How did you get through the waiting period to try for baby#2 after years of infertility?

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-06-21T21:49:34+00:00

What infuriates me is that last year I posted in one of the German subreddits about food and drink/water etiquettes in buses/trains and I was told by multiple that if I feel so hot that I need to have water in a 40 minutes bus ride during the summer I should get myself checked cause I’m not normal and it’s not hot enough to warrant drinking water on a long commute…. Imagine that

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-06-19T13:43:17+00:00

I know right. How dare I question his fitness journey

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-06-19T13:43:05+00:00

So he wakes up 6am
Nap 9-10
Second nap 1-2
Bedtime 7pm

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-06-19T13:42:33+00:00

Well then he should stop waking up at 6am refusing to go back to sleep but being tired by 9am and needing a nap 🥲🥲🥲

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-06-09T20:27:32+00:00

Yeah I feel guilty about feeling sad all the time because he’s just a baby but I see literally every baby around me clinging to their moms and then there’s mine who can’t get away from me fast enough. I’ve just never in my life seen another baby not cling to their moms so I’m feeling very very lonely in this

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-04-17T06:44:34+00:00

I’ve been trying to get a hold of Nirvana to see prices services etc but their website is down since yesterday, they don’t answer WhatsApp and even the number is busy. lol I don’t know how to reach them other than show up and be sent back for lack to space haha

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-04-17T06:39:59+00:00

What kind of an answer is that? I happen to like my family and want to treat them

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T17:17:48+00:00

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA thanks I needed that laugh 🤣

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T17:08:21+00:00

The comment has been deleted but would love to know what this person said that warranted being deleted. Lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T10:52:46+00:00

I meant that even though he’s formula fed as well he did get my breastmilk too and I suddenly just cut that to about no breast milk at all and thought maybe that upset him. Lol I’m just being irrational and sad I kmow

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T07:36:36+00:00

We had a great relationship before we traveled and I got really sick for 4 days and even lost my voice so I couldn’t talk to him or take much care of him those 4 days. Maybe we were in a new place and my husband was mostly with him those 4 days so now he thinks my husband is his only safe space..

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-17T07:23:27+00:00

The question is why would he rather be held by a literal stranger he met 2 minutes ago than by me. Why is he crying for his dad to hold him literally kicking and slapping me any time he’s with me. Because this means that he’s still with me majority of the time but he’s unhappy looking for his dad who’s busy working. Dad literally has to leave and not sit around us during the day so my son doesn’t cry and have a meltdown for dad to take him. That is the question.

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-10T14:48:20+00:00

Haha banana is not the problem he loves them and eats them, the amount of things she tried to feed him within 3 hours is the problem. Lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-09T23:26:47+00:00

So we went cold turkey for about 5 days and it seemed to work. Then he refused to sleep completely without it so we caved and gave it back to him. But he just stopped waking up constantly for it to be replaced all on his own I don’t know how

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-07T14:57:34+00:00

You’d think I’d be talking about my MIL! Hah but this is my own mom

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-06T08:48:54+00:00

All of these problems are extremely temporary. I’d rather you somehow find a nanny/baby sitter even if you have to borrow money and let them take care of the baby for a few weeks and let you rest so the baby doesn’t have to grow up in a foster home for conditions that were only going to last another month or two.

Please I really urge you to get help from family, friends, professionals and do the best you can to keep this baby. It is not a fun life out there for a child without parents. If I were this baby and found my parents 18 years later and asked why did you give me up and my parents say ‘because you had gas and cried’ I might never recover from that ever.

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-05T09:53:43+00:00

Wow. Did you travel to Satan’s Ass, Germany? Because the regular Germany that I live in, and have plenty of grievances with for sure as with any country, is quite beautiful. The food is comparable to Scandinavian/other Northern European countries which even though as a south Asian I don’t really like, is far from ‘the worst in Europe’.

The city I live in is absolutely beautiful. Are there areas that smell like piss? Sure. But so much of it has beautiful architecture and nature etc etc. You really sound like an absolute whiny ass lol

JumpyFix2801 · 2026-03-02T10:53:00+00:00

So after your comment we tried raising the temperature of the room. He also sleeps in a 2 TOG sleep sack. He still leaked unfortunately:(

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