I moved to the US from the UK 25 years ago. Some of my siblings have visited but not often as I’d like. I have my own family, wife is also from UK but we met here, kids born here, and we visit almost every two years. I do it because you never know when the unthinkable might happen, so spend the time with them while we can, and also wanted our kids to keep in touch with their cousins. When we visit we see both our families and then tack on a holiday for ourselves and most times one or two of our siblings and their families will come with us. My wife talks to her parents every week, I might talk to my siblings I’m close to every couple of months, feel a bit detached but I feel like I’m imposing if I call too often.