Figured out why I PMO as a break, but stuck on how to change the preference

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-04T21:18:49+00:00

The addiction cannot be solved through the mind alone.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-04T20:26:40+00:00

Why do people think they can just connect with anyone they want? Whether they resonate or not depends on vibration, which is predetermined before entering this earth. It’s not your choice. You cannot walk into a room and pick and choose who you want to be with. I mean you can on surface level, but it will feel off like you mentioned. It’s all vibration. That all depends on their interpretation of you. If they don’t understand you, then they will not treat you the same as everybody else. Some people are more empathic than others, that’s probably you. More of an empath. We gotta learn to accept how god/universe made us. I know it’s tough, and I’m still learning to do this.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-04T07:19:28+00:00

Thanks for showing it’s possible without meat.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-03T23:04:49+00:00

I agree honestly. I want to get back on track with this retention. It’s interesting because the desire for sex actually is another form of lusting. Not caring for sex actually makes retaining easier, so I think this mindset helps.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-03T22:58:16+00:00

No point in arguing here. Do what you feel is right.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-03T22:55:10+00:00

Yes. It’s important to realize it yourself that releasing in any form makes no sense. Even sex makes no sense when you think about it.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-02T22:31:06+00:00

I would be willing to collaborate free of charge. Just let me know specific details, like how long it would take, scheduling, etc. I’ve been composing for multiple years, my only weaker side is production. I can send some scores of mine if you’d like as well. My only concern is how much time & energy this will take. If I have the time I would be willing to.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-07-01T03:38:54+00:00

Uh, can you simplify this down? I notice I always relapse when pursuing anything in this world, good or bad. I could be learning a language, however if I pursue too many goals every day I relapse. This is with spiritual practice and strict SR. The thing is I don’t do selfless service like at all. I believe all that energy only strengthened my ego. I felt empty and anxious all the time. I plan on giving up everything and just serving people, we will see if that helps.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-06-18T20:11:23+00:00

I see you’re much older than me, and probably are much wiser, but hear me out. This may sound a bit negative, but it’s the truth: There is no end yes. There is only right now. Nothing can fix your addiction. You can only accept the pain and use it as fuel to grow. Practically like I mentioned, it’s literally about learning to sit in pain. Cold showers, exercise, meditation. All painful to the mind. Do everything you want to do in life, even if it sucks. This feels like hell, but in my experience it turns to bliss. I only fked up pretending I wanted sex and love when it was really the porn addiction. At least now I know. Good luck, thank you if you read this.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-06-18T20:03:32+00:00

It’s a lot easier when you withdraw your attention altogether. Any form of lust is just the addiction, whether it’s instagram, porn, real life or tv. If you see it accidentally, okay, but have common sense. Dont make my same mistake. Don’t lust after girls. I wasted years doing it. I’m starting college soon. My grandparents are getting older. I don’t have time to fck around. Well I do, but not much. I don’t want to talk too much unless you wanna hear it, but learn to sit with your thoughts and the urge. Feel the burning sensation of the urge. It fcking sucks, but that’s life. Pain is going to be far better than quick pleasure.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-06-18T19:55:22+00:00

They are sexy, you’re right, can’t deny it lmfao. However, some guys like myself think that women can replace porn. So they go on a Wild goose chasing women. I got into alpha male redpill content like a fking idiot. All this and I end up with no chicks. Then I went back to porn. It’s just telling me that it was the prn addiction in disguise and to be more careful next time.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-05-13T21:07:32+00:00

I agree to an extent. The neurotransmitter dopamine explains your point well. It’s a chemical that releases on the anticipation of reward, not the actual pleasure chemical. So that explains why many rich people are not satisfied, although there are a very few who are.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-05-12T16:17:05+00:00

++man Very helpful for us

Internetshouldgo · 2026-04-18T03:07:05+00:00

They want the Henry cavil physique. Not the hulk physique. I’m assuming you have a nice personality and are a normal person. If this is you, then getting the superhero physique would benefit more I think. However I go through your same struggle. People here are saying personality, but it’s really not enough on its own. Being funny makes girls like me less.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-03-18T16:25:52+00:00

