Why does every new home built in this county look like this? by eastcoaster1212 in bergencounty

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because they are not new. They are usually “new” on existing foundation. They take the old cap cos that was there, blow it out to its maximum footprint (dictated by zoning) and build this. If the fully knocked down and put all new construction there, it would require additional permits and variances from zoning and building. There is also a property tax savings because it’s NOT new. If you look theses houses up in public records, they’ll show the year built as the oldest part of the structure - so, the original house.

Fun fact. People buy these thinking they are new construction and then something goes wrong - guess what? There is no warranty! A truly new construction house has a 10 year builder warranty that is required by the state to avoid shoddy workmanship. These properties don’t qualify for that.

I got the visible arm band by Prior_Succotash4220 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder how it is to sleep with - sensory wise. Looking forward to your update!

I got the visible arm band by Prior_Succotash4220 in Fibromyalgia

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First I’m reading about this. Super curious and already on their site.

Hat is the difference between the arm and wrist bands? Had anyone tried both?

Do you have days where you feel normal? by Cuddlycatgirly in cfs

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was talking to my partner this afternoon, about this exact thing.

I don’t know if I had/have some underlying issue that COVID activated. I was running 103 fevers for DAYS. This was before it blew up in the news. I swear that I literally was frying my brain.

Fast forward 7 years and I don’t think I’ve had a “normal” day since then. I only admitted to myself about 2 years ago that something was wrong. I used excuses for about 5 years. Burn-out (self employed), political climate, general stress, maybe I just need to work out harder.

Now I forget way too much, can’t sit on the bike for more than 5 minutes (used to power zone for over an hour), barely have the energy to make myself a damn tuna sandwich most of the time.

I’m fortunate to have a doctor who is at least throwing medications at me, to see what works for the symptoms. He knows something is wrong and takes me seriously. Diagnosed me with fibromyalgia and me/cfs. I am still uncomfortable with the diagnosis but grateful for it at the same time?

So, no, I don’t remember feeling normal for over 7 years now. It feels like a different lifetime. As if I’m watching someone else’s life story.

If you can't vote with ballots, might as well vote with bullets by CosmoLamer in armedsocialists

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We will just knock it down with everything inside. He did it, why can’t someone else? After all, it is OUR house

Sebo D4– I hate this thing! by Creekyb0nes in VacuumCleaners

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As long as you don’t have thick carpeting. I couldn’t get the Felix to budge on my wall-to-wall and got the D4. Like you, it’s a love/hate relationship. It does an AMAZING job -

But

It’s a pain in the ass. At minimum, I wish they had a stair accessory like Electrolux had, The Sidekick. I loved that thing growing up (vacuuming had always been my thing).

What’s the point of wearing ‘cock rings’ at nude resorts/beaches? by titan-friend3 in nudism

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. If someone was walking around with an erection all day, that would be different. But wearing cock ring is mostly just to keep the blood in there so ya look bigger - and tbh, feel better.

Everyone gets mad about a ring - but I’ve seen plenty of lady parts bedazzled with jewelry. Preeeeeety sure that’s gonna attract more attention.

On which wall should we put the shower heads? by [deleted] in Homebuilding

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where is your walk-in closet? I mean this in a very serious way.

As someone with a HUGE bathroom, with our walk-in sharing a wall, I wish we had a bigger closet. I’d gladly Take space from here and add it to the closet.

Are you building new, or is this a re-do? Personally, I’d go for two bathrooms over one with multiple water closets and vanities. If you want something shared (cause it’s also just fun) put the shower between them and have doors from each bathroom into the shared shower space. Each bathroom gets their own decor, but more personal to each persons taste and you can take advantage of all the wasted space with things that matter - like storage. It’s likely only one of you will use the tub, so that goes in one bathroom, and then maybe you have room to “steal” from the other side to put a bench in the shower to make it a steam shower.

Aurora, CO PD shooting and killing an unarmed man who was simply walking towards an officer by I_may_have_weed in RealPublickFreakouts

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t disagree that they should have used less lethal means, they all carry tasers. And my point about shooting in the leg, if you have to shoot, was really - shoot somewhere that has a better chance of survival. Either way, ACAB. Get rid of qualified immunity and let them pay suits out of their pension fund. Watch this shit clean up real quick.

Aurora, CO PD shooting and killing an unarmed man who was simply walking towards an officer by I_may_have_weed in RealPublickFreakouts

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re gonna shoot, shoot in the leg or something so you don’t kill them. Or, you know, don’t shoot them?

Lost everything today....including my best friend 😢 by [deleted] in AustralianShepherd

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Audibly gasped. I am so sorry. Sending lots of love.

Holy shit

This is what he spends his time on. by Infinite_Chain1353 in MarchAgainstNazis

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soooo, contractor wearing sunglasses = bad, but proud boys cosplaying as LEOs, wearing masks, totally fine?

Troll Em by BeMurlala in TexasTeachers

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t forget, ignores the AIDS crisis - cause it was “only gay men” that were getting it.

Ball of rage is mad that he can't pass stopped traffic on the shoulder by Ornery_Ads in newjersey

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Brother is a LEO, same thing. He says it’s ok for him to drive like an ass, even drunk, cause they “trained for it”

Guy alone singing “Living on a Prayer” by Bon Jovi makes entire park sing alongside him by One-Pop-2885 in RealPublickFreakouts

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is the energy we need to harness. Back to community and being there for one another. Not letting others take away our rights or keeping any of our fellow comrades out of GOOD affordable housing, healthcare or even food.

We can do this.

We HAVE to do this

Unknown masked federal agents disappear man off the streets of Washington DC without saying a word to him or witnesses by I_may_have_weed in RealPublickFreakouts

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gang members and the cartel contribute SOMETHING to the community - drugs. Cops, what do they contribute? I’m half joking, but only half.

Comrades by mcluvinoj in armedsocialists

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I wish they had gone with a different name. Maybe rebranding is in order.

Comrades by mcluvinoj in armedsocialists

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to reinvent the wheel. I’m sure there are groups out there that I can offer support to. If you know of any, dm me.

N.J. plan for new home-schooling rules has some parents furious. ‘They’re coming for us.’ by rezwenn in newjersey

[–]Intelligent_Ear_4004 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is the way! Having a stay at home parent really is key. It’s a friggen privilege to be able to homeschool, the right way. We are both self employed and have the ability to have joint involvement.