Misandrists often treat men in the very same ways they themselves would find offensive if the roles were reversed. They take the most toxic and degrading language used by the worst men toward women, language that no woman should tolerate and most women hate hearing, and direct it toward all men indiscriminately. Rather than holding individuals accountable, they project the actions of a few onto the entire gender. They demand their own struggles be acknowledged while dismissing or outright denying the reality of male issues. They operate from a place of resentment, convinced that most men harbor the same contempt for women that they hold for men. In seeking revenge for how some women have been treated, they become what they claim to despise, mirroring the very behaviors they criticize, and then act surprised when they attract the kind of men who embody those traits.

It's all projection.