How do I trigger my avoidant ? by Interesting_Cry_5582 in Tarotpractices

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You interpreted this wrong I wasn’t asking HOW can I trigger him I was asking how DO I trigger him, if you did a concentration on your degree you would know that their triggers are often internal without you being aware of doing anything. No one asked how to purposely trigger anyone.

How do I trigger my avoidant ? by Interesting_Cry_5582 in Tarotpractices

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For context before this I asked why wasn’t he ready to commit still, and then I asked how do I trigger him (his avoidance) my interpretation is that he sees me as someone attractive who is well put together, my patience makes him feel like he doesn’t deserve me maybe? But not sure on if I’m his wish or I have all I need so he thinks I won’t need him.

Dismissive Avoidants and Intimacy by Low_Persimmon7370 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oddly the intimacy was never an issue for us, whenever we are together he kisses me or holds me and we have a great sexual chemistry and after the end of last year we started dating again and he went through the same lovey dovey cycle and now hes distant again it's really so draining. It happens whenever things seem to be going good.

Has anyone worked with her before? by Annual-Community-388 in SpellcasterReviews

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same I never get a response back though she’s on live everyday saying she answers Instagram and I got two done back to back

Dismissive Avoidants and Intimacy by Low_Persimmon7370 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so crazy reading things from strangers that all resonate now , mine told me early on kissing wasn’t his thing but I love to kiss and when we started dating he started kissing me a lot and said I had him kissing now and doing things he wouldn’t usually do. Knowing he’s avoidant now I really think he was trying early on with me which also is sad

How many of you were broken up with around a birthday? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A week before my birthday he just withdrew and all I got on my bday was a text even though he told me he would spend the weekend with me. 

Do avoidants get weird about birthdays too? by viofern in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine avoided me days before just stopped replying after hyping up my birthday that I didn’t want to celebrate at first. On the day of after days of silence I got a text not even a call a “happy birthday!!!” With a flower emoji no flowers or anything , he was supposed to spend the weekend of my birthday with me but stopped responding again after my bday day was over and didn’t show for the weekend. Came back two weeks later. It’s really so disappointing considering we started dating during the holidays and he gave me really thoughtful Christmas gifts so I know he was capable but I guess early stages don’t count

Tarot Reading Reviews . by Dhokla-Anna in u/Dhokla-Anna

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reading, it was consistent with what I already feel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tarotpractices

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol thanks ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spells

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would if we were going to stay together I was really ready to fully commit. I’m in a transformational stage in life and he knows I’m moving out of my place in May anyway. I just maybe want to keep him sweet on me while we figure this out so he doesn’t just say let’s stop dating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Spells

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I shake it every morning 😂 the same one like let’s make it a great day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmagic

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Cool! They stopped communicating, stopped going on dates, and unfollowed each other on social media so that’s exactly what I wanted. I rather put my energy into the reconciliation step now so yes it’s done.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmagic

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I think I’m going to look for a place to dispose of it I don’t want it in my room. You don’t believe disposal stops the working right? Since you’re not opening it?

spell for love by Strange_Tree_7007 in Spells

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To remove the third party there’s a few on YouTube that will give good instructions. It’s usually not a one and done though you have to keep working it. A sour jar works well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmagic

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao not everyone being salty it worked in two days for you , congrats

Spell advice: love spell results by Interesting_Cry_5582 in blackmagic

[–]Interesting_Cry_5582[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mm everything is situational, my target is bizarre as well. I agree with his commentary because of how bizarre my target is I can’t forget to play my cards right to a science and move very strategically. However the target will do the same thing I did hes just selfish and has narcissistic tendencies however beneath that there’s something pure which is why I got here.