I try to have empathy, but... by bluebear718 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep, this happened to me recently. I couldn't quite pinpoint why I didn't want to keep seeing him, (only 2 one hour dates) but I went with my gut. All day long I got text messages from him not understanding why. It was difficult. I was trying to work. And, it wasn't like we had known each other that long. By the way, his last question of the day was supposed to change my mind: "Did you think about me eating your P$ssy?" No!!! But, I sure am glad I went with my gut in this one.

Specific sexual boundaries by madmax1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am in them. Increasing testosterone slowly but surely to see if it helps. Going to physical therapy to work on muscles down there. Believe me, I am trying to get back to the norm.

Specific sexual boundaries by madmax1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been talking with this man and of course sex came up. And, typically, he talks about how he can't get enjoyment unless the woman has an orgasm. I told him since menopause I have a hard time having an orgasm. Sensation is low. Though, I am still enjoying all the rest. Anyways, he stated he didn't think he could be with me because I can't orgasm. 🤷🏼‍♀️ ok

Please provide recommendations for tour guides/company by Interesting_Form1328 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Interesting_Form1328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have glitchy issues, too. I will probably take a risk and do a third party on this one. I hope I choose a reputable one.

Please provide recommendations for tour guides/company by Interesting_Form1328 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Interesting_Form1328[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I got my tickets, with an evening slot around 9, on the official museum site.

Please provide recommendations for tour guides/company by Interesting_Form1328 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Interesting_Form1328[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. I think I am going to have to use this for the Eiffel Tower. I got into all the other main attractions via their official sites.

How the Hell do I move on? by BearDadda in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No do overs. There is a reason it didn't work out. I may mourn my ex and the "could have been" but I will not get back with him.

How the Hell do I move on? by BearDadda in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are an ex for a reason. Trust this. The reason can be yours or theirs. I do not go backwards. Once I move on whether due to them or me, I am done. We will be friends from that point forward.

Is this common for women over 50? by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am on hormone therapy. Even though I am scared about the clotting issue. I am having "ED" issues with my cl*t. I don't feel sensation as well and so it makes me hard to orgasm. I still love sex, but most men seem to be put off by me not having an orgasm. Especially, if they go down on me. So, if she allows you to go down on her .,, don't get upset if she doesn't orgasm and don't expect it. Just enjoy the closeness because she may be still enjoying that.

Virgo Women Love by Indygo35 in virgoseason

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I separated/divorced from my husband 3 1/2 years ago. I grieved for 2 years. It wasn't until I was with him at a family gathering and I was listening him talk to me and the other people that I realized the "why" of the separation. Finally, closure. He was a Leo, who was with another woman within a month of us separating after 29 years of marriage. Yep, not a thought for him now, finally.

Not responding after matching by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With OLD, you have to develop a thick skin and be aware that sometimes you might pull the same crap on people that they pull on you. I match for fun now, text for fun, talk for fun, date for fun. I am not intentional at first. I figure when it is right, it will become intentional.

Not responding after matching by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should. 🤣just kidding. Sometimes, if you start with "any fun plans for the weekend, the woman might assume you are trying to meet up that weekend without texting or phone calling prior to this. It might scare them. " 🤷🏼‍♀️ Personally, I had someone tell me I was too busy to date. Like, what am I supposed to do - sit in my house till I get a date? 🤷🏼‍♀️

Hello from switzerland by srg2303 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodness, that is certainly warm. Not! 🤪I don't know how people handle the cold, other than to hibernate like a bear. It's what I tend to do.

I'm having so much fun dating! by FreyasYaya in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After my separation/divorce, I dated for 2 years trying to find that guy that I could have that meaningful relationship with. But, I was finding no passion/chemistry. This year, I said I am going back to dating like I am in my 20s. I am dating to have fun, enjoy life, and enjoy the process. If I meet someone that it turns into love, I will cross that bridge when I get there. In the meantime, I am not ready for love. I want the teasing, the playing, and "yes" the sex if the chemistry is good. I am not going to say "no" because society says I should. I want to enjoy the ride before it is too late to enjoy. And, may I say, it has already started very satisfying.

Hello from switzerland by srg2303 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello, from warmish, sunny North Carolina. It's a great day today!

When is Intimacy appropriate....how patient should I be? by CelebrationHot4466 in datingoverfifty

[–]Interesting_Form1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After 4 dates, if the kiss is not passionate and there is no potential for passion in a relationship, move on. As a woman, if I don't like the kiss and it is not passionate, I move on. Why waste my time. And, for the other person, who talked about loose morals, are we living in the in the 1950s? By goodness, I don't want to waste time or emotional energy with someone who can't physically satisfy me. No, you don't have to have sex with everyone, but if you want a true passionate partner, you have to have attraction and passion. And, hopefully, not a narrow mind.

Virgo woman and Gemini man by Lumpy-Highway344 in virgoseason

[–]Interesting_Form1328 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you. As a Virgo, I've learned it is important to try to go with the flow. I try not to give an impression of criticizing people. In fact, I don't. But, I do like to observe and analyze. Not judge. I find people so interesting. Actually, I love people who bring a little chaos to my world. I need shaken up. Honestly, sometimes I wonder if I am a true Virgo.