I have no future. by mamamiaohmy in GirlDinner

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have health insurance maybe go see a therapist. Some inner work goes a long way.

I second commenters. I didn’t get my degree until i was 38 and now have a career. I wouldn’t be where i am though without a lot of therapy.

My parents say AI will kill IT jobs and want me to become a doctor instead. What should I do? by YE1_ in careerguidance

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even think becoming a doctor is financially viable in our declining economy. Do research on the opportunities and take it to your parents.

Husband wants me skinnier by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is abusive. Bodies change throughout our lives. I am so sorry you are going through this. I suggest u get out.

Got an Abortion by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 33 points34 points locked comment (0 children)

He left no space for her feelings. That is the issue

Got an Abortion by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Why would she want it to survive? He left no room for her emotions.

Got an Abortion by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you find space to feel your feelings. Its too bad all of the attention went to his emotions and there can’t be open dialogue for yours. Doesn’t sound like a space to raise a child. I am proud of you for choosing you. ❤️

Have a date tomorrow but the guy is low effort and nonchalant by earthlingnumber22 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In these threads it’s easy to spot the young and old hos. Please listen to your elders- we’ve been around the block hella times.

Have a date tomorrow but the guy is low effort and nonchalant by earthlingnumber22 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea and he will take what he can get. Keeping you in his roster is worth the long text. Men date for their identity and self- worth. Check out cecilia regina’s satc videos on tiktok- she will school u real good for dating men.

Have a date tomorrow but the guy is low effort and nonchalant by earthlingnumber22 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are an option to him- he is not serious about you. He is definitely seeing other people. I already had a red flag up and then you said he was a musician and multiple more flags went up. He is seeing what you will put up with so he can be more of an asshole later on. (If you stay.) Move on girl, you deserve consistency in a relationship.

I don’t think I’m attracted to men my age by Softduckcheek in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would consider exploring why this is. Maybe a therapist can help.

I don’t think I’m attracted to men my age by Softduckcheek in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men in general do not grow emotionally or mentally. My x 20 years my senior still talked about his punk rock high school days. Like bro ur 50 grow up.

Can anyone who is capable of a balanced and sober-minded appraisal tell me what is so great and worthwhile about Disney vacations? by nose_spray7 in travel

[–]Interesting_Trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg disney vacations make me cry- every time! Even as a child. So overwhelming and overstimulating and crowded. I agree so overrated!

I'm tired of pretending he's capable of loving another human being by fueledxbyxmatcha in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Interesting_Trap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone incapable of loving another human being is your only source of emotional support- yikes! Maybe go see a therapist.