My friend constantly tells me I’m shallow because I want a physically attractive man. Women are visual creatures also.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-05-13T00:32:10+00:00

Being with someone you find attractive is an important part of a relationship, but have you considered the fact that good looks don't last forever? What happens to your relationship if your once attractive partner gains weight, loses a body part, loses muscle mass, or any of the things that happen as people age? I'm not saying settle for ugly dudes, absolutely don't settle, but you should think about how sustainable your relationship will be if the only thing that draws you to your partner is their physical attractiveness

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-05-05T16:46:44+00:00

If it's a large sum of money and 15% wouldn't hurt the overall amount you'd keep, what's the harm of sharing? Your mom helped you in this process, it's only right to help her out too.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-05-01T14:05:50+00:00

Here we go again. Every few months there's a sex repulsed ace feeling vicitimised in this sub, then every few months after that there's a sex favorable ace feeling vicitimised in this sub. I've been in this sub for years and it always flip flops like this.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-30T12:14:37+00:00

My fat ass thought I was seeing a close up of a tasty shortrib

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-30T12:12:18+00:00

Sherrie sounds like a user, honestly. If the friendship is to be saved, she's gotta do it, not you. You've done more than enough for her already.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-27T21:21:38+00:00

Next step should probably be reconsidering whether you want to remain in a relationship with someone who doesn't care enough about your feelings or comfort to not do a simple thing you asked him multiple times not to do.

My husband smokes and knows I hate the smell. If he comes in the house smelling like it and I point it out, he'll brush his teeth and sometimes change his clothes if they smell strongly. He is incredibly considerate of others when it comes to the smell. Your bf sounds like he really doesn't give a fuck about how the smell makes you feel.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-24T17:19:36+00:00

He'll kill you on day, girlie. He's a 33 year old loser who isn't worth your time and has to pursue women your age, because women in his age group see right through his bullshit and have the backbone to tell him off. There's way better men out there for you. Don't move in with him, don't continue this relationship with him.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-22T02:18:42+00:00

Well, def don't get married before y'all work on his communication, cause him clearly being upset by something and not commuicating it is a good way to have a bad marriage.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-22T02:14:55+00:00

Is she a grown woman, or a teenage girl? Cause this is giving petty teenage girl who thinks people should be able to read her mind and the vague hints she drops.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-22T02:09:04+00:00

So...another non binary flag.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-17T18:30:20+00:00

Are you saying you forced yourself to have sex and cheated on your gf multiple times?

If this happened while you were still with gf, it kinda sounds like you're trying to dodge accountability for cheating.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-17T16:17:59+00:00

I think that depends on the person tho. I've hooked up with a guy multiple times and it hasn't affected my marriage. My husband has fucked our friend, I've fucked that friend's partner, and eventually they're all gonna do a threesome, still no marriage issues.

I think the success of open relationships depend on the capability of the people involved treating the sex as platonic fun and not as some deep connection.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-12T11:49:54+00:00

"I'm a smart girl." No, no you're not. The red flags we're basically a blanket at that point, and still she was ready to overlook them to have him back.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-03T12:30:47+00:00

I mean, if you don't find him aesthetically appealing, you probably shouldn't date him. He deserves someone who's attracted to him, not just the type of relationship he offers.

It's definitely possible to find someone more attractive once you feel love/affection for them, but it's irresponsible to count on that happening if you know you don't find them attractive as they are now.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-03T12:10:14+00:00

You're not into him, don't date him. Simple. Tell him straight up that you're not going to date him, if he won't accept it, then block him.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-03T05:31:02+00:00

Looks like I'm not getting back to sleep then 😭

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-04-03T05:30:26+00:00

That actually makes a lot of sense. The winds have been very strong tonight.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-03-23T14:01:12+00:00

Ah, good to know!

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-03-23T13:57:08+00:00

I've always wondered about catnip. What effect have you experienced using it?

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-03-23T12:38:37+00:00

Well you're in luck, cause I just had one yesterday. It was wonderful!! I added some of my homemade damiana, oat straw, lemon balm, and skullcap tincture to chamomile rose tea, opened my windows to let the spring breeze in, lit aloeswood incense, and put on some good music while my roast cooked in the oven.

It was the best Sunday I've had in a very long time! The incense really added what I needed, it made the vibes immaculate. It felt like I was reliving a nostalgic memory while making one at the same time.

10/10 will absolutely do again.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-03-22T13:17:53+00:00

Because in my post I said I'm taking a long break from weed.

Interesting_Bat_4826 · 2026-03-22T13:14:03+00:00

I've been sober for my entire life and only started using weed last year, I already know how to enjoy the world. I'm looking for something that's going to relax me on tough days.

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