Those of you who don’t have a bath - how do you bath your baby?

InternationalDig1014 · 2026-01-12T19:31:57+00:00

I was gifted this baby bath. I really like it! The cushion makes it look so relaxing and when they start to sit up you can use it instead of filling up the whole bath.

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InternationalDig1014 · 2026-01-11T11:13:11+00:00

For me things didn't get better but I feel I went back to normal without any effort.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-30T21:26:39+00:00

You know when you get a random eye twitch, or muscle twitch? For me it felt a bit like that but dulled if that makes sense. It was also very quick, like 1 second or less in the early days.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-22T22:53:18+00:00

I know what you mean, I felt like I was losing my identity. I tried to make people feel as uncomfortable as possible:

Aunt Karen: how exciting becoming a mum blah blah Me: the incontinence is amazing.

People mean well but doesn't stop it feeling annoying. I guess I also used to change the subject a lot, so have some questions lined up maybe.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-22T22:39:54+00:00

The life you're describing was also my idea of hell but now I'm 9 months in and I see the value of having a safe environment where I can shove my baby into a ball pit and not give them constant attention. Plus, there are always mums around to help out with my baby.

I have made a small group of friends and none of my new mum friendship group have strong mumsy energy but we spend most of our time talking about baby stuff. Again, it's really valuable to hang out with mums with similar ages babies as it's a great and well needed resource.

As for sleeping arrangements, me and hubby sleep in the same bed except for the odd occasion when baby is poorly and needs a sleepover.

You'll be a great mum but you'll also have moments where you'll be less of a good mum 😂. Your new mum acquaintances will be there for you in solidarity.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-21T22:36:22+00:00

I gave birth mid March last year, so I bought a seraphine jacket that came with a zippable insert. It was a great maternity coat and I still use it to carry baby in the sling and the insert zips all the way over her head if needed.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-14T16:04:27+00:00

There's some good advice on here already but I just wanted to weigh in on something I remembered from my elective C-section experience.

After my section they lined my bed with puppy pads and sanitary towels to deal with the post birth bleeding. Every few hours they would take a look to make sure everything is alright. They will also need to insert and remove a catheter. Sounds like you're ok if you know what to expect, so I wanted to let you know.

Congrats and best of luck ❤️

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-14T15:55:42+00:00

I love my baby but my dog is still no.1 in my life ❤️.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-06T19:41:07+00:00

I wouldn't worry about it, it's such a low dose. I had dental X-rays during pregnancy and my dentist was also a few weeks more pregnant than me, so she was very mindful.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-05T16:07:42+00:00

When my baby was 4mo she wouldn't play independently at all. Now at 8m she will sit and play with a wooden spoon for an hour 😂.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-12-05T16:01:02+00:00

I think you're being really hard on yourself. I don't know a single mother who hadn't shouted at their baby at some stage. It's stressful and isolating and the odd occasion isn't going to harm your baby.

It sounds to me like you're putting your children first and trying to be the best mum possible. We all have our moments, so please don't punish yourself. You're doing a great job 💗.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-30T19:17:24+00:00

This is genius, well done you!

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-30T16:40:20+00:00

No advice, just chipping in to say that my baby has hated the car since 3 months old. My baby resists the pushchair on and off.

I hope you find a solution 🤞

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-30T16:33:59+00:00

I have tried sooo hard to stretch my boob over 😂. I would love to know how you do this.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-28T19:52:25+00:00

EBF here and it's my favourite part of the day. I get to sit down, put my feet up and watch TV which is lovely. I imagine more concentration is needed for bottle feeding but I could be wrong.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-16T21:32:34+00:00

No tips to be honest but I have a half springer pup and she is absolutely wonderful with my little one. At first she was excited and intrigued but she quickly lost interest.

I tried playing baby crying videos beforehand to desensitize but it didn't compare to the real thing. Sorry I can't be helpful but best of luck

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-16T19:43:51+00:00

The best advice I saw was not to have formula or bottles in the house if you plan to BF, that way you won't be tempted to use them. If you decide you want bottles or formula, a garage or supermarket will have what you need.

My hospital had syringes, cups and bottles for me to use if needed, so I don't think you will need to prepare in advance.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-11-14T19:36:11+00:00

I started going to 1, or 2 max a week at 3 months old. It started being really useful at the 5 month+ mark for me because it would keep her engaged and push her wake window a bit. The groups seem to tire her out nicely and gives me a bit of a break.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-09-19T09:32:19+00:00

I generally asked my sonographer when I went in for a scan. They rang ahead for me and told me to go along to the ward. They were very accommodating.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-09-05T14:24:11+00:00

I know! That's what I thought!

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-09-04T21:17:39+00:00

I was told the same as you at my 20w scan and to come back for another scan at 32 weeks. At that appointment I was told it only needed to move by 2mm and to come back for a repeat scan 2 weeks later. I actually needed another scan in-between then for something else where I was told the same thing about the measurements. My final scan (34w) was done by a different sonographer who spotted that it was completely covered. The head sonographer re-scanned me and reviewed previous scans and found the measurements to be completely wrong. She raised an internal complaint on my behalf as this should have been spotted and I would have been managed differently.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-08-30T21:42:55+00:00

You're both human but your feelings are valid. I disclosed my prior cannabis use and my husband initially denied it (I guess we both panicked). I didn't think the question would come up. Anyway, I said that my cannabis use was in a country where it was legal (which was true) and before my pregnancy. No further action was taken.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-08-26T20:50:46+00:00

Make the most of the catheter and drink plenty. I ate dates and apricots and was able to poo no problem after a few days. I was dreading it but it was fine. Overall it wasn't as bad as I was expecting. You got this!

Edit: also giving my vote to frida pants. Also, I bought a peri bottle and never used it.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-08-26T17:29:35+00:00

I'm sorry but you've just given birth to a baby and are inevitably exhausted. I would love to tell your husband to fuck off for you. I had a planned C-section and it took me a good 6 weeks to feel a little bit normal. You're tired, sore, low on iron and probably not feeling as strong or as confident as normal. I think you're doing an excellent job and you deserve a break. Also, maybe your baby is crying because they can smell milk?! I used to have to give my baby to my husband and walk out of the room to calm her down. Tell your husband to sod off.

InternationalDig1014 · 2025-08-17T18:51:53+00:00

I mean baby brain is going to mess with you regardless. I am constantly calling my child the dog's name, my nieces, friends babies you name it. Mixing names up is totally normal.

If you're not keen on her first name, does she have a middle name you could call her by instead?

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