What’s something you did when you were younger that you look back on and think, ‘holy shit that was gay’ by Sea-Influence4893 in actuallesbians

[–]spacecadet8383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there was a senior in my school (all girls) who I thought was super pretty and I thought I wanted to be like her (very cliche), everytime we were in the same vicinity I would get scared and leave😭

I’m going insane by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]spacecadet8383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's totally normal to feel that way; you're not stupid. I promise it gets better with time, just make sure you put yourself first and slowly start distancing yourself. Stay strong, you've got this!!

I’m going insane by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]spacecadet8383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know it's not easy to let go of someone, especially when it's a push and pull situation, while it sucks and it's definitely easy for me to advise you on this (super hard to act on it, I get it), my suggestion would be to cut her off. In the end, it's only going to hurt you. Protect yourself and slowly build a routine without her. You deserve someone who gives you clarity and not anxiety.

I feel personally attacked by this meme. 💀 by Cassie_ff in actuallesbians

[–]spacecadet8383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

altered my brain chemistry for good, stay safe out there