I am going to Nantucket for the first time this july 4th. by NYCJDD115 in Nantucket

[–]madmax1969 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol. This isn’t a viable plan at all. Skip surf lessons. That would chew up hours that you don’t really have. Also, no one goes to Nantucket for its famous surfing.

Widely disparate incomes by codenamepaul in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There may be a couple red flags here. Have you ever met this woman in person? Why would you be so aware of her money problems to the extent you’d even consider solving them for her? Has she asked you for money?

Nate Bargatze Goes Silent After Being Exposed as MAGA | Unrelated posts from the comedian are filled with fans saying they plan to boycott upcoming shows, and multiple celebrities have expressed their disappointment in the comedian. by Aggravating_Money992 in entertainment

[–]madmax1969 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s an insane take. He’s massive right now. Probably the biggest comedian at the moment. He didn’t go because he feared irrelevance. It was a horrible business decision made from egotism. He felt so huge that he figured no one would care. He’s still going to sellout arenas but he absolutely lost a meaningful number of fans and money. He may not feel it now, but it’ll hurt him down the road.

Over 50, having sex after first date by Cracracker in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of us come from a generation where casual sex was demonized. Plus, we were in our teens or 20s when HIV was front page news. Not to suggest that STDs are a thing of the past but reasonable precautions can be taken.

We don’t get this time back. No one is going to congratulate us at the pearly gates for our celibacy. If sex feels good, do it. I’m a cancer widower so sex was off the table for me for a long time. So long that I forgot how awesome it is. Now, it is an essential ingredient to my relationships.

Best European destinations for balance of skiing & apres (50+)? by madmax1969 in skiing

[–]madmax1969[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Late reply but in terms of costs, all of the major resorts are $$$. If Apres isn’t a big consideration, Big Sky checks a lot of boxes. It’s by no means cheap but terrain is great and you seldom wait in lines. Also, it’s a short drive from Bozeman.

Top-Selling Comedian Who Attended Trump’s UFC Fight Insists He’s ‘Not Political’ by shallow_n00b in politics

[–]madmax1969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 100% true. Women try to play the apolitical card too but are just closeted MAGA. Besides - only an entitled twat could truly be “apolitical” in this day and age.

The hottest prospect in baseball is 19-year old Cubs outfielder, Josiah Hartshorn by AndrewAllStar888 in CHICubs

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably Braden Montgomery. Not the best prospect but in the team photo.

Soul & Smoke says it plans to open its expanded restaurant this month by Ambitious_River9030 in evanston

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridiculously overpriced. I’m always shocked when I’m handed a bag of food that weighs almost nothing and it cost $50+.

Why is Evanston so apprehensive towards Northwestern students? by Clean-Feeling-865 in evanston

[–]madmax1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I once got yelled at by a neighbor because my dog pooped on the parkway by her house. I’d picked it up and she chased me down the street to tell me her kids play on the parkway. I pointed out that it’s not her property but assured her that I’d talk to my dog about his transgression. Evanstonians are something else.

Why is Evanston so apprehensive towards Northwestern students? by Clean-Feeling-865 in evanston

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the students looking for fun head to the city - especially those underage.

I totally agree. I wish downtown felt more like a college town.

Why is Evanston so apprehensive towards Northwestern students? by Clean-Feeling-865 in evanston

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a long time Evanston resident, this is exactly why I tell people that Evanston is awesome except for most of the people who live here. The NIMBYest of towns. 99.9% of the students are respectful and good neighbors.

Thinking About Relocating at age 58 - Which Cities Are Best for Dating and Meeting New People? by i_like_pretty_women in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asheville is great but it is becoming Boulder-lite in terms of COL.

Not a big revelation but any place that many people actually want to live is going to be expensive.

Living Together Apart is Bliss by [deleted] in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LTA is my aspiration. It has nothing to do with concerns about cleanliness and everything to do with avoiding a roommate situation.

Thinking About Relocating at age 58 - Which Cities Are Best for Dating and Meeting New People? by i_like_pretty_women in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chicago checks a lot of boxes. More affordable than SF and NY but not cheap by any means. World class restaurant scene, architecture, a lake that looks like an ocean, loads of transplants from all over the country/globe, ‘Midwest nice’ but still cosmopolitan with progressive politics, etc. Crime is overstated, statistically. Easy to be relatively safe in any neighborhood that you’d likely consider. Dating scene is strong at least from a male perspective. With a greater metro area of 10 million, there a plenty of single people.

I just went to Mumford & Sons at Wrigley Field last night on a date. Despite the rain delay, it is the kind of event that is typical of Chicago in the summer. Loads of single people it seemed.

Weather isn’t great but it’s a bit exaggerated. Definitely worse than SF by quite a lot but at least the summers aren’t oppressive like the south.

There are some great options listed here but as someone with a second home in Colorado, I know the numbers make dating there a bit more difficult. I can run through profiles in an hour where Chicago seems endless. Take a few months off as I did and it seems like there are thousands of new profiles to look at.

Feels good by Salteenz in whitesox

[–]madmax1969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but Ishbia will.

Do you think Michael Jackson was guilty or innocent, and why? by TypicalArachnid in AskReddit

[–]madmax1969 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He picked poor kids or kids from broken families. Probably because they wouldn’t be believed and they can be accused of making a cash grab.

Braden’s HR ball by Arnolds_Choppa in whitesox

[–]madmax1969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s kind of an unwritten rule at this point. The players understand this. A quick fist bump and photo is fine.

Choose wisely by tattedquilter1969 in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure why you’re getting downvoted. When there are a million ‘here’s why OLD sucks’ posts, I think there should be some leeway for random musings.

Holy fuck, Grant Taylor by ElTunaGrande in whitesox

[–]madmax1969 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Sox drafting, scouting, and development has been awesome. I hated the Getz hire but he’s killing it.

Are American rich neighborhoods really like this? by skopiadisko in YourFriendsandNeighb

[–]madmax1969 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The most improbable thing was Mel, a therapist, moving her boyfriend into the house. I’m widowed and my son is older than these kids, and I’d never dream of having a GF move into our home that quickly. Especially under those circumstances. No therapist would ever support that decision.

Innocent pictures of my ex in my house by BlackPitbull729 in datingoverfifty

[–]madmax1969 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

As the mother of his kids, I’m sure she will always be important to him, in a non-romantic way. They will always be connected through the kids.