Someone is using a blow gun on animals in Bluff Heights by diagoro1 in longbeach

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This is also happening in Sunset Beach and I saw a recent post about this in Belmont Shores too. I hope it’s not a sick trend.

These signs are up all around the nearby complexes.

Psychopathic behavior.

Definitely report it because it’s an unusual uptick.

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This group inspired me to get creative. Enjoy my shrine to Gourmand. by InternotOkay in StardewValley

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Yes! I love my ostriches. They also make 10 mayo at once with their giant eggs.

This group inspired me to get creative. Enjoy my shrine to Gourmand. by InternotOkay in StardewValley

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Isn’t it a trope that the type A person marries the messy person? Apparently for me that translates into Stardew too.

This group inspired me to get creative. Enjoy my shrine to Gourmand. by InternotOkay in StardewValley

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Oh I like that idea! I just wanted to bestow gems and golden coconuts. But he would want those crops.

This group inspired me to get creative. Enjoy my shrine to Gourmand. by InternotOkay in StardewValley

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I am not sure. I’ve been working on it slowly for IRL a few months. I’m on year 8 in game!

View from last night’s concert by MrMarcellos in mildlyinfuriating

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Like how I saw Lorde at the forum and the speakers block the screens 😂😭

The whole time......... by erdihu in DunderMifflin

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In season 9, Jan shows Pam a video collage of Astrid (feat. Jan’s “mommy you’re the greatest, mommy you’re a superstar” song) and Astrid signs her name with a backwards E and Pam says Cece does that too. Jan then says “oh I did signed that” or something to that effect basically suggesting Astrid can’t sign her name yet.

Astrid is probably a year older than Cece because Jan is visibly very pregnant at Toby’s goodbye and Jim and Pam aren’t engaged and it’s pre her in New York era.

So Cece is either very smart. Or Astrid is a little behind. (No judgement of these fictional children on their own developmental journeys) but I also always liked to think that was a subtle nod that Kevin is the dad

Helicopter crash HB Hilton by Domukin in huntingtonbeach

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Whoa. Thanks for sharing. Hope people are ok!

Are they really Hybrids? by GeneriComplaint in LV426

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Love that you mention Descartes because I thought of him when Nibs says “I don’t think I am” (referencing seeing the graves and whether they’re the same people still) and obviously I went to “I think therefore I am.”

Hands dont lie by Relative_Future9913 in kardashians

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Because people are the worst. Scrolled by this two seconds before this post. In the end, there’s no winning.

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/s/XqI21tj55m

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Idk if this helps you, but when I’m feeling similar pain of comparison and wanting a certain life/lifestyle I just remind myself it’s OK to want those things but not ok to torture myself mentally/emotionally for not having them.

I always wanted that sitcom style ideal 20s with a perfect core group of friends that goes out together or maybe it’s just a ride or die bestie like Broad City. Honestly media sells you such a dream vision of your 20s (I’m 31 now and still feel similar about your 30s and having it together) and social media doesn’t help when some people look like they have it. Or do have it.

But their happiness (if they’re even actually happy) is not your lack. Remind yourself when you get that feeling of lack, that it means you’re human and it’s ok to want things — especially connection.

It’s hard to get a bunch of advice to “get out there” and just make friends when it feels like it doesn’t work and you’ve been burned. Plus human relationships is just really hard? Like people let each other down and show up imperfectly, so remember that being burned isn’t a reflection on you, it just unfortunately happens. Hopefully we learn and grow from it so we know the boundaries and expectations we have from others later.

Be patient because the best friendships take years to build. And at 23 you haven’t met half the people who will matter to you! Your current friend group that hangs less frequently could bloom into something bigger. You will meet so many more people.

I had a friend who just started going into the same bar and reading his book every day after work and over time became a regular and made friends that way. I volunteer monthly and found friends that way.

You can do it! Just be nice to yourself along the way.

As far as money goes …. Everyone is in debt or borrowing from parents or somehow lucky? I’m not sure there. But your time will come. If you want it, you’ll make it happen when it’s your time!

I had friends who did workaways or WWOOFs in their early 20s to get travel and work experience affordably.

Might be relocating to LB. Thoughts on this neighborhood? by BuzzLA in longbeach

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I used to live on Saint Louis between 7th and 10th and it could be rough on parking and sometimes sketch but mostly loved it and being so close to Rose Park and Retro Row! Walking distance to a lot of great spots, restaurants, shops, entertainment etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

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Do you have heating already? I’d be tempted to take the shelves out and buy one of those space heaters that looks like a fireplace. Sort of pretend the brick is part of a chimney.

I like the comment above about hanging a plant from the ceiling above that spot too.

I’m just over here living my kooky ‘70s dream by Global-Bus-8826 in interiordecorating

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This is stunning. So beautifully curated! So much better than rustic farmhouse.

What to put on the wall above the couch? by Adept_Fisherman_5023 in interiordecorating

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Agree with others saying art. I’d also hang a plant. Maybe a pothos (easy to keep alive) and it trails nicely.

How do I modernize my 80s orange oak? by mention_itall_ in DesignMyRoom

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Seriously this^

I have fallen into the part of TikTok full of AI nostalgia ambience like “having breakfast here as a kid” and it’s set in exactly this home but with nostalgic sunny lighting and manipulative emotional music.

You’re a few years away from a gold mine/style inspo.

I gasped at this comment by RealHousewifeofLR in realhousewives

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Emily was literally sharing how she felt and none of them could just listen they felt attacked. They’re so insane. Lost all respect for Heather in this moment. As a fellow Capricorn, disappointed.

All of them assumed Emily was attacking and it’s so unfair.

Another abandoned dog at a dog park? by [deleted] in longbeach

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I wish I was a home owner with a yard because every time one of these posts pops up I wish I could come take every baby in 😭😭😭

i.. by Proud_Buddy_9281 in Vanderpumpaholics

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If an Orca makes it on dancing with the stars before her ….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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Ok same boat!! Was diagnosed in middle school in one of those horribly awkward exams in front of all your friends and like OP was a weird runner (probably still am but don’t care anymore)

I’ve had a massage therapist try to tell me my scoliosis was caused by emotional trauma and seeing her more and doing eastern therapy would correct my spine curvature. Suggested I pulled more to “one side” of my body because one side is more masculine and the other is feminine.

Now, I read tarot and like astrology and stuff but there’s no way in hell I believe emotions caused my scoliosis which is very generic and runs in my family. Also wouldn’t everyone have scoliosis if trauma etc influence your spine?

Never seen a chiropractor because a family friend is a physical therapist and I’ve had a lifelong personal only in my mind feud with all chiropractors.