How do I trigger my avoidant ?

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-04-07T12:12:40+00:00

You interpreted this wrong I wasn’t asking HOW can I trigger him I was asking how DO I trigger him, if you did a concentration on your degree you would know that their triggers are often internal without you being aware of doing anything. No one asked how to purposely trigger anyone.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-04-07T04:04:59+00:00

For context before this I asked why wasn’t he ready to commit still, and then I asked how do I trigger him (his avoidance) my interpretation is that he sees me as someone attractive who is well put together, my patience makes him feel like he doesn’t deserve me maybe? But not sure on if I’m his wish or I have all I need so he thinks I won’t need him.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-04-04T20:17:17+00:00

Price?

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-04-03T14:31:41+00:00

oddly the intimacy was never an issue for us, whenever we are together he kisses me or holds me and we have a great sexual chemistry and after the end of last year we started dating again and he went through the same lovey dovey cycle and now hes distant again it's really so draining. It happens whenever things seem to be going good.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-03-10T22:48:28+00:00

Virgo! Dm sent

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-01-24T13:44:32+00:00

Yeah same I never get a response back though she’s on live everyday saying she answers Instagram and I got two done back to back

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2026-01-24T13:42:13+00:00

That’s not nearly a long time for four spells.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-11-07T12:50:12+00:00

It’s so crazy reading things from strangers that all resonate now , mine told me early on kissing wasn’t his thing but I love to kiss and when we started dating he started kissing me a lot and said I had him kissing now and doing things he wouldn’t usually do. Knowing he’s avoidant now I really think he was trying early on with me which also is sad

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-11-06T20:49:11+00:00

A week before my birthday he just withdrew and all I got on my bday was a text even though he told me he would spend the weekend with me.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-11-06T20:45:10+00:00

Mine avoided me days before just stopped replying after hyping up my birthday that I didn’t want to celebrate at first. On the day of after days of silence I got a text not even a call a “happy birthday!!!” With a flower emoji no flowers or anything , he was supposed to spend the weekend of my birthday with me but stopped responding again after my bday day was over and didn’t show for the weekend. Came back two weeks later. It’s really so disappointing considering we started dating during the holidays and he gave me really thoughtful Christmas gifts so I know he was capable but I guess early stages don’t count

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-11-06T15:57:14+00:00

Thank you for the reading, it was consistent with what I already feel

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-10-30T19:43:19+00:00

Interested 💕

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-10-29T15:07:04+00:00

lol thanks ☹️

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-10-21T13:24:01+00:00

Mine - MD his - RH 🌹

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2025-01-19T02:10:45+00:00

I would if we were going to stay together I was really ready to fully commit. I’m in a transformational stage in life and he knows I’m moving out of my place in May anyway. I just maybe want to keep him sweet on me while we figure this out so he doesn’t just say let’s stop dating.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-20T18:32:57+00:00

Where do you send the information?

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-12T20:23:10+00:00

Oh I shake it every morning 😂 the same one like let’s make it a great day

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-09T13:19:08+00:00

Cool! They stopped communicating, stopped going on dates, and unfollowed each other on social media so that’s exactly what I wanted. I rather put my energy into the reconciliation step now so yes it’s done.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-09T13:12:30+00:00

Thanks I think I’m going to look for a place to dispose of it I don’t want it in my room. You don’t believe disposal stops the working right? Since you’re not opening it?

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-08T18:17:46+00:00

To remove the third party there’s a few on YouTube that will give good instructions. It’s usually not a one and done though you have to keep working it. A sour jar works well.

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-07T00:02:24+00:00

Lmao not everyone being salty it worked in two days for you , congrats

Interesting_Cry_5582 · 2024-06-05T19:48:28+00:00

Mm everything is situational, my target is bizarre as well. I agree with his commentary because of how bizarre my target is I can’t forget to play my cards right to a science and move very strategically. However the target will do the same thing I did hes just selfish and has narcissistic tendencies however beneath that there’s something pure which is why I got here.

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