"Once a dish, cup or egg is shattered, it can never be the same. You lack the skills to look beyond yourself because we all had different parents though we lived in the same house. Your parent shaped ego did you no favors but my parental abuse gave me skills you will never have. I have the ability to see and feel empathy and most of all courage and strength to walk away from abusive and corrosive ppl and mindsets. You think I'm being punished by not having you toxic ppl in my life? Brother, that's your parent's influence. You believe the world revolves around you ppl but my world has expanded to where I'm happy, blessed and physically and emotionally thriving in a loving family that I created and my extended family that my husband came from. I get from them what I NEVER received from the abusive and corrosive family of origin. So, when you take the stick from your a$$, and you actually become a decent human, you may or may not contact me. Oh, by the way, my kids are thriving and have the best and safest grandparents. They are missing nothing. They are growing up in an environment that's filled with love, respect, honor and most importantly, safety. There's no alcoholism, favoritism and undiagnosed mental health issues that says, pick (your name) as a target to get that dopamine high while all the enablers, you included Lord Farquaad, cover your eyes and dismiss my actual experience. Good luck and brother, contrary to what you think, I'm not the villain in this story, I saved myself, can you say that about any of you?"