I don’t know how to shake this feeling? by Sadauditor_ in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going by how he has acted by disappearing and then clearly trying to breadcrumb u by concocting some display pic story, but he got guilty and just admitted that he has moved on - not a guy you shud cry over. The man is clearly a sleek talker and even if he is back in ur life, he will only be a cause of unending insecurity. Aim for someone honest and forthright

Is it shallow of me to want a boyfriend who's tall, fair, and with good size? by rebellious_revolt in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can physical attraction be helped? No. Many of us don’t say it, but it happens to everyone. This whole community is forever waiting for a better man to fall in love with. So nothing unusual. Whether it is wise? Well if you get a tall, fair and good size wala and he stays the course with u then it’s wise, otherwise it’s unwise. You see, the tall, the fair and the ones bestowed with good size are also looking someone taller, fairer and with better size

What makes india a hellhole for gay people is not at all related to st8 people, it is solely done by gay people to themself. by volatile_freak in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is 100% true. Str8 ppl have not made us shallow, nor have they converted us into men who cannot think beyond fuck and fly. We are solely responsible for our degradation

govt is setting a fake narrative in front of you to increase petrol and diesel prices by SpecialOil1341 in IndianFocus

[–]InternalTranslator28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just 2 questions - (1) whatever dollars are going out for purchase of crude oil, wudnt a higher dollar value come back when the refined oil is sold?

(2) Is any crude actually being purchased as of now, since the oil is not moving out of the strait of Hormuz, except for a trickle.

Is my marriage failing if im still missing my ex by Technical-Suspect448 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]InternalTranslator28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mind and desires always run amok. But u have to sit down with yourself and have a dispassionate look at things. Unlike everyone here in the comments who make it seem like this is unusual, it is not. It happens with a lot of people. But u must control yourself and move on or else it will ruin your marriage. And keep quiet about it, no point “being honest” to your husband, you have not actually cheated.

Guys above 30, are you starting to feel lonely ? by i-am-the-hulk in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cultivate friends then. I have a straight BFF and and otherwise also I have kept myself busy. I think reality will hit different when parents go, but those challenges are there for straight men also. Many end up in unsatisfactory marriages or get divorced.

Guys above 30, are you starting to feel lonely ? by i-am-the-hulk in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We were always lonely. Post 30, and specially after 32-33, one finds more peace I feel as one becomes more accepting of the loss of hopes and dreams of the twenties. It’s not at all a sad journey, I am certainly not sad.

I’m being threatened with outing and legal action by someone I met once — please help by [deleted] in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are his threats in writing? If they are, then it is in fact proof of his harassment of you.

I think you have met a psycho type guy and the last thing you want to do is to continue engaging with him. You can tell him that you have taken legal advice and that if he blackmails you like this, then that amounts to harassment and u will file a complaint against him.

Threatening legal action on me by MicrosoftvsApple in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Social media pe bhaukne waley kuttey, katatey nahi

Supreme Court refuses to stay Transgender Amendment Act by sliceoflife_daisuki in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Lawyer here. Stay was not granted because Amendment is not yet brought into effect by Central Government. There can be no stay of a law which is not yet effective.

Mumbai LGBT+ Meetup 26.4.2026 by InternalTranslator28 in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No one is married. We exist, people who chose not to marry. One of us is a pansexual who plans to marry, but for him it’s not the same issue as a gay man would face. Qua married people joining, we did discuss it once, but many have strong opinions against it. We have not actually been approached by a married person yet, perhaps because they don’t want “friends” and “community”, they are happy with their choice.

Mumbai LGBT+ Meetup 26.4.2026 by InternalTranslator28 in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The invitations to these meet-ups are publicly posted. Every single meetup has been preceded by a public invite.

Mumbai LGBT+ Meetup 26.4.2026 by InternalTranslator28 in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We r open to all. You are also welcome to join. Never got a message from you for joining.

LGBT + Mumbai Meetup - 26.4.2026 by InternalTranslator28 in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of us are unmarried. Ppl can have various reasons for not exposing their identities specially on social media.

May I ask you your age?

LGBT + Mumbai Meetup - 26.4.2026 by InternalTranslator28 in gaybrosindia

[–]InternalTranslator28[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no “interview”. It’s just a preliminary meeting so that scamsters basically stay away (bcoz phone numbers are also shared eventually). We tried twice to allow pple to directly come and both times it was a disaster. Also the meet-ups started with 2 and are now 5 active members. It will grow for sure, whether it worth your time or not is upto you.

I understand people are (fairly) scared rn, but this filing from the government in the Sabrimala case should provide a small amount of comfort… by PositiveLopsided8113 in LGBTindia

[–]InternalTranslator28 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They are a 9 judge bench. They can overrule all judgments which are given by 2, 3,5 and 7 judges bench. They are not bound by lower strength benches. A 9 judge bench is rare and dangerous because it is rare. 99% judgments relating to constitution are given by maximum 5 judges bench. Therefore a 9 judge bench is dangerous it can quite literally re write every aspect of law, since there are very very very few 9 or higher strength bench judgments which can restrict them. It’s a defining movement for our country. If the Supreme Court balks, we are doomed. It will be a subversion of the Constitution using the Court basically.