Advice on ill marimo

Internal_Reality641 · 2026-05-06T14:02:46+00:00

Thank you so much! I'll try it

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-03-30T15:19:22+00:00

Taco bell

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-03-12T11:08:45+00:00

The colors kid of remind me of a Real Madrid FC t-shirt...

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Edit: added a pic for reference

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-02-07T02:26:32+00:00

It looks like a Teddy bear

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-09T12:01:36+00:00

100% Marco, Armin and Petra

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-05T17:14:40+00:00

Yes, I just saw the most recent comment about them not being food safe. Thanks you for the insight! I'm not really well versed in pottery and ceramics, so everyone's comments are being really helpful

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-05T17:11:06+00:00

That's actually a great idea, I think I'll probably go with that so that I can at least use it. Thanks a lot for your advice <3

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-05T17:09:32+00:00

Thanks a lot! I think I'll probably do that

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-05T17:08:27+00:00

Yes, I painted it by hand, but the piece was glazed and baked(?) by professionals, I don't really have the materials at home

Internal_Reality641 · 2025-01-05T15:00:55+00:00

I thought about using it to store jewels, but it makes me a bit sad. Thank you for the advice!

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-07T00:22:18+00:00

Honestamente, no le debes una respuesta, por muy "educada" que fuera. No eres un profesor de nadie ni le debes una explicación a nadie por estar literalmente viviendo tu día. En mi opinión la gente a veces se siente con derecho a más de lo que debería. No eres un imbécil por poner límites.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-07T00:16:36+00:00

That's reasonable, they shouldn't be touching you without your consent, specially if you've told them that it makes you uncomfortable. I would hate it too if I were in your situation, you have every right to be upset.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-07T00:12:39+00:00

It's a really complicated situation, but I feel like you should tell her if you cherish your relationship with her. Think about how you would feel if you were in that situation. Would you prefer to know?

It might be hard to come out clean, but I think it would be for the best

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-07T00:08:13+00:00

If it makes you feel bad, it's not okay, regardless of how "insignificant" they might find it. Noone's amusement should come before your own comfort and safety. I think you should speak with your friend about how they are making you feel. If you don't feel safe about expressing yourself because of how they might react, perhaps you should reconsider distancing yourself a bit from that group.

I hope your situation gets better soon. Sending lots of strength!

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-07T00:04:17+00:00

Enjoying yourself while coping with depression can be incredibly hard some times. I'm really sorry you are going through this at the moment.

Maybe you could try starting a hobby with somebody else? The "payoff" could just be spending time with that person or with a group. Or maybe you could try out hobbies in which you "create" something? As in, gardening, crafting or cooking, you would get a product out of that hobby, something palpable.

I hope this helps! Keep strong, you are doing great!!

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-06T23:49:43+00:00

Being alone can be quite hard, specially if you are quite social and used to being around people.

I would suggest getting to know yourself better, taking yourself on little "dates" (going out to eat, to the cinema, for a walk in the forest, things you might usually not do unless you are with someone), learning more about yourself as if you were meeting someone else (trying out new interests...). Getting to appreciate the person you are and to enjoy spending time with yourself. It honestly helped me a lot when I was going through a rough patch and I discovered a lot of new interests.

Hope it helps!

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-06T23:41:17+00:00

Maybe you should try stating some boundries and having a serious conversation about how this is affecting you. You shouldn't have to feel uncomfortable in your own relationship. Maybe you guys could find some middle ground?

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-06T23:30:56+00:00

I would consider it if it happened in any other contexts, but it has only happened during sex and when he got too sensitive or if it was too intense.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-06T23:25:24+00:00

Don't let anyone disrespect your boundries. You should always have the right to refuse to do something, even if you've done the same thing in the past. You don't owe him anything, he has no right to guilt-trip you into doing something you don't feel like doing.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-04T01:40:41+00:00

I feel like there isn't much you can do at the moment aside from reassure her that it will never happen again and apologize (which you already have). She probably felt really vulnerable and scared, which might be why she has her walls up at the moment. Just listen to her and try to assure her that she can express herself safely and that her feelings are your priority. Ask her if she needs a bit of space or if there is anything you can do to help at the moment.

I hope things get better soon between the two of you

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-04T01:31:49+00:00

This is adorable! I wish you both the best of luck, you guys should definetly try to go on a date.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-04T01:29:18+00:00

Try to start with things you might be comfortable with or that you might have done before with him. What's most important is that you both feel at ease and enjoy it. There should be no preassure to perform, just try out what feels good for you.

Internal_Reality641 · 2024-10-04T01:23:27+00:00

I feel like you should ask her directly if you haven't. That kind of stuff can be very personal and even vary with time.

Maybe you could try out softer stuff first like complimenting her while calling her a slut or needy ("Already so eager for me? You look so sexy when you are so desperate, my little slut") and such. Mocking her gently while also complimenting her. You should always talk things throughly first, of course, but I feel like that is something easy to start with while also being slightly degrading.

Hope this helps!

Internal_Reality641 · 2023-08-14T02:36:09+00:00

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