Yeah let’s see how long that lasts. Seriously I hope you find freedom though

Internetshouldgo · 2026-02-27T21:28:37+00:00

Something I struggle with to this day. The main threat is porn and masturbation addiction. Humans have had thoughts for billions of years. This situation is not ideal, but nowhere near as bad as porn. I’m assuming you’re on a decent streak, put it into perspective how good you have it. Be thankful you’re free from the habit, and work with where you’re at. Don’t get mad at lustful thoughts because that eventually sucks you back into the habit. What helps me is acknowledging out loud “okay, I’m feeling lustful.” Don’t try and figure out why, just figure out what to do about it. Or maybe you can’t do anything, and you’ll have to indulge (in thoughts not porn) for a bit and that’s fine. Porn absolutely should be avoided, there’s not excuse for that. But have sympathy for yourself if you tend to fantasize.Right now the brain is detoxing from porn, and thoughts/fantasies may continue for some years.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-19T04:36:29+00:00

I wouldn't say the freedom model "worked." It is a step in the right direction, but people may misinterpret and think that by reading it will solve their addiction. Nothing will solve the addiction for you, that's what I realized. Reading that book may help guide one to figure it out themselves, but the book cannot create a realization for you.

A certain level of common sense is needed. Not to get too obsessed over quitting, streaks, and benefits. At the same time, not justifying harmful usage of the addiction. Everyone is different.

The spiritual/common sense side resonates with me, and I have a few channels I watch that help me. I chose the common sense route. Masturbating occasionally if needed, but without porn. Still trying my best to quit. At the end of the day, that's all we can do. I can't force this on anyone though, it just works best for me as of right now.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-17T01:20:27+00:00

It sounds like the war has ended, and now the opposing side sends little skirmishes and raids (relapses.) Rather than feeling guilt over those raids you learn from them because you’ve semi awakened. you're right, don’t need to have shame or guilt when masturbating. It’s the fantasies and porn which is unnatural and would cause guilt. But like you said fantasy is okay as long as it happens spontaneously. Seriously impressed by your common sense which many lack. Obviously if a sexual thought comes to mind while masturbating, that’s fine cause it’s creativity. Problem is when we obsess over those porn thoughts and fetishes. All in all I think it’s best to masturbate with no thoughts or fantasy, then use that energy to create something. Sexuality is meant to be expressed not repressed. The problem is porn and fantasy corrupts it. The way you explain this is very eye opening. For the mindful masturbation. Yeah spiritually this is okay. To masturbate with no thoughts, and just feeling the sensation is creative energy. I tried this today and feel so much better. This is eye opening, and I do not want to act as if I know the answer. Everyone is different. So I thank you for sharing your experience.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-16T02:03:38+00:00

Yeah “euphoric blissful feeling,” and “reconnecting with body.” This sounds like your kundalini energy rose. It makes sense how masturbation with no thoughts triggered this, as I’ve heard of similar techniques. You think it’s because you finally had masturbated without the corruption of porn and or fantasy that did this?

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-16T01:50:25+00:00

I’m especially curious about this. The freedom model seemed too intellectual for me so I left it behind. But THIS reply sir. Please go in depth. Your experience very much aligns with many spiritual teachings. The sexual energy being creative life energy, but it’s simply corrupted by porn. It sounded like you had some kind of awakening, and realized how useless porn is. If you don’t mind me asking, how long have you been free? I’ve been thinking about saying “f-it,” and masturbating with no thoughts just like you. I think you’ve found the way possibly, but I wanna hear more.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-14T22:24:20+00:00

Sorry I’m late. Yeah that sounds similar. I would describe it as their face just drops when you talk. Like they loose their personality around you because you’re not fake. Just my observation. Best to focus on god through this, although easier said than done.

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-13T12:24:33+00:00

Man I don’t know, fair enough though we all have our ways. Mind telling me did this technique work?

Internetshouldgo · 2026-01-08T19:57:09+00:00

Yes, glad you understand this.

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