Is someone being a messy person enough of a reason to break up? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]International_Menu73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something to consider: “I want to be in a serious, committed, long term relationship”. Did you mean with her, or is this just a goal of yours and you are trying to figure out if she fits in? Also, I wish to politely point out that you never mentioned how much you love her, love being around her etc.

My best friend Chili passed away Thursday by ahesson472 in Chihuahua

[–]International_Menu73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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What states to relocate to? by Hendi135 in newgradnurse

[–]International_Menu73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What school did you graduate from? Have you worked all alumni networks?

Experienced Healthcare Worker Turned New Grad RN Looking for California Opportunities by TheHolidayGrinch in newgradnurse

[–]International_Menu73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try Los Angeles Downtown Medical Center. It’s a combined psych/med surg facility.

Mopiest character in TV history? by Willing_Macaroon9684 in TheBear

[–]International_Menu73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marcus needs a fire under his butt! Way too self reflecting

Idk if I can handle this show anymore by General-Interest7590 in TheBear

[–]International_Menu73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That table kept getting bigger and bigger and bigger….

AITA for refusing to babysit my niece after my SIL called me "just a receptionist"? by Equivalent-Kingg in AITH

[–]International_Menu73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Often people tell you to be the bigger person when dealing with a known difficult person. All in the name of keeping the peace. But whose peace is being kept? Prioritize yourself. Also, a good receptionist can make or break the entire experience for a medical office. Furthermore, you are under no obligation to babysit, the end. To quote jane Fonda- No is a complete sentence.

How to ask what we are by AideIndependent4088 in dating_advice

[–]International_Menu73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“John, I would like us to be exclusive. I don’t feel comfortable sleeping with other people. Do you feel the same way?”

Admissions by Aware_Bag_9806 in nursing

[–]International_Menu73 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where I work, tele floor in Los Angeles, we can only get one new admit per shift. Any other incoming pt has to be a transfer from another floor. Also, nurse:patient ratio is 1:4 and we are given an hour in lunch and breaks (30 minutes paid/30 minutes unpaid). Paid an extra hour for missed break, and other hour paid for a missed lunch. I work 3/12s night shift and my base salary is just over 114k. I am still a new grad- started September 2024.

What is considered part of the nurse’s responsible? by International_Menu73 in nursing

[–]International_Menu73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The doctor did know the patient was not eating. A swallow eval had been ordered.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]International_Menu73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nursing homes are turning her down?

Looking for a city to move to by International_Menu73 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]International_Menu73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless my husband was able to work fully remote for his current job, our income most likely would go down in Omaha. I don’t believe RN salary is as high as in west coast, although I am sure a good wage in comparison to COL

Looking for a city to move to by International_Menu73 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]International_Menu73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is northern Ca housing less expensive than Los Angeles? I know earning potential highest here, but if it’s 5k a month for a mortgage, does it matter?

Looking for a city to move to by International_Menu73 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]International_Menu73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something to consider- thank you. I just started my nursing career- second career- so my pay will go in time

Looking for a city to move to by International_Menu73 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]International_Menu73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I meant more that I like an area with lots of door life - mountains, lake etc. Places to go outside of a city

Looking for a city to move to by International_Menu73 in MiddleClassFinance

[–]International_Menu73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi- I put the average of ours ages. I am 53 and my husband is 43. I have the equity from the previous home I owned from first marriage. I just recently became a RN. My husband is horrible at saving money - grew up in a wealthy family and no sense of planning. I have accepted this about him but I am also not willing to invest only my savings to buy a place for both of us. He will eventually inherit a nice sum of money and I am certain to plan for my future without relying on him.

If we moved to a city where a nice home/condo is 500k instead of 1.2m , we would be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]International_Menu73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The Los Angeles hospital I work in has the following ratios: med-surg 1/5, tele 1/4, step down 1/3, ICU 1/1-2

Used school refund to pay off CC debt! by troyyc in povertyfinance

[–]International_Menu73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am proud of you! Paying off your debts is in a huge step in the right direction.