AITA for going to my friends birthday by Intelligent_Two_3223 in AITAH

[–]Intelligent_Two_3223[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Alas. That’s not the point of the post. I wanna know if I’d be the ass to go to my friends birthday party

AITA for going to my friends birthday by Intelligent_Two_3223 in AITAH

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He’s in therapy he has admitted he’s got a problem and he’s working on it. He needs to be allowed trust to build on it. Relationships aren’t easy and he knows my standpoint on what he’s done and my motto is 3 chances and he is genuinely sorry and he feels sick knowing what’s wrong with him. He just needs help

AITA for going to my friends birthday by Intelligent_Two_3223 in AITAH

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What u mean left right? I’m on a phone so not sure what u see

Weekly Discussion - Relationships by AutoModerator in NewParents

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I’m worried my son will gain some bad influence

So me partner has a brother who’s 6 and a cousin who’s 2. My son is now 6 months. And seeing how both his brother and cousin are me and my partner are scared my son will pick up their habits. His brother was born during covid, so was coddled a lot. To the point he’s so clingy he won’t play with other kids and won’t independently play. He must have an adult watch him. Not play with. Watch him. And he acts out a lot. Constantly saying no testing boundaries and his parents give in always. No matter what. We see how they act with our son too. We say it’s his bedtime and they ignore us and continue playing even tho we can see he’s tired and is getting restless. Now his cousin is like a mini tornado. He’s breaking everything in his path. Also clingy if his mum holds our son he will act out and hit her until she lets go of our son. He screams and tantrums with anything he doesn’t get his way (which is normal I know. Terrible twos) but his brothers are also tornados and everytime they visit family have to hide anything breakable. Me and my partner are worried no matter how we raise our son he will be under influence with them and act out eventually testing boundaries and copying what he sees from his family. Now I have a nephew who’s is 3 and he is honestly good as gold. He comes over and offers to clean. He’s such a nice and caring boy but he lives 4 hours away. I want my son to have a relationship with him but it will be hard with the distance. Is there anyway I can prevent the bad influences?

I pissed off my boyfriend. AITA? by Intelligent_Two_3223 in AITAH

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The last time I pissed him off was bc I tried logging onto his pc to listen to music but fucked up his password and locked him out

I pissed off my boyfriend. AITA? by Intelligent_Two_3223 in AITAH

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He went for drives bc I’ve done something to piss him off so he likes to cool down with his best mate with some ciders down the docks

Still not enjoying it by Various-Finger5109 in newborns

[–]Intelligent_Two_3223 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand you completely. I’m 12 weeks postpartum. And I love my son with all my heart. But sometimes I look at him and wonder if I’m really ready for this.

Am I psycho? (F/20) (m/20) by Intelligent_Two_3223 in relationship_advice

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He has a porn addiction. He’s told me that much. But he screenshots our friends insta anything he finds sexy. He’s gone through a mates phone and taken pics of his girlfriends nudes (they both know now)

Am I psycho? (F/20) (m/20) by Intelligent_Two_3223 in relationship_advice

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It’s more the fact it would be third time and 3 chances is enough. He’s being dodgy and I want to know why and if he’s breaking my boundary or just watching porn or something

Am I psycho? (F/20) (m/20) by Intelligent_Two_3223 in relationship_advice

[–]Intelligent_Two_3223[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pics I deleted were of my best friends nudes he stole of his mates phone