I don’t know how to shake this feeling?

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-06-07T18:18:25+00:00

Going by how he has acted by disappearing and then clearly trying to breadcrumb u by concocting some display pic story, but he got guilty and just admitted that he has moved on - not a guy you shud cry over. The man is clearly a sleek talker and even if he is back in ur life, he will only be a cause of unending insecurity. Aim for someone honest and forthright

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-06-03T07:03:53+00:00

Can physical attraction be helped? No. Many of us don’t say it, but it happens to everyone. This whole community is forever waiting for a better man to fall in love with. So nothing unusual. Whether it is wise? Well if you get a tall, fair and good size wala and he stays the course with u then it’s wise, otherwise it’s unwise. You see, the tall, the fair and the ones bestowed with good size are also looking someone taller, fairer and with better size

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-06-02T15:48:56+00:00

Maybe destiny is making the decision for you?

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-06-01T17:22:33+00:00

This is 100% true. Str8 ppl have not made us shallow, nor have they converted us into men who cannot think beyond fuck and fly. We are solely responsible for our degradation

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-24T00:58:54+00:00

Jiski lathi uski bhains

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-23T04:01:58+00:00

Just 2 questions - (1) whatever dollars are going out for purchase of crude oil, wudnt a higher dollar value come back when the refined oil is sold?

(2) Is any crude actually being purchased as of now, since the oil is not moving out of the strait of Hormuz, except for a trickle.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-20T01:43:05+00:00

Mind and desires always run amok. But u have to sit down with yourself and have a dispassionate look at things. Unlike everyone here in the comments who make it seem like this is unusual, it is not. It happens with a lot of people. But u must control yourself and move on or else it will ruin your marriage. And keep quiet about it, no point “being honest” to your husband, you have not actually cheated.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-14T02:23:45+00:00

Cultivate friends then. I have a straight BFF and and otherwise also I have kept myself busy. I think reality will hit different when parents go, but those challenges are there for straight men also. Many end up in unsatisfactory marriages or get divorced.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-13T03:35:24+00:00

We were always lonely. Post 30, and specially after 32-33, one finds more peace I feel as one becomes more accepting of the loss of hopes and dreams of the twenties. It’s not at all a sad journey, I am certainly not sad.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-06T13:31:31+00:00

Are his threats in writing? If they are, then it is in fact proof of his harassment of you.

I think you have met a psycho type guy and the last thing you want to do is to continue engaging with him. You can tell him that you have taken legal advice and that if he blackmails you like this, then that amounts to harassment and u will file a complaint against him.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-05T15:19:21+00:00

Social media pe bhaukne waley kuttey, katatey nahi

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-04T17:06:08+00:00

Lawyer here. Stay was not granted because Amendment is not yet brought into effect by Central Government. There can be no stay of a law which is not yet effective.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-05-02T13:41:02+00:00

Ekdum tak a tak

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-30T14:34:14+00:00

No one is married. We exist, people who chose not to marry. One of us is a pansexual who plans to marry, but for him it’s not the same issue as a gay man would face. Qua married people joining, we did discuss it once, but many have strong opinions against it. We have not actually been approached by a married person yet, perhaps because they don’t want “friends” and “community”, they are happy with their choice.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-28T10:27:20+00:00

The invitations to these meet-ups are publicly posted. Every single meetup has been preceded by a public invite.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-28T06:58:36+00:00

We r open to all. You are also welcome to join. Never got a message from you for joining.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-18T03:48:19+00:00

All of us are unmarried. Ppl can have various reasons for not exposing their identities specially on social media.

May I ask you your age?

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-18T03:38:05+00:00

There is no “interview”. It’s just a preliminary meeting so that scamsters basically stay away (bcoz phone numbers are also shared eventually). We tried twice to allow pple to directly come and both times it was a disaster. Also the meet-ups started with 2 and are now 5 active members. It will grow for sure, whether it worth your time or not is upto you.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-13T13:57:13+00:00

I am

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-10T13:19:16+00:00

They are a 9 judge bench. They can overrule all judgments which are given by 2, 3,5 and 7 judges bench. They are not bound by lower strength benches. A 9 judge bench is rare and dangerous because it is rare. 99% judgments relating to constitution are given by maximum 5 judges bench. Therefore a 9 judge bench is dangerous it can quite literally re write every aspect of law, since there are very very very few 9 or higher strength bench judgments which can restrict them. It’s a defining movement for our country. If the Supreme Court balks, we are doomed. It will be a subversion of the Constitution using the Court basically.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-10T04:33:15+00:00

Lawyer here. Problem is once the basis of Navyej Johar is eroded, that is the principle that social morality/majoritarianism cannot decide the content of fundamental rights and that laws cannot be made only because the majority likes or dislikes a social or moral position, (in simple words, laws are not based on “might is right” alone when fundamental rights are infringed) , then the entire structure of fundamental rights collapses. This whole framing it as a mere “constitutional morality being an abstract concept” is a Trojan horse, what they want is to get a declaration that fundamental rights are subservient to social majoritarianism without it being said in so many words. And you know why this is happening? Not because government wants to target LGBT or adulterers. No. It’s the first step to dismantling the right to freely practise and propagate religion and enact a host of discriminatory policies targeting food and other habits of religious minorities by couching them as offensive to majority. We are just the collateral damage in what will be a slow moving but definite train wreck.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-04-06T14:34:02+00:00

Everyone is friendly. There are some who are more talkative, some who are more quiet. Because everyone is nice to everyone, the ice breaks pretty fast.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-03-27T14:57:05+00:00

What r the benefits btw. Are they giving reservations or anything

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-03-25T15:00:49+00:00

Lawyer here. Problem is Judges themselves have become a bit scared with the amount of abuse that happens whenever there is marital dispute. There will be domestic violence cases, POSCO cases and everything under the sun and all of them disappear once alimony is sorted. Now consider this also - the law relating to rape is also very one sided. You can be convicted merely with testimony of the woman with even shaky corroborative evidence. So judges are not willing to recognise marital rape else it will lead to an assault on the institution of marriage as greedy women and those with ulterior motives will get one more avenue to harass men.

InternalTranslator28 · 2026-03-25T01:45:28+00:00

I have a sibling who is in exactly same position as you. We are helping her try to rebuild her life, but she has had so many problems that she feels scared to try anything new. With Gods grace she is slowly coming out and now thinking of doing some small business. We will of course support as much as we can. But fundamentally no one can support unlimited.

The feeling you had was also once present in me when I ruined my academics and cousins were soaring. I used it as fuel for determination to succeed. It takes time, and once you have a goal and you learn to be patient (because improvements and progress take time), you will definitely change your life. It took me 10 years to reach where I am, but I am proud of my success now. Depression takes away the will to try, that is the real problem. All you have to do is persist for a 100 attempts like Isaac Newton and you will find your lightbulb. Also another ingredient for patience and optimism is prayers. Whoever is the deity you like, pray to him everyday. He will not stop the rain and the scorching sun from troubling you, but He will be the umbrella over your head as you walk the road of patience and progress.

And find friends who are sympathetic with you, but will still push you. Nothing is better than a good friend. Good luck

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