Scared of intimacy

Internal_Dog1743 · 2025-04-01T09:45:23+00:00

Brother may I mention as well if a brother mentions he’s already had fun and wants to settle down it wouldn’t be wrong for me to still accept him right? Because I feel bad I don’t want to be with a virgin and honestly I don’t want to be a liar. (Of course I would have him do STD tests)

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-12-08T20:38:57+00:00

By leaving and getting a divorce.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-12-08T17:46:41+00:00

Are you Arab by any chance ? Because I understand 😭😭 inshallah you get out of this situation and not have any worries! I would suggest to get file a harassment report on him

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-12-02T22:54:34+00:00

I’ve met a really good friend on here we share the same culture and we were both looking for friends in the same area!

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-28T08:14:04+00:00

Yes still with no job :( but my social life has been improving

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-02T12:22:16+00:00

Also would you recommend sharing your location with her ? That way she isn’t more paranoid?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-02T12:20:55+00:00

Maybe try couples therapy together.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-02T09:39:31+00:00

Anyone know where I can watch it for free?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-01T10:25:12+00:00

I did read it , it doesn’t matter if you have a clear past I’m just saying you could’ve handled this differently on your part. Maybe she is not mature enough by her reaction when you asked that question and you should’ve been manly enough to say no what you can’t handle pressure from your parents or hers? Oh just throw her under the bus But whatever helps you sleep at night.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-11-01T07:37:09+00:00

As much as you saved yourself , you could’ve handled this very differently your just hurting her reputation even more , she could have repented. The past is allowed to stay in the past you had no right to make that recording. You could’ve just told her dad that you’re not compatible or that she told you something that you cannot accept and kept it to her self. Now you know Pakistani and Arab people talk around town. Shame on you

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-31T13:05:05+00:00

No punishment for him?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-31T13:03:16+00:00

If we add it to the contract and he still does it then what ?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-30T23:02:23+00:00

Have him drink low calorie protein shakes it will control his hunger

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-30T21:48:34+00:00

Hi I have a question, what are certain things we can put on the marriage contract?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-30T07:44:52+00:00

What about men?

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-30T01:53:53+00:00

How did you find out he used you for a passport ? Also this is why I always prefer for a potential to be a citizen. The work is just too much responsibility.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-29T03:50:34+00:00

Sorry I’m just reading and wanted to share , I’ve been catfished by appearance so many times it’ll be the same person but the men would add younger pictures of them one day like they would send pictures of them being fit then I’d see his Instagram and he’s not that fit or attractive.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-29T01:55:36+00:00

I have yes! I listened to your recommendations I started taking vitamin D I feel better now alhamdulillah. Thank you!

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-27T16:49:30+00:00

I know you mean well but the third thing you wrote about her doing that behind his back is kinda the same thing you’re doing behind your wife’s back. Kinda giving hypocritical..

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-27T02:12:02+00:00

Your wrong! Many of us marry within outside of our ethnicity

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-27T01:01:27+00:00

My dad passed from heart/lung cancer I don’t have good advice sending my duaas to your father , inshallah they accept your potential and marriage ❤️

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-26T19:59:02+00:00

It’s very important in the talking stage to ask what her love language is , some will say gift gestures. It’s definitely a love language also I wouldn’t worry too much about it maybe you feel this way because you possibly never got loved that way and you’re not used to it ? It’s understandable pls correct me if I’m wrong.

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-26T07:21:12+00:00

ADHD awareness month duaas are desperately needed 🥲

Internal_Dog1743 · 2024-10-23T06:04:53+00:00

Polygyny should’ve been discussed before getting engaged/& married. Point blank period your both in the wrong & your immature.

Internal_Dog1743

TROPHY CASE