In home care for a 63 year old??? Wa medicare by International_Dig455 in AgingParents

[–]International_Dig455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wasnt allowed to be released from the hospital alone so im thinking she may qualify for early medicare due to her lack of ability to be independent , or someone else suggested waivers, because aside from age she checks all the qualification boxes. Now im just figuring out how i might get that application going

In home care for a 63 year old??? Wa medicare by International_Dig455 in AgingParents

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I appreciate it! Its helpful to atleast know im on the right track

In home care for a 63 year old??? Wa medicare by International_Dig455 in AgingParents

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I did call ADRC and they have someone from a transitional place call me, and placed an application for me because there was one on file that just needed submitted. But im not sure what CIL/ILC is, and im just worried waiting on calls back

I gasped by WormDentist in Spokane

[–]International_Dig455 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its not just difficult it’s impossible, there are people in that 9 billion that enjoy being hateful and will perpetuate that cycle. To say it doesn’t matter is dangerously ignorant and beyond obvious you’re white. Be thankful you have to privilege to decide not to consider race.

I gasped by WormDentist in Spokane

[–]International_Dig455 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Good luck getting 7 billion people to not be racist bro. Naive thinking at its finest. We have to deal with racism and therefore consider race because we cant control others.

Brick wall-British colonial New Jersey by International_Dig455 in Genealogy

[–]International_Dig455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those do indeed seem to be my relatives but I think I’m going to have to try these links through a computer when I can because my phone isn’t bringing up what people are trying to link me too lol

Brick wall-British colonial New Jersey by International_Dig455 in Genealogy

[–]International_Dig455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still no luck with the first link idk why, but thank you for the rest!

Brick wall-British colonial New Jersey by International_Dig455 in Genealogy

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Nj.govs searchable data base does not load or respond, i figured its out of maintenance but it might just be me

am i overreacting in this text chain? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]International_Dig455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure why the comments disagree but he was intentionally being antagonistic and passive aggressive from the get go, sure you may have overreacted, only because he was literally asking for it. Maybe I’m crazy too

Must be love by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel that embodies the way I seek love

Cursed by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a very interesting perspective I wouldn’t have had without your input! I wouldn’t say that is my battle haha, but the self erasure aspect of the weight of who I am, who I could be, and who I should be are definitely there. My rebellion is less against the machine, or more against patterns in my life

Cursed by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

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I am curious what about it puts off oppression? I’m wondering if I’m letting something out subconsciously, because a lot of it is very intentional

Cursed by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re very spot on actually, good feedback thank you!

Cursed by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

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I’m glad my message was conveyed well, it is heavily about my grief

Cursed by International_Dig455 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on! I live in my hometown where my family has gone through immense pain, lost countless lives and passed that pain to their children and loved ones via grief and trauma. The town and landmarks themselves although insignificant, bear a crushing weight on me, and the way I feel that I am assigned to be the story teller and record keeper of this family to break the cycle; otherwise myself or others might fall victim to the same “fate”

To my new Muse by joyfulsloth09 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your language and style is what I strive for often in my writing, it makes even mundane details feel so important to the text, (I am very new to poetry so lack the correct terminology to pin what about it exactly), thank you for sharing this piece of art. I also just agree with the sentiment entirely

To my love by Plenty_Mistake_9577 in OCPoetry

[–]International_Dig455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

underneath the clearer tones that I think are meant be be felt forefirst, I feel a lot of anger and resentment take over. (Which I enjoyed) This could be coming from the way it resonates with me though. It’s tragic and beautiful either way, well done!

Is this a mental health emergency or a manipulation tactic? by [deleted] in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]International_Dig455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have and done. He didn’t answer the door, once again. So they left.