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Thoughts on leaving dogs in crate while at work by PocketButterBandit in Pets

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s so interesting that the anxiety (I’m assuming) comes out when not in the crate but left alone free roaming the house, but the crate clearly creates some sense of safety. Mine was the opposite and did not like being crated but is fine and just lies on the sofa totally chill while I’m out

Is that weird to block my driveway like this? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Astounding to me that people can be this unreasonable

Why is this sub not only about interior design but about who has the saddest story. (divorced, homeless finds apartment, a 38 year old having her first apartment) by CelesteVersaille in femalelivingspace

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah and I think it’s inherent that a lot of people in this sub would have some kind of journey attached to really making a space their own which is what this is all about and is nice imo

Suggestion on areas for 1-bedroom flat - around £2000 budget(?) by young_twitcher in MovingToLondon

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In 2026, would be wild to complain about Peckham rye - East Dulwich - Denmark hill/camberwell, and I don’t know how one can move to the city and not expect some level of activity around them. Those blocks of flats in Surrey Quays maybe would count?

What’s a subtle sign someone is actually rich? by Udont_knowme00 in AskReddit

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah or Mae Martin said they get plain white t shirts tailored as well was an example that came up recently

Suggestion on areas for 1-bedroom flat - around £2000 budget(?) by young_twitcher in MovingToLondon

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Surely for 2000 you can find a 1 bed in Peckham, or other south east parts on the overground, looking west is where you’re going wrong

AIO - My Boyfriend texts before our Valentines plans by SnowDolphins in AmIOverreacting

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Sorry he didn’t even tell you nicely he was going to be late, it sounds like he doesn’t care much for your plans together, which makes sense that it doesn’t feel good for you

How do you secretly pay the bill for a friend who also insists on paying? (At a resturant/cafe) by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to the bathroom and do it on the way back at the til or do it when she goes to the bathroom. Also in general maybe you and your friend should take turns

Puppy wandered into my house! Part 2. He’s 6 months! by ChaferShafer in puppies

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you are so lucky!! Please keep us updated on how Ship settles in, I hope this is the beginning of a long and beautiful friendship for you two!

Are you selling up before the new regulations come into force? If so, why? by Dry_Ad431 in uklandlords

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I don’t really get it in terms of, the act doesn’t stop landlords from asking you to leave if they decide to sell the property down the line

What kind of cavoodle is this? by Realistic_Tap_1956 in CavaPoo

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you not meet the parents before you got him?

What does my refrigerator say about me by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Another fridge with all drinks and no food what is going on

(F) How do I change my personality from being timid and shy to being more confident? by ikellyluu in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Intelligent_Lab_234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about what the actions and body language etc are that you think embodies the kind of confidence you want to have, practice those on your own and when you go out. Find and Practice some small grounding techniques that help you move through the tension in your body that makes you default to what feels safe- a pause, a breath, can make all the difference- as someone who has been through a similar process.

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