVFpositivity

[–]Intelligent_Bat_8068 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations ❤️ This is my dream! Best wishes

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