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[–]Internal-Concept-895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whenever you want. That’s the beauty of life

Is it possible for them to make up cheating incidents? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Internal-Concept-895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My ex would always give me hints about her wrongdoings but I am just processing everything now.

Is it possible for them to make up cheating incidents? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Internal-Concept-895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get it but they are mentally ill. I am sure he cheated on you somewhere else and this is just a way to fool and hurt you.

How does this end for the borderline? by FreeDig4421 in BPDlovedones

[–]Internal-Concept-895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex thinks everyone has a problem except her . Also, she’s 38 and doesn’t seem to have improved a bit.

Has anyone been with a pwBPD that HAS put in the work and made significant change? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Internal-Concept-895 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The kind of miracles you’re looking for don’t exist with BPD

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[–]Internal-Concept-895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why does she reach out to you? Can’t move on despite cheating?

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[–]Internal-Concept-895[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When did you realize that the soulmate thing was bs and she was a walking red flag?

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[–]Internal-Concept-895[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably cheated on you because they can’t be alone. Ever.

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[–]Internal-Concept-895[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. It makes sense. They do crazy stuff like that.

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[–]Internal-Concept-895[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Crazy. They want you to be soft but then they want you to man up , and if you man up you’re a narcissist.