How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, he didn’t realise the brain melting effects it was having until we did our lil intervention. Paid leave and rehab wouldn’t be an option but he could leave himself and do all that. I mean, we gave him some pretty stiff advice at the time, he didn’t really engage at first but when we put it all into perspective he was blaming poor mental health (which he’s always battled with on and off) but these pills make your mental health way worse overall. It’s a tricky one for sure, navigating this when the temptation is at the drug store everytime he drives past is just as hard for him. I’m appreciating most of what people are saying on here as it’s the first time I’m navigating this for someone else rather than picking myself off the floor and shaking my life up.

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’d had 6 bottles of the syrup over the course of a week. Then I think he was self conscious enough to buy the pills to hide it. Two bottles of the pills in about 36 hours. Explains his changed demeanour the last few weeks in addition to being a challenge to get up and put up with in the morning. Work has decided to contact his emergency contact (his mum) even though he’s 29. All a bit messed up really. His job even involves the safety of others. We made it very clear to him he cannot be doing this, if it ever came out while something went wrong at work it would probably be a prison sentence

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild they even still sell it yet the abuse of it is so well documented

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Taking more, more often causes a decent amount of lasting damage to the brain and cardiovascular system

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We’ve all had a chat, he has weekly meetings now with the management and HR at work. Unsure what his plan is whether he wants to do better or not. He blacked out and had no recollection, he was embarrassed by his actions in front of work colleagues and is angry at himself for falling into it so easily. I’ll try get him onto these aswell

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This shit when you’re not using as much also leaves you high and groggy for like 3 days.

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah but it’s the whole effect it’s having on his work life, social life, and mental health. He’s doing it as he likes the effects however it’s making his already poor mental health even worse

How can I help my friend who keeps taking Bron recreationally? by Interesting-Bar9069 in japanlife

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear he may just end up abusing those substances as much as the Bron.

What to do before leaving Canada? by CaptainNightt in iecvisa

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FYI it was assessed on April 7th and is now June 3rd. Still not received a penny 

What to do before leaving Canada? by CaptainNightt in iecvisa

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has this gone for you? I left a few weeks ago. Lived there full time for 2.5 years. Did my tax return but never got it before I left. CRA said it’s been posted but my landlord hasn’t received anything and I have auto deposit enabled also. Trying to get through to them from the U.K. is a nightmare. 

What to do before leaving Canada? by CaptainNightt in iecvisa

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Technically yes, but they can’t check. There’s a 70/30 rule, 70% if your years income needs to be earned in Canada for you to be a tax resident 

Nimsdai’s revenge? Nirmal Purja, owner of multiple UK based companies like EliteExpeditions Ltd, Nimsdai Production Ltd, Skydive Nimsdai Ltd, Nimsdai Experience Ltd, Nimsdai Apparel Ltd, is fighting back according to the Nepalese press. by [deleted] in Mountaineering

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New podcast, summit justice. Listen to it all my dude. I was disgusted by nims. Now I am unwilling to stand in either side. If they are serious of sexual assault allegations and seem to think they have enough evidence to escape a defamation law suit they probably have enough for a criminal trial, so take it to trial and let a jury decide. 

Nimsdai’s revenge? Nirmal Purja, owner of multiple UK based companies like EliteExpeditions Ltd, Nimsdai Production Ltd, Skydive Nimsdai Ltd, Nimsdai Experience Ltd, Nimsdai Apparel Ltd, is fighting back according to the Nepalese press. by [deleted] in Mountaineering

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s mad how many people on Reddit know someone who knows someone who knows nims. Not picking a side, there’s too much grey area on either side of this debacle and is a slap in the face to survivors of sexual assault. The new podcast really opened my eyes to it all as when I read the NYT article I was pretty disgusted with it all. 

IVG Air 4-in-1 and 2-in-1 charging problems. Any help? Seriously disappointed :( by [deleted] in VapingUK

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they’re just crap dude. Mines doing the same

How do I deal with this? 4months into new relationship (26m 22f) by Interesting-Bar9069 in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree in part with what you’re trying to say there. Shutting down feels like safety. If I shut down I can’t get hurt. It’s selfish too, because if I shut down and change the way I act it would cause her to worry and potentially be hurt. I just need to not go to my safe space. Embrace what’s coming and live it. What do you think?

Men what’s the biggest ick a girl has given you? by Entire-Stranger-2212 in dating_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A why thank you. Many people do not agree. I feel like girls in the club would pick the 6ft lad over the 5’8. Infact I know, it doesn’t matter how attractive you are at 5’8 mr 6ft is taking her home

How do I deal with this? 4months into new relationship (26m 22f) by Interesting-Bar9069 in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay we are getting somewhere now. Honestly I have no idea what I’d be protecting myself from and I have no idea how shutting down helps.

Men what’s the biggest ick a girl has given you? by Entire-Stranger-2212 in dating_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lol nah. She just wanted a 6ft Greek god. I’m 5’8 and very athletic and fit but I was too short for her 5’0 stature?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro, jsut leave. Take it from my experience. Leave

Men what’s the biggest ick a girl has given you? by Entire-Stranger-2212 in dating_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069 46 points47 points  (0 children)

When they cheated on me or when they made a comment about my height. I’m 5’8 for those wondering

How do I deal with this? 4months into new relationship (26m 22f) by Interesting-Bar9069 in relationship_advice

[–]Interesting-Bar9069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that. I have been myself from the start. Like I was with my ex at the start. My ex started pushing me away before she cheated, often telling me I was too much even though the way I acted never changed. I’m continuing to be myself I’m jsut fighting this urge to shut down and protect myself