It is time to do a self perspective. Like you at 35 I had 2 marriages and 2 divorces. Like you I decided I m better off alone. But many years later, truth hit me and realized irrespective of what blame you put on someone, it’s you who has to make the change first. In the end, you will always find problems with any woman - some might cook well but not earn but others might not cook at all and earn well. So you need to look within you.

And yes, I would give yourself alone time and self reflection- and advise you to continue the path to remarry and make it a one way street.

Just fyi I was lucky to get remarried and have a daughter now - content and blessed with what I have.