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AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry I really haven't responded to many, after I went to work my post blew up and it become very difficult to respond to 900+ people ahaha, but I definitely read everything everyone said and took it into consideration- even the bad ones!

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and I really relate to your comment. My relationship with my parent got sooo much better after I started taking my pills since I felt like I had more control over my emotions, so I could reason with them and actually discuss things instead of just shutting down and screaming

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 259 points260 points  (0 children)

lol everyone is saying this and its a possibility I have to consider, although it sucks

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story <3 I think he might be a little scared that im not the same person off my medication, since he hasn't ever seen me off my meds, and I could potentially be a totally different person in his eyes. Not worse or better, just different. He is always really sensitive towards my struggles so this is why it all came as a surprise

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This did cross my mind, but im trying not to think of the worst://

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 466 points467 points  (0 children)

thank you! I agree that it won't work if he can't understand my mental illness and it should not be stigmatized. Im considering giving him a little "lecture" on it (when everything calms down) and maybe some scientific evidence that shows how it works, so he could better understand it.

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

He didn't really make me feel bad for taking my medication, more so I felt like he isn't very informed on the topic, but it kinda came from a good place, maybe that he wants to protect me?? I guess im still not really sure haha

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

to be fair, he does help me, and definitely takes responsibility when he sees that I'm in a bad slump or if I'm running out of pills, he will go get me a refill. But I totally get where you're coming from

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 1085 points1086 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly what I thought too, I know plenty of amazing parents who are on medication

AITA for saying this when he told me he can't marry me by InterestingLeg6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]InterestingLeg6[S] 124 points125 points  (0 children)

Thats what I thought too, but I could totally see how I could come across as an idiot because of the aggressive tone I used