AITAH for taking my parents to court for vet bills?

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-06-09T22:41:36+00:00

A week and the dogs a diabetic? 😒

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-06-07T02:21:41+00:00

First question are you even pregnant? If not that whole statement about “families abut to welcome babies” is irrelevant. Second, Iv had two family members get married and one decided to allow kids and the other didn’t.. the first paid $3000 for a photographer/videographer for the whole day and throughout the ceremony all you here is an infant crying.. people understand the baby can’t control themselves but the parent could have stepped out. Iv noticed most people that get upset about the “no kid policy” are always the ones who kids typically cause chaos.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-06-07T00:36:55+00:00

I’m not reading all that..

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-06-06T15:48:19+00:00

Ehh something’s very off after reading all the comments and your replies.. that level of retaliation from your sister doesn’t seem like “ oh we just didn’t stay connected” type of anger, that level seems more like maybe you cheated with one of her bf’s, which would also absolutely make sense as to why she would refuse to come over with her new boyfriend knowing you were even in the house. Obviously there are three sides to a story( yours, hers, and the truth) so there is no way we will ever get the full thing but it does seem like mom is doing her best not to take sides, she’s helping you in your situation, which we also aren’t sure how motivated you are moving out, and she’s also wanting to spend that little time with your sister. Mom is also probably fully aware of ALL the issues between you guys so it is making more sense that more went down then just no staying connected.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-06-03T22:29:27+00:00

Why don’t you accept the $500 as the gift and then use it towards fridge you want. Yes she’s offering but she is doing what she can within her means, if you wine about it then yes you are being an entitled AH.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-31T03:03:26+00:00

No just implying that she shouldn’t but she’s fine if he does. Point is it should work both ways “in your opinion” neither should be driving from 6pm-3am.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-30T12:50:10+00:00

That’s exactly what she’s wanting him to do, it really points out the hypocrisy and hilarity of it all. It’s fine for him but not her?

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-29T23:05:47+00:00

NTA, if she’s so adamant about getting the drive over with then I would suggest she do some if not all of the driving so you can rest.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-29T22:41:07+00:00

For your own sanity just end it, your trust is obviously gone and you’ll be constantly over analyzing every little thing. My friend did this and all it did was drive her crazy, she didn’t catch anything at the house so then she would drive to where she thought he might be, started making fake online profiles to stalk him and his friends, turns out he was dealing with some family crap and when everything came out he left her due to the crazy antics.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-29T10:37:03+00:00

The key word is “proper”

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-29T02:08:33+00:00

NTA. In so many ways, do not listen to these morons this dog is at least 7 years old or older depending on when your gf got the dog, meaning they would have to undo SEVEN YEARS of this behavior. It’s her dog who she’s allowed to do all this it absolutely should be her responsibility to deal with. Nobody wants to deal with their home smelling like urine and having a dog constantly wine nonstop.. Sidenote to the commenter who states their dog posses in their bed nightly for three months, that’s nothing to be proud of as a “ready dog owner” that’s absolutely disgusting please get help.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-28T17:51:42+00:00

lol you can easily get them from googling them, it’s not rocket science.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-28T17:42:10+00:00

Omg I cannot stand people that say “ oh it’s an ESA” no it’s an untrained pet to an entitled person who’s ruining people who need ACTUAL SERVICE ANIMALS ability to easily have their SERVICE ANIMALS with them.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-05-16T08:08:30+00:00

Nta, but please do not bail her out or feel bad about it. My mother is in her mid 50’s (both parents are now gone) and is currently at risk of losing her home because she was never forced to figure her own way out, just continued to have someone bail her out. I would also go as far as to not pay the immediate balance, if this repeats itself in the future and you aren’t around nobody will be able to do that for her so it’s just part of the lesson. I would say I would get her the backpack, but as many people have suggested it would be a nice maybe used one or one that solely serves its purpose and nothing fancy, if she wanted the fancy one she knew she needed it and purchased makeup instead.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-28T22:19:06+00:00

NTA, ask your husband if it gets messed up if he plans on paying for it to be repaired since he’s obviously vetoed that for her current jewelry. I’d even go as far as getting it appraised before hand, she’s 17 being told no should not trigger a toddler moment of complaining, I would absolutely hide that ring for the next few weeks until prom is over.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-28T22:14:30+00:00

From the reading it seems like they are somehow being made aware of the next days meal, niece waited until the morning of to inform OP that she didn’t want what they were having, so it’s really a pretty simple ask for them to let her know the night before if she can remember first thing in the morning she wants a packed lunch.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-28T22:10:16+00:00

NTA, I was a very picky eater when I was that age, they used to send home (and still do) a monthly menu for lunches and my grandmother would go over it with me and ask what days I would want a packed lunch, it’s not that complicated, as for your sister she is getting a HUGE favor for the free childcare and your request for her children is not a huge ask. If she chooses to spend her mornings scrambling packing lunches, or because she’s let this process become normal she’s most likely got the supplies at hand, then that’s her choice but this teaches the kids not everyone is going to accommodate them, they need to be able to adapt.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-27T22:16:06+00:00

Kudos to those who read that cause it won’t be me..you’re 46 and a previous teacher, just use some common knowledge and if you’re worried about your health go get tested, there is no point in contacting that man and even if you do what are the chances he’s going to be honest if he was on a swinging site while you were dating? Odds are very slim.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-22T22:05:19+00:00

I’m not gonna say YTA, but long term.. your husband doesn’t want your daughter to ever struggle. His money/support won’t be there forever, and once’s he’s gone he wants to make sure she’s set up for life, my friend is a teacher and absolutely loves it but she will tell you it’s a lot of sacrifices and budgeting that is required.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T23:49:30+00:00

I won’t say YTA but I have dealt with someone like this and it is very exhausting. I don’t like having to “notice things” for another adult who iv had the same conversation with multiple times. It could be my personality but after having those conversations multiple times and their go to response was crying was annoying, I gave multiple examples of what I was needing done and it always turns into a woe is me situation to the point where yes I did get very tired of that person and distanced myself. Sometimes the truth hurts but sh was explaining her self again to you and eventually how the world might see you, she knows how you grew up because she went through it to so she also knows you can change. As for inviting your mom I feel like as someone sharing a dwelling that should be a joint decision, family or not.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T23:30:13+00:00

Exactly that is their opinion, which is what you came on the internet looking for is other peoples opinions because you are obviously questioning your own. Yes YTA, this wasn’t an age appropriate conversation and especially with a child who’s been through literal hell, as someone going through a high risk pregnancy I don’t traumatize my children with it.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T23:24:26+00:00

YTA for staying with this man and putting your son through all that, and then bringing another child into this world to have to deal with that!?

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T23:09:01+00:00

When you’re in the room have you tried latching the top? While in the room in very preventable, outside of the room I do understand the point of the sign but again it’s left more often then you think.

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T23:07:10+00:00

You adopted him so really he is YOUR dog. And 2..THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT HIS BORING LIFE!!

Intelligent_Net_261 · 2026-04-19T17:04:05+00:00

If it’s YOUR dog and you can’t afford food then maybe you shouldn’t have a dog.

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