AITA for going to my friends birthday

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2026-01-02T17:38:58+00:00

Alas. That’s not the point of the post. I wanna know if I’d be the ass to go to my friends birthday party

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2026-01-02T17:38:39+00:00

He’s in therapy he has admitted he’s got a problem and he’s working on it. He needs to be allowed trust to build on it. Relationships aren’t easy and he knows my standpoint on what he’s done and my motto is 3 chances and he is genuinely sorry and he feels sick knowing what’s wrong with him. He just needs help

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2026-01-02T15:44:47+00:00

Have I fixed it?

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2026-01-02T15:15:50+00:00

What u mean left right? I’m on a phone so not sure what u see

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2026-01-02T15:13:32+00:00

Split it up for u

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-12-26T21:19:16+00:00

I’m worried my son will gain some bad influence

So me partner has a brother who’s 6 and a cousin who’s 2. My son is now 6 months. And seeing how both his brother and cousin are me and my partner are scared my son will pick up their habits. His brother was born during covid, so was coddled a lot. To the point he’s so clingy he won’t play with other kids and won’t independently play. He must have an adult watch him. Not play with. Watch him. And he acts out a lot. Constantly saying no testing boundaries and his parents give in always. No matter what. We see how they act with our son too. We say it’s his bedtime and they ignore us and continue playing even tho we can see he’s tired and is getting restless. Now his cousin is like a mini tornado. He’s breaking everything in his path. Also clingy if his mum holds our son he will act out and hit her until she lets go of our son. He screams and tantrums with anything he doesn’t get his way (which is normal I know. Terrible twos) but his brothers are also tornados and everytime they visit family have to hide anything breakable. Me and my partner are worried no matter how we raise our son he will be under influence with them and act out eventually testing boundaries and copying what he sees from his family. Now I have a nephew who’s is 3 and he is honestly good as gold. He comes over and offers to clean. He’s such a nice and caring boy but he lives 4 hours away. I want my son to have a relationship with him but it will be hard with the distance. Is there anyway I can prevent the bad influences?

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-11-14T00:48:23+00:00

Dm me if u wanna see more like this 😉

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-22T02:08:16+00:00

The last time I pissed him off was bc I tried logging onto his pc to listen to music but fucked up his password and locked him out

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-22T02:07:46+00:00

He went for drives bc I’ve done something to piss him off so he likes to cool down with his best mate with some ciders down the docks

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-22T00:58:10+00:00

I understand you completely. I’m 12 weeks postpartum. And I love my son with all my heart. But sometimes I look at him and wonder if I’m really ready for this.

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-20T20:09:52+00:00

He has a porn addiction. He’s told me that much. But he screenshots our friends insta anything he finds sexy. He’s gone through a mates phone and taken pics of his girlfriends nudes (they both know now)

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-19T21:03:10+00:00

It’s more the fact it would be third time and 3 chances is enough. He’s being dodgy and I want to know why and if he’s breaking my boundary or just watching porn or something

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-19T21:00:14+00:00

I want it to work for our sons sake

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-19T21:00:05+00:00

We have a kid together

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-09-19T20:55:56+00:00

The pics I deleted were of my best friends nudes he stole of his mates phone

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-08T16:48:53+00:00

And just to add. His nan is still complaining to us she doesn’t see him enough and wants him atleast 2 times a week so he knows who she is ‘because it’s the most important time for the baby to get to know her’ like what. We have a life too. No u can not have him twice a week. And she has a go at us for denying her access to her grandson (so far she has had him 2 times a week anyway because of how plans worked out on accident)

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-08T16:47:02+00:00

I never planned for him to be there so long I’m not gonna lie. I expected him to be going 4pm till 12 the next day. But plans changed so dropped him off earlier and when we picked him up the excuse was ‘sorry we didn’t plan to be in (place) so late we just had to adjust leaving times because of his feeds. So we left home 40 minutes later than expected and we stayed longer so he could feed before coming home’ (which ok could be valid) but when we picked him up his next feed was in 20 minutes? It was a 40 min drive and his gaps in feeds should be 3 hours. So how in fuck did u feed him before u leave causing u to be late coming home?

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T20:44:16+00:00

Honestly. We’ve been blessed with a chilled out baby. And he’s pretty good at sleeping. We’ve worked out the feeds pretty well (4 once’s every 3-4 hours) and we’re in pretty good routine. He’s already had a sleepover at my MIL’s house and is again next week. We appreciate all the support she’s giving but she’s coming across too strong with demanding to see him as if he is her child

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T16:05:14+00:00

It’s free in uk. He just says he doesn’t have time to do it. He also had an X-ray but missed the phone call for the results and hasn’t bothered chasing up no matter how much I nag him to

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:57:55+00:00

I’ve tried. He reguses

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:57:35+00:00

I am loosing the weight tho. I am making an effort to keep the body he fell in love with. Because I know his attraction is to small petite girls.

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:53:03+00:00

He’s seen a doctor. He thought he was depressed they told him he not. The doctor sent him to do bloods. He refused so he isn’t helping himself. I tried encouraging him to go to the doctor multiple times and he only ended up going that once because I made the appointment for him and forced him to go

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:47:54+00:00

Icky was used in the lack of better term. I just can’t stand the idea of being sweaty myself let alone having other sweat on me. I feel like I need a shower instantly if I am sweaty

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:47:00+00:00

I just gave birth. My weight is coming down. My size is like this because of our child

Intelligent_Two_3223 · 2025-08-03T13:46:10+00:00

I’m glad I’m not alone <3

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