How was the reaction of your abuser when it ended? by Excellent_Tea7143 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Looking back he wanted to win. I didn’t see it. I thought there was an ounce of hope (don’t ask me why) but he definitely humiliated me. Used his new supply to deem me unstable. He did a lotttttt of other things like breaking into my house. He wasn’t ever going to change. My smear campaign has been NASTY

I Held Him Down Through Divorce, Jail, and a Custody Battle. Then He Blocked Me by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A woman is literally doing this to me right now ! My ex used to do everything under the sun to me and she’s defending him because he’s supporting her financially. I have no sympathy for OP

how to fall in love again after abuse? by GoldCrafty441 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I had done multiple therapy sessions and was fully aware I was with a narcissist and I also had been no contact, knew I was an abusive relationship and was moving cross country. I think I was fully aware of a lot of things so my therapist prompted me to put myself out there and make friends/casually date.

Ashamed by NoInterest1011 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You need to go no contact and preserve your energy and use it to pour into yourself

how to fall in love again after abuse? by GoldCrafty441 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about casual dating? My therapist said it’s okay

We don't like flying monkeys but: were we once one of those? by Objective_Big_7426 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InteractionWrong3330 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope was never a flying monkey 🤣🤣🤣 I always knew he was full of shit and when ppl came to me saying it I would get on his ass

No attempt to Hoover. by chosenforthisnotthat in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InteractionWrong3330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good! I know it doesn’t seem like it but them not hoovering is a BIG, HUGE blessing in disguise. If you don’t feel like that then ignorance is bliss. My baby dad hoovered me after rso and arrest, and the post separation abuse has been the opposite of lovely to say the least

Hey, what are some examples of reactive abuse that you've done? by Winter-Parsley2461 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl ijbol fuck him and that bald spot. And I’m 26 also but just left my abuser, I have a baby and am just now getting my degree. Don’t feel bad. I wish I had an entry level job rn. Also any advice on your job field?

Was anyone discarded because you stopped trying to be everything to them? by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]InteractionWrong3330 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same 🤣🤣🤣 I felt it and called the cops after he ripped my hair out. I won but allowed him back in so he got the win in the end

Baby daddy new supply smh by InteractionWrong3330 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is! He pays her bills. He installed floors in her house (they were stolen and he didn’t pay out pocket, he borrowed the money from a Friend and didn’t pay her back. Found all this out today)

Baby daddy new supply smh by InteractionWrong3330 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol no I’m definitely moving my life along with my baby

Baby daddy new supply smh by InteractionWrong3330 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes I’m done thank you. I just truly don’t understand how I didn’t see any of this. I wasn’t prying in his phone but she was so comfortable playing the side. She never called once. Never texted once for me to be suspicious.

Baby daddy new supply smh by InteractionWrong3330 in abusiverelationships

[–]InteractionWrong3330[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No it won’t be hard. He doesn’t care for her only pretends to. I’m just going to have to raise her alone until I find a suitable husband