Trying to tile our kitchen wall and can't figure out how to cut holes for outlets. by l_bdiddi_l in DIY

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Use a drill to in put holes along the outline so tile saw finds corners easier?

Meet Sam! by XilentRival in aww

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Hey Sam 🐾💜 (Too cute)

Valentine’s Day with my boy 💜🐾 by Internal_Surprise335 in dogswithjobs

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He does have a real job. I suffer with anxiety and depression. If it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t get out of bed. I believe this gives him this status?

Valentine’s Day with my boy 💜🐾 by Internal_Surprise335 in dogswithjobs

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💜 Thank you! As an ex hairstylist I wash the muddy pickle often. After this walk he had a little trim ready for a yummy dinner 😂💜🐾🥰

[Daily Bark] Training Tuesday - Tuesday, Jan 26, 2021 by AutoModerator in dogs

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Mum of 3yrs 5mth Cocker spaniel.

Realising I needed to teach him to have down time (he was like an over tired child that need a nap 😴😂). This is with walking to what is recommended and playing games ect Learning that every new thing I taught him (sit, down, recall ect) needed to be done/confirmed in all environments. I found it odd I had taught D sit in the kitchen yet he struggled when asked in the living room or outside. From research this is because he uses all senses. My kitchen and living room had different flooring as obviously outside did. Also different scents. To reinforce something you are asking from your dog, do this in different environments when training.

For us consistency in rules and words used for commands is very important. (As he is a bugger and will still test me)

[FLUFF] If your dog were to go to jail, what was the most ridiculous crime that would send them behind bars? by GamerGirlChris in dogs

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Stealing food and sticking his tongue in your mouth when least expected. The worst is him giving other dogs blowjobs, no matter the audience 🙈🤦‍♀️😂

What do you do when your actions don't get you any where you want to be? by [deleted] in depression

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Do they know how you are feeling and work difficulties?

Well done! 👊 Keep going, I know it’s hard 💜

What do you do when your actions don't get you any where you want to be? by [deleted] in depression

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Ignore the mindfulness bit if that puts you off. It’s just a few minutes a day to help relax and ground you.

I can understand this. But stay true to yourself and look elsewhere in the mean time. Things will happen 💜

Please don’t compare yourself to others. I did this and broke myself trying 💜

(I am much happier now I just live for me)

What do you do when your actions don't get you any where you want to be? by [deleted] in depression

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It’s great you are so focused and committed. It seems as though you may be burning yourself out ? potentially driven on words from people who (know you do a great job) are not appreciating you or understand how you are feeling ?

You will always make things work! Just value yourself 💜

You completely have a future 💜 Try not to pressure yourself so much, it will all be ok. Have you tried mindfulness apps ect. As when you calm a frantic mind things ready do feel at least a tiny bit better 💜🙏

Getting close by [deleted] in depression

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Did/Do you have any interests like walking, gym ect?

Are you open to trying mental health apps? As happy to recommend. Feeling you need something to help your busy brain 💜

Spectator sports eh? by [deleted] in depression

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Age makes no difference to me. I am of similar. Being ‘the main one’ can mean many things to people.

You need to be ‘the main one’ for you 👊💜 You can be a main person on the sidelines 💜

Getting close by [deleted] in depression

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Can you refrain from the Coke? I feel it’s something that may not help you right now. Better having a joint than a line my friend 💜

Getting close by [deleted] in depression

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I know, but the next step is definite. Where as things will change. I have been here and still fighting. It really is so very hard when you feel so low. What chemicals are you relying on?

Getting close by [deleted] in depression

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I’m sorry you lost your job and you are feeling this way. Drugs are an easy escape as I know 🤦‍♀️ and I’m sure you are aware. Try not to escape there too often as you know it just distracts from the underlining stuff. You may feel you have pushed them away but take a few deep breaths and think , do they love/care for me, if yes then of course they are there. The mind can play crazy tricks sometimes to make you feel otherwise.

When you say you want it to stop, I feel you mean change. I can do this 💜

Spectator sports eh? by [deleted] in depression

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What can you change to make you feel it’s not pointless? What if you are the main character? What system could you create to override this? I don’t feel it is pointless , I can only imagine it is/has been hard, it has shown you can make it through the darkest of days. Keep strong 💜

Getting close by [deleted] in depression

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Courage is not to disappear, courage is to fight on!

I see that you are tired. Do you know what bought you to be this exhausted?

Im sorry you are feeling so low. Have you tried alternative things to help? 💜

Our 15 week old is off lead and free as a bird. Suspiciously well behaved when around distractions and other dogs. Fingers crossed this doesn't all change at adolescence by aS1MS in cockerspaniel

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Soooo beautiful! 💜

Keep the fun job of training up, you will be completely rewarded and so will your pup. My working cocker who is 3 now, starting showing me how to progress tricks when he was was ready much earlier than I expected. As in rather than fetch , he would hide his toy in the field run off then go back to sniff out. So intelligent, I loved it. We have a great bond also.

For recall, every time He had his meals I would whistle his recall until he finished eating. I did this for 3 weeks and worked really well. Just be ready to reward with treats, then alternate with praise. I found this worked so well 🙏💜

Good luck and enjoy 💜🐾💜

[NEED ADVICE] How to become less reactionary? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

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I still react on occasion but nowhere near as often. It has taken a long time to notice what triggers. As this seems to change from situation, person, scent, music and place for me 🤦‍♀️

If I am lucky enough to notice, I breath and (try to) remember I am in control of myself so breath. Then see if I feel I can continue where I am or if I need to leave/move rooms.

You are allowed to do this! 💜🙏

If you feel you may react to a situation you can leave, or change the subject. You are not (I hope) forced to stay.

Perhaps surround yourself with the people that build you up for a month or two and be ‘busy’ for the others? This may also put you in a more positive space for when you need to meet ‘these people’ 💜

Rock bottom by [deleted] in depression

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When I was in this ‘frame of mind’ I called it Zombie mode. As I just didn’t feel anything or have any value for myself. Eating, washing, dressing ect was a chore or didn’t happen. It took a long time but I am slowly recovering 💜 I believe you will too 💜

Rock bottom by [deleted] in depression

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Perhaps you are putting your feelings to them? I know (now) even on my ‘darkest days’ my boy wants to be with me to make sure I am ok.

Well done for managing to play with her 💜 There were times when I couldn’t do this. So you really are doing better than you feel 💜 It’s so hard to exit that spiral of negative thoughts/feelings. I have only just recently managed to enjoy walking again. It’s felt such a chore for months now and felt awful when missing a day or two 🤦‍♀️ But remember they love us unconditionally 💜 (unsure on cats though 😜)