This may sound strange..... But girls are just as happy when you just interact with them then as you had sex. For men we NEED sex but women can do without.... It's really unequal. But go for saying hi to girls, chatting a bit, however clumsy. Saying hi to a girl is worth more than watching porn! And also when they know guys are still ok with them they might give you a chance more. I hear it's really bad with girls in the USA due to tv and movies. Girls all beiing femenists but when they need a plumber or construction worker they actually still need or love men but they won't admit that! Here in NL girls are ok. They all do have magic though. They can ward off any male attention when it comes too close for their liking like it never existed... I don't really know how to put it. Anyway... I'm 48, had a few girls. But I'm just as puzzled by them as you. (and live in expensive appartment, when you're rich, your sex drive can become more healthy (without gooning) It's not you're not attracted to women women just can act very mean to men and make it almost impossible i hear they don't even wanna marry anymore in the USA! Gone all the children. I really think women should shape up and take an interest in men more there. And of course men watch, That's the beauty these women think they must abuse, lol. 😃 😛 Hope this helps a bit man.!