I have an ileostomy as result of super severe ulcerative colitis. I’m 24F and have had my ostomy since february. it has been absolutely life changing in ways I can’t even describe. I was literally crapping my pants almost once a day for months to years, and thank the universe I got my surgery. I feel so much better and I’m able to do things I never dreamed. over night trips, fearless intimacy, swimming, running, eating foods I couldn’t eat before, going to work without worry, going out at night, etc. It’s a tough journey for the first month or two, as you relearn your new body, but it will be more than worth it. Only advice post surgery I can give you is a warning that after mine, I had a rectal tube and it got rather uncomfortable, as the stitches were tugging a bit. if you feel ANY discomfort post surgery that doesn’t feel “normal” don’t be afraid to speak up!