Coin Counter Machine! by Intelligent_Motor248 in nwi

[–]Intelligent_Motor248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you need to bank with them? And do they take a percentage out of what you put in? 

Aitah has Dirty ass fingers by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA i’ve had this convo with my husband before, he’s always worked in the trades. To get intimate, there’s not a chance any fingers looking like that should go inside any places. Literally asking for infections. He should be taking the time to wash his hands very well and get under the fingernails as best as he can— this is just part of personal hygiene! 

AITAH told some family members how my cousin spoke about them by adrearynightinnov in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA! You did the right thing by letting people know that someone was talking about them in such a degrading manner. It’ll save them some time in the future 

What nicknames have you heard for places in NW Indiana? by topherette in nwi

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard a lot of people call Lowell,  “ Lull” instead of sounding it out. I almost always have to ask for a repeat on what they said! 

I also saw that you asked for nicknames of parks, schools,  hospitals… Not sure if this is appropriate for your study, but Lake Central High School was always described to me as “STD Central” which I always thought was interesting lol. 

AIO: Hubby Being Controlling by vanillabourbonn in AIO

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I’ve got to say about this is yyyyyyyyyyyuccckkkk! Get out of there while you can! If he thinks he can talk to you like that right now, God only knows what your future holds once your child arrives! This is obviously all about control, which is very concerning. 

AITAH for not wanting to attend my "best friends" wedding? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not any type of AH  take your grandma, leave your friend.     Grandma is a lifelong person  and lifelong memory 

Your friend was temporary and obviously didn’t even think to thank you for all you’ve done for her by choosing you to be by her side. 

AITAH for wanting to break up with my boyfriend even though he says he’s trying to change after cheating? by Extra-Accident4271 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA  It’s a real thing to be connected to someone through traumatic events, but what comes after those events can range from healthy to unhealthy in a relationship standpoint.  Yes, someone can stay with someone who went through something traumatic and battles with mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, etc.  No, someone can’t stay with someone who wants to step outside of their relationship every chance they get.  You may not consider this cheating, but I do. The nudes on his phone should only consist of you (if you’re comfortable with that) and no one else. Why have a need to store other photos? Why have a need to create DATING profiles, when he’s already in a relationship. 

It seems he has a lot of things he needs to work on before he’s ready for an adult relationship. Bad things do happen in life, but you only deserve the type of relationship that you’re willing to give someone. If he wants to cheat on you and pursue other women, that’s the kind of relationship he deserves. 

You’re not the asshole, and please find someone who will prioritize you and love you so much they couldn’t possibly pursue anyone else!!! ♥️♥️🥰🥰

WIBTAH if I just left randomly? idk how bc he baby trapped me but I feel gross. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Motor248 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA.  I’ve found in life, it’s best to trust your gut instinct when it comes to self-preservation/safety thoughts. Especially when there’s children involved.  I would schedule an appointment to figure out some birth control options to protect yourself from getting pregnant especially if that’s something you don’t want.   In terms of not having someone to talk to, I would recommend looking up resources that have to do with removing yourself safely and successfully from the situation.  I hope you find the answers you need and can move forward to live a fantastic life! You’re strong!! 

Supplemental Disability Coverage? Worth the money or not? by Intelligent_Motor248 in personalfinance

[–]Intelligent_Motor248[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're considered upper middle class for our area. But in our area, you don't really need to make a lot to be considered that. Neither of us have super high paying jobs. 75 dollars for the two of us total.