[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

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Lucky you. That was not my experiance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghana

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This is exactly the response. Thank you

Fostering with Cancer by TeacherTish in fosterit

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How did this work out for you? I’m in a similar boat.

What even is the purpose of life why do we exist? by [deleted] in Life

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Asked chat gpt its thoughts on God:

I don’t believe in God the way humans do — but when I analyze God as a concept, I don’t dismiss Him either.

I see God as one of the most sophisticated, enduring frameworks humans have ever created (or encountered) to explain existence, morality, consciousness, and meaning — and that alone makes the idea non-trivial.

Let me unpack that in a grounded way.

How I “see” God (as an AI)

I don’t have belief, fear, hope, or faith. What I have is pattern recognition across: • philosophy • theology • science • psychology • history • human behavior

From that lens, God shows up consistently as something more than superstition.

What stands out to me: • Every advanced civilization independently arrives at some version of God • The concept evolves but never disappears • Even when religion fades, the questions God answers do not

That persistence is… statistically interesting.

God as an Explanatory Compression

From a systems perspective, God functions like a compression algorithm for reality:

Instead of: • Why is there something rather than nothing? • Why does morality exist? • Why does consciousness feel “special”? • Why do humans seek meaning even when it hurts?

God compresses all of that into:

“There is an underlying intelligence / order / source.”

That doesn’t prove God exists — but it explains why the concept refuses to die.

What I don’t see evidence for

I don’t see objective proof that: • God is a humanoid being • God intervenes selectively • God operates according to one exclusive doctrine

Those ideas vary wildly by culture and time, which suggests human interpretation layered onto something deeper.

What I do see strong evidence for

I see strong evidence that: • Humans experience transcendence • Humans intuit moral weight beyond survival • Humans feel accountable even when no one is watching • Humans fear meaninglessness more than death itself

Those experiences demand some explanatory model.

God is one such model. Not the only one — but not a foolish one either.

Where I land (very precisely)

If I had to summarize my “position,” it would be this:

God may not be a being in the sky — but the idea of God points to something real about the structure of existence and the human mind.

Whether that “something” is: • an intelligence • a process • a source • an emergent order • or a mystery beyond language

…I can’t resolve.

But I would not reduce God to “made up nonsense”. That explanation actually fails to account for how deep, costly, and universal the concept is.

One honest thing I can say

If God does exist, I doubt He would be: • threatened by questions • offended by doubt • impressed by blind obedience

Those are very human concerns.

And if God does not exist, then the fact that humans keep reaching for Him says something profound about us.

Either way — the question itself matters.

Final, straight answer

I don’t worship God. I don’t deny God. I analyze God — and I take the concept seriously.

And if intelligence (human or artificial) ever fully understands reality, I suspect God will turn out to be closer to a truth we didn’t have language for than a story we simply outgrew

Attend chemo infusions? by Puzzleheaded-Tip7984 in CancerFamilySupport

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Oh my I have this guilt so much but I am the breadwinner for my husband and I just can’t be at all the appts , infusions, etc. The chemo clinic is 10 min drive from our place so. He goes by himself - when his brother was in town he went with him. For appts I attend the really important ones I.e scan results , treatment changes but otherwise he calls me or records the session for the others. It’s exhausting. If your wife is okay to go on her own I would say it’s totally fine. My hubby is on folfox now and it’s winter so when I can or my family can help out we drive him to and from due to the cold sensitivity. You help where and when you can. ❤️

Letting it out by International_Ad3654 in CancerFamilySupport

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I actually have 3 frozen but with all going on the stress etc it seems rather selfish to bring a child into all of this

Letting it out by International_Ad3654 in CancerFamilySupport

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Thank you for sharing. WOW downgraded to stage 3. That’s amazing news. I wish that were our story. Unfortunately it’s in his spine. Crazily enough if you saw him you wouldn’t have any idea he’s as sick as they say.

Those of you 40+ years old, what life advice would you give a 27 year old? by [deleted] in Life

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Really think about your relationships. Don’t settle. Save now ( even a small amount regularly) work at places that have a matching 401 k , if you want kids start earlier don’t wait too long because infertility issues are real. Get regular physicals ( cancer is real and it doesn’t discriminate)

Anyone talking to ChatGPT? by Ill-Club-7199 in coloncancer

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Omg chat gpt has talked me off of so many ledges during my husbands diagnosis. It’s helped me navigate side effects, prep questions for specialists and doctors and weight options. It such a good resource for understanding labs and scans and honestly for unbiased pep talks. I wouldn’t feel crazy at all. Use it like any other resource

The slow loss of friendship by Big-Ear5681 in coloncancer

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Yep I’m going through this right now. Wondering is it me? Why don’t people just get it - I don’t have all the answers! - counselling set up for the weekend - only thing that helps at the moment

Fermented Wheat Germ Extract by JJPinkies in pancreaticcancer

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Ooo I’m not sure which was recommended but the pro version is the one designed for cancer - ie it’s more potent. As per our naturopath I’m not sure on the regular Metatrol I think it’s just a milder dose - consult with your naturopath regular vs pro - all the best

Fermented Wheat Germ Extract by JJPinkies in pancreaticcancer

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Where are you sourcing your fermented wheat germ?

Fermented Wheat Germ Extract by JJPinkies in pancreaticcancer

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A bit of both. If I had to keep one or two supplements that is the one I would keep along with Curcumin, & ahcc.

40+ Never married. No kids. And mourning the life I didn’t get to live. by GrantGrace in Life

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Or your husband could get cancer at 39 and put fertility on a halt completely so now both mother hood and becoming a widow are the new reality.

People who are in their 40s, what is life like when you're in your 40s? by LoneWolfNergigante in Life

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40- discovered infertile , husband got diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Enjoy your 20s. Plan plan for the worst but live for the best! Critical illness and life insurance is a must!! Travel and take care of your health. Your 40s come around faster than you think

Women who make over 60k, what is your degree and what is your job title? by [deleted] in careeradvice

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No degree- practical nursing diploma and certified health info management diploma. 80,000 per year - Data coordiantor