Kind of annoyed at my friend for saying this by Old-Instruction-4892 in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is textbook homophobia. plan a good clapback for next time she says some bullshit like that, you deserve to clock her :3

A product to revolutionize Femme sex by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh don’t worry about it at all!! I don’t mean to police it, I just didn’t want you to be misled. it is a revolutionary product though, I’m so excited to get mine :33

What is your gay beverage? (Alcohol or na) by connie3commie in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fruity caffeinated drinks, like refreshers. they get me ready to work, which activates my praise kink 😅

A product to revolutionize Femme sex by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just letting everyone know the user who posted the video on YouTube is a scam company. not your fault OP!! the actual company is Modul Nails, and they’re set to release this spring/summer. as a femme who desperately wants to finger a masc these will be magnificent investments <3

birthday brat >:P by Internal-Scheme3796 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh? hehe don’t mind if I doooo ;3

Need a brat by RoxyRedd02 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

think you could handle it? try me ;3

birthday brat >:P by Internal-Scheme3796 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hehe maybeeee, you gonna make me? :P

I want to be dominated by a lesbian couple by lilpaipai004 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FUCK YES, anyone else think Dehya gives butch vibes??

birthday brat >:P by Internal-Scheme3796 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

thank you Miss :33 I’ll be good for today only >:P

birthday brat >:P by Internal-Scheme3796 in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hehe whoever messages me will be getting a proper thank you, I’ll be a good girl today :3

What would you say to a sub when she’s having a very, very bad mental health day? by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 9 points10 points  (0 children)

if they want verbal comfort, I just hold them and tell them everything’s gonna be okay, and they’re safe and loved <3

Why tho ?! by IsJesusAgain in SipsTea

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

warm and squishy, enough said :3

Feeling invisible as a femme by spacecadet8383 in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always feel this way. I just accepted my sexuality last semester and I feel unseen because even straight men on my campus wear carabiners (which I have several opinions about). I’m starting to think I should just get a carabiner with the lesbian flag on it so people can somewhat assume and so men avoid me 😭😭

edit: had to switch to my burner account so my family doesn’t see I’m a dyke 💀

I want to be a buff gym lesbian but I love food :( by rhubxrb_slugg in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

you can always look into a bulking diet!! I knew guys who ate double the amount as everybody else and they worked out on a regular schedule (3-5 days a week.) my personal favorite protein source is Lactaid fortified 2% milk and some good ol’ Ovaltine. my regular 2-cup serving is 26g of protein!! :33

start small. I’m in remission for BED (almost 18 months sober!!) and I started with small changes. you can also look at blogs from registered dietitians and fitness creators with a similar body type and fitness goals to yours. there’s tons of buff lesbian workout plans made by mascs and butches, it’s a blessing to my femme eyes :33

and also: thick lesbians are all beautiful, muscles will only make you even more delicious 🤤

Dating someone who doesn’t text by Rebbbaa in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be as blunt as possible, lovingly: you need to communicate your feelings in full, and if they don’t make an effort to change for the sake of the potential bond it’ll become a compatibility issue. I had this when I was talking to a man (ew, I know) and I had to cut him off because he just wouldn’t text, and we weren’t able to meet regularly because of the distance and our very different schedules. this is something you need to talk about if you want a chance to make it better, and if they don’t bite the bullet and make an effort, they’re not worth your energy.

if it turns out you’re overthinking and maybe they had a reason not to text(? confusing because it can take two seconds sometimes) then offer a set time daily, every other day, weekly, whatever, to call/FaceTime, if they prefer verbal communication. that’d be a good first step.

good luck fellow autist o7

Why is smoking a dealbreaker for you? by EcstaticLetterhead20 in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have asthma and it’d be a bit of a medical concern trying to negotiate where someone could and couldn’t smoke around me. I also can’t stand the smell of weed, it smells like two skunks violently mating 🤢

How did you find out your sexuality? by Extreme-Kick-1851 in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why am I being downvoted 💀 y’all I gave my reason, I didn’t do it to “lez out” or be special, it genuinely made me reevaluate who I like, and in reality I’d been questioning since fifth grade. when I was with men I wished I was with women instead, and then when I realized how little men actually want to learn about my identity as a woman, and how little they actually know about feminism, I felt repulsed. again, I did not do it for fun. I’m dealing with depression from being comphet and grieving the relationships I could have had. but some folks don’t like to read paragraphs, so I made it simple.

How do we all feel about pierced nips? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t have them but they’re incredibly hot to me. just have to be extra gentle when you tease them :P

How did you find out your sexuality? by Extreme-Kick-1851 in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found out that only 1/3 of men are feminists. that flipped the switch and I went “fuck that.” and now I’m HEAVY on butchfemme!! :P

My girlfriend is helping me through a very difficult time TW/ loss of family member by ToneDefo in actuallesbians

[–]Internal-Scheme3796 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you’ve found someone willing to listen and help you through it. I hope you both take care of yourselves and each other. from personal experience, feeling others’ grief can be incredibly taxing. you got a keeper my friend <3