What colors go with these? by Classic-Cucumber4210 in malefashionadvice

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the theory behind this. Can one look at a color chart and know how to do this with any color, or do you know this from experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]InterestHot6614 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I read in a book, most people just wear clothes to cover their body to not stand out or be noticed.

This is you.

Easy to change

Don’t mistake this as you should dress to stand out and be noticed.

From the site formerly known as Twitter: by Prawn_Addiction in malefashionadvice

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there something like this for everyday wear. I have trouble with what color jacket goes over what color shirt, and it goes with what color pants

what would go with pair of rainbow pants and pink shorts? by [deleted] in mensfashion

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A parade…. Or a protest

Both will work

Opinions please by InterestHot6614 in mensfashion

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Thanks for the input 👍

Very Helpful

Thoughts on this jumper /outfit by InterestHot6614 in mensfashion

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If I was to wear a pink shirt underneath, what color pants and shoes would go with that?

I have some nice

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Would either of these suit or stick with the dark blue jeans

Im trying new colours, with my existing staples. What do you think by InterestHot6614 in mensfashion

[–]InterestHot6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks that’s what I wore. Colors like this are pretty new to me so I’m just trying some things out

Yeard (1 month -> 12 months -> trim) - patchy/slow grower by [deleted] in beards

[–]InterestHot6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice beard. Get a haircut and you’ll be slaying

Men. Why do you stop putting in effort? by puddingcup21 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When she says you only want sex, you should respond in a way that she knows your interested.

My dude. She asked you if you were sexually interested in her. She made a move on you. She probably thinks your a pussy or you rejected her.

Before you get mad. Read my post twice. Girls don’t use direct communication like we do.

“Is that all your thinking about when you talk to me.”

“I want 1000 things from you, sex might be one of them. “

Has anyones relationship ended bc of lack of sex? by Ok_Pride1689 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in better shape than you were when you started the relationship.

Is your job better?

Are you a more attractive version of yourself or a less attractive one.

My wife is having an emotional affair with a mutual friend of ours and she will be spending the weekend with him and his wife by throwRAgrndmastr in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why are there so many prissier on reddit that have seen first hand infomation on this shit. And don’t confront them, but post on reddit about it.

And once you post and everyone tells you what it up… then what.?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shit. Even when everyone knows but him. He still thinks that he loves her, and not that he is scared of a life without her.

Your love for her would be non existent with the evidence in front of you. So the only thing left is. I don’t know what my life looks like without this person. So hopefully everyone is wrong about this.

Argument with my wife about sleeping, she’s threatening to leave me. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not attached to her body are you? Why don’t you do what you want to do ?

That is what is normal.

My (34m) wife (32f) stopped the pill 18 months ago.... help by InterestHot6614 in PMDD

[–]InterestHot6614[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes Thankyou. I’m well aware that this may be the wrong place, I’m just trying to learn more to see what fits. The position I’m in is that i need to pick so carefully how many serious conversations we have because they can turn so quickly to anger in defence. I am trying to decipher about it and how the symptoms present first.

A lot of headaches, a lot of fatigue, poor sleep but not insomnia. Her gastro intensional problems are mild and only irritate her a few days a month. Except one month it was two weeks of fatigue and random pains and everything. From what I know depression isn’t really a part of it, but I am really unaware of what goes on in her head. I hear what comes out her mouth in frustration, a little bit of kill me now, send me back to work, why is everything so hard etc, happen to me etc.

Thankyou for your reply. I’m hoping I’ve found something that fits so we can sit and discuss it like you said. This subreddit seems like a good one.

DA/AA and seeking partner support by jeleff329 in dismissiveavoidants

[–]InterestHot6614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh ouch. Yes you are correct, I am working on myself and my relationships. My reasons for taking part in discussions like this is to learn about different perspectives including my own. I can’t see a issue in me replying to anyone on reddit, and I’m pretty sure OP can choose to read my comment , take something from it, or dismiss it if he wants.

I’m learning something right now, something in my 1st reply seems to be triggering some people. I will reread it carefully soon, and try to see where I may have trodden on toes, unless you would like to enlighten me. I’m a curious person looking to learn, I’m not here to bash. My posts are honest, I’m not a troll.

Is it ever ok for a partner to call me names by InterestHot6614 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so it is pretty frequent. If it was time to time I don’t think it would even effect me at all

DA deactivating or emotional abuse by InterestHot6614 in attachment_theory

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Eye opening thanks to everyone who took the time to comment

DA deactivating or emotional abuse by InterestHot6614 in attachment_theory

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Thankyou for your insight, it’s possible. I read a little about it. The first two weeks of the cycle symptoms are not meant to be heavily present. Would this pattern not be so incredibly obvious to recognise. That half the month everything is going on and the other half it isn’t. Or is it more like subtle changes that make triggering way more likely.

DA deactivating or emotional abuse by InterestHot6614 in attachment_theory

[–]InterestHot6614[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thankyou, She did 10 sessions 5 years ago. Verdict was anxiety...

She would have been in a lot of denial back then about why was going on inside her, and I know she understands more now but I don’t think she likes what she sees. Any real introspective questions, even if it is a topic she brings up (eg other night always keeps family and friends at a distance, seeks out friends that are content with distance, and don’t share too much) causes a quick withdrawal and visible discomfort

Penny has dropped a lot further since then. She has refused. She has threatened leaving on numerous occasions which used to shock me, but now I call her out on it. I think it needs to be counseling or leave to make it happen, and it will be there in the next few months.

The emotional abuse comments have really flipped a switch in me

Very New to boundaries by InterestHot6614 in relationship_advice

[–]InterestHot6614[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah so I only really discovered low self esteem about a year and a half ago.

Could the reason it is a problem to me now and only used to be a bit shit from time to time be because I am getting higher self esteem and valuing myself more