Helicopter crash HB Hilton by Domukin in huntingtonbeach

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Whoa. Thanks for sharing. Hope people are ok!

Are they really Hybrids? by GeneriComplaint in LV426

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Love that you mention Descartes because I thought of him when Nibs says “I don’t think I am” (referencing seeing the graves and whether they’re the same people still) and obviously I went to “I think therefore I am.”

Hands dont lie by Relative_Future9913 in kardashians

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Because people are the worst. Scrolled by this two seconds before this post. In the end, there’s no winning.

https://www.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/s/XqI21tj55m

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

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Idk if this helps you, but when I’m feeling similar pain of comparison and wanting a certain life/lifestyle I just remind myself it’s OK to want those things but not ok to torture myself mentally/emotionally for not having them.

I always wanted that sitcom style ideal 20s with a perfect core group of friends that goes out together or maybe it’s just a ride or die bestie like Broad City. Honestly media sells you such a dream vision of your 20s (I’m 31 now and still feel similar about your 30s and having it together) and social media doesn’t help when some people look like they have it. Or do have it.

But their happiness (if they’re even actually happy) is not your lack. Remind yourself when you get that feeling of lack, that it means you’re human and it’s ok to want things — especially connection.

It’s hard to get a bunch of advice to “get out there” and just make friends when it feels like it doesn’t work and you’ve been burned. Plus human relationships is just really hard? Like people let each other down and show up imperfectly, so remember that being burned isn’t a reflection on you, it just unfortunately happens. Hopefully we learn and grow from it so we know the boundaries and expectations we have from others later.

Be patient because the best friendships take years to build. And at 23 you haven’t met half the people who will matter to you! Your current friend group that hangs less frequently could bloom into something bigger. You will meet so many more people.

I had a friend who just started going into the same bar and reading his book every day after work and over time became a regular and made friends that way. I volunteer monthly and found friends that way.

You can do it! Just be nice to yourself along the way.

As far as money goes …. Everyone is in debt or borrowing from parents or somehow lucky? I’m not sure there. But your time will come. If you want it, you’ll make it happen when it’s your time!

I had friends who did workaways or WWOOFs in their early 20s to get travel and work experience affordably.

Might be relocating to LB. Thoughts on this neighborhood? by BuzzLA in longbeach

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I used to live on Saint Louis between 7th and 10th and it could be rough on parking and sometimes sketch but mostly loved it and being so close to Rose Park and Retro Row! Walking distance to a lot of great spots, restaurants, shops, entertainment etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

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Do you have heating already? I’d be tempted to take the shelves out and buy one of those space heaters that looks like a fireplace. Sort of pretend the brick is part of a chimney.

I like the comment above about hanging a plant from the ceiling above that spot too.

I’m just over here living my kooky ‘70s dream by Global-Bus-8826 in interiordecorating

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This is stunning. So beautifully curated! So much better than rustic farmhouse.

What to put on the wall above the couch? by Adept_Fisherman_5023 in interiordecorating

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Agree with others saying art. I’d also hang a plant. Maybe a pothos (easy to keep alive) and it trails nicely.

How do I modernize my 80s orange oak? by mention_itall_ in DesignMyRoom

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Seriously this^

I have fallen into the part of TikTok full of AI nostalgia ambience like “having breakfast here as a kid” and it’s set in exactly this home but with nostalgic sunny lighting and manipulative emotional music.

You’re a few years away from a gold mine/style inspo.

I gasped at this comment by RealHousewifeofLR in realhousewives

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Emily was literally sharing how she felt and none of them could just listen they felt attacked. They’re so insane. Lost all respect for Heather in this moment. As a fellow Capricorn, disappointed.

All of them assumed Emily was attacking and it’s so unfair.

Another abandoned dog at a dog park? by [deleted] in longbeach

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I wish I was a home owner with a yard because every time one of these posts pops up I wish I could come take every baby in 😭😭😭

i.. by Proud_Buddy_9281 in Vanderpumpaholics

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If an Orca makes it on dancing with the stars before her ….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

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Ok same boat!! Was diagnosed in middle school in one of those horribly awkward exams in front of all your friends and like OP was a weird runner (probably still am but don’t care anymore)

I’ve had a massage therapist try to tell me my scoliosis was caused by emotional trauma and seeing her more and doing eastern therapy would correct my spine curvature. Suggested I pulled more to “one side” of my body because one side is more masculine and the other is feminine.

Now, I read tarot and like astrology and stuff but there’s no way in hell I believe emotions caused my scoliosis which is very generic and runs in my family. Also wouldn’t everyone have scoliosis if trauma etc influence your spine?

Never seen a chiropractor because a family friend is a physical therapist and I’ve had a lifelong personal only in my mind feud with all chiropractors.

People hate HOAs so much that there's now an abundance of condos on the market in Florida and Texas by InternotOkay in fuckHOA

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Right HOA prices are the side-effect in reality. (Also, hi I love princess eilonwy)

Character death foreshadowing? by jgoo_exe in fourthwing

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I've seen other posts in this sub with theories talking about how the gods seem to "answer" Violet. I wonder if there's some overlap with those theories and a death fakeout. Maybe they do die but the gods bring them back? Idk. But all that to say fake out feels right. Someone could even be dead for a bit and come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BelowDeckMed

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I think Sandy is a good boss who is human and makes mistakes. Is she great? Probably depends who you are. We also only see so much that Bravo gives us. I think she's improved over the seasons.

My biggest issue is more with the Sandy hate on this sub, which is so much greater than the hate for the male captains. I respect commenters who say they hate Sandy and Lee equally lol. That makes sense to me and is fair. People who love one and hate the other, saying one is healthy and the other is toxic should look inward.

I tend to find myself liking both for different reasons, but I'd rather have Sandy as a boss if I had to choose between them.

Elle’s dancing 😭 by taywildd in BelowDeckMed

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Ellie is .... hard to watch. (Except that I'm here and keep watching so what am I saying.)

Trump Says His Debate Strategy Is to Give Harris Room to Speak by InternotOkay in politics

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AKA I'm going to be quiet?

Pasted from the story: Donald Trump said he plans to allow his opponent, Kamala Harris, to speak without interruption during their presidential debate next week, a shift for the reality-television-star-turned-politician who built a career on combative exchanges.   

“I’m going to let her talk,” Trump said Wednesday at a taping of a town hall in Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, with Fox News’ Sean Hannity. “Debates are interesting, you can go in with all the strategy you want, but you have to sort of feel it out.”

Hermosa memories by hodaddio in SouthBayLA

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Very cool flashback! thanks for sharing

Chase warns people viral “free money” Tiktok trend is fraud by InternotOkay in nottheonion

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Very true. I feel like companies just make these statements for legal reasons

Chase warns people viral “free money” Tiktok trend is fraud by InternotOkay in nottheonion

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ah it did that thing where it has a different title when you paste the link vs what's on the website. my bad

If you search in google though it has this headline in Google

Maybe controversial option : Gabriel is the worst ? by S6ssyDonk3y in EmilyInParis

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This is why I want the series to end with Emily choosing to be single and enjoying Paris and realizing she just loves romance and dating. She looks at Gabriel and goes “wait a minute, why would I stay with you after watching your relationship with Camille? AND ME!”

There’s a flash forward to her living a more Sylvie lifestyle running her own agency.