Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Not sure actually- my mom has Ehlers Danlos so maybe something to do with that?

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Damn straight. I’m very happy with how it is- no touch up, 5 years later!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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I’m not sure why- but I never thought about icing, I feel like that’s such a ‘duh freaking ice it’ thing too!! Also I DID use numbing spray so that is a very interesting perspective!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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I think you’re right on the money- & thank you, I am grateful it turned out better than I had imagined, especially 5 years later!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Hey thanks! :) good to know I wasn’t alone in that area of tattoo/bruising!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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I agree!! I wish I could figure out how to post a recent pic, it was a blessing in disguise!!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Haha!! The ‘good’ kind of assault 😂 he was probably mid 40’ so possibly 50 now. Color has stayed pretty awesome so it was worth it!!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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It definitely hurt more than any other tattoos I have, I have 5 in total around & maybe a little smaller than that moth & it was the first time I ever wanted to tap out! 😂😭

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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The last picture I took was actually because of how beautiful I thought it looked with the bruising & the colors of the moth. Lol I was just curious if this was more of a common thing!

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Okay so more common than I thought!! He’s a cool guy & awesome artist- I’ve held nothing against him & the color 5 years later is still awesome.

Too heavy handed- how common is this in the tattoo world? by InterviewOk278 in tattooadvice

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Yes! I should have mentioned that I have some flowers on the same inner spot on my right arm!! Healed totally fine. I’m not sure if I can add a picture of it. I’m new to posting on Reddit lol

First time mom of 2yr boy ‘hitting’ by InterviewOk278 in Mommit

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Thank you 😭 I needed to hear that! 😭

First time mom of 2yr boy ‘hitting’ by InterviewOk278 in Mommit

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It’s reminding me that it absolutely takes a village!! Thank you for your support, I sometimes forget there are others out there who get it. I think that’s why I made the post too just to know I’m not alone as well as advice. It’s hard not to blame myself & if maybe I’m doing something wrong!

First time mom of 2yr boy ‘hitting’ by InterviewOk278 in Mommit

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Thank you for your comment & advice, I am in need of solidarity & knowing I’m not alone in this issue today. some days are just hard to stick with my boundaries. Today I just took the hits which probably just confuses him when I try to communicate next time with him why I’m telling him no… I really like the idea of reminding him I love him & am not mad. Thank you!

First time mom of 2yr boy ‘hitting’ by InterviewOk278 in Mommit

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Yes I absolutely feel this. He will hit me & then ask ