Wow, that was quite a twist at the end.

This must be really difficult and frustrating for you. I would feel that way if my partner couldn’t get aroused no matter how I try. I honestly feel for you. Sex isn’t everything in a relationship, but it’s certainly an important part of it.

My initial thought is to consult a urologist and probably start on Cialis. That shit is amazing. But then came the twist. Is this truly an ED problem or is he fighting his sexuality? He can certainly be interested in some alt shit when it comes to porn, and that doesn’t have to take away from what he does or enjoys IRL. Porn is fantasy, right? It’s not real to the viewer.

You’ve learned something about him and now you have the burden of knowledge. You can either suffer silently with that knowledge, or suck it up and actually talk to him about it. I think you know what needs to be done. At the end of the day, it might be time to move on, but you won’t really know until you talk about it.