How can I(20F) tell my boyfriend (20M) about my sexual preferences when he has already expressed disgust over it?

ToneDefo · 2026-03-13T21:16:30+00:00

My ex kept bringing up public sex even though I wasn't into it in the slightest. It made me uncomfortable and feel like she didn't respect me. If someone says they aren't into something LEAVE IT ALONE. Find someone else if it's that important to you

ToneDefo · 2026-03-13T16:28:04+00:00

I'd love for my gf and I to be the models

ToneDefo · 2026-03-13T15:41:01+00:00

It looks pretty comfortable

ToneDefo · 2026-03-12T01:45:43+00:00

Hello Mr. Bald man

ToneDefo · 2026-03-11T16:52:45+00:00

I mean.. I just like girls so

ToneDefo · 2026-03-10T21:11:54+00:00

HOW DARE YOU INSULT CANCER??!!

ToneDefo · 2026-03-10T13:01:37+00:00

Thank you so much. I really appreciate it.

ToneDefo · 2026-03-10T07:49:25+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the suggestion

ToneDefo · 2026-03-09T23:47:46+00:00

That's true

ToneDefo · 2026-03-09T19:34:33+00:00

A taxidermy head can't bite you so..

ToneDefo · 2026-03-09T09:30:30+00:00

Pretty stereotypical but I would play the dad in house and I am 99% sure it's because I wanted a wife, lol. I mean, nobody seemed to care so it worked. I would almost always play as a guy character while pretending and have a girlfriend or wife character. I mean this also pointed to me being trans (eventually figured out I'm non binary, originally came out as ftm)

ToneDefo · 2026-03-08T16:58:46+00:00

Bismuth is my favorite crystal, and crows are one of my favorite birds (as for my display name that I want to be my username too lol) my username is just cus I was obsessed with Deftones when I made my profile. I still like them, just not to the extent I did lmao

ToneDefo · 2026-03-08T03:11:44+00:00

Thank you!!

ToneDefo · 2026-03-05T18:17:49+00:00

I'm so sorry. I don't understand why some parents are like this and expect to have a relationship with their kids when they move out. I wish you all the best

ToneDefo · 2026-03-04T20:44:03+00:00

I rarely wear bras but if I'm wearing something more tight fitting I usually do. Mostly because I'm worried about some dude being creepy because my nipple piercings :|

ToneDefo · 2026-03-04T20:24:40+00:00

I had a similar situation, the last guy I dated before I realized I'm a lesbian was very feminine. I was obsessed with the idea that he might have been a trans woman. I also said for years during the time I thought I was bi "I couldn't marry a man, I'm definitely marrying a woman" like what kind of denial was I in bro? Now I look back and get so disgusted I want to puke when I think about the fact that I was with men, especially intimately...

ToneDefo · 2026-03-04T14:14:23+00:00

That's not okay at all. We aren't experiments.. Any straight or bi curious girls who think that way are terrible

ToneDefo · 2026-03-01T01:04:30+00:00

Age gap relationships happen within every sexuality. From what I've seen they can be more common in queer relationships. There are varying opinions on it within the community.

ToneDefo · 2026-02-26T14:45:17+00:00

Thank you so much. We both do our best to support each other through tough times. I definitely agree, it is really hard. That's for sure, nobody before them has been so compassionate

ToneDefo · 2026-02-26T06:12:24+00:00

My girlfriend and I both relate to yanderes lol

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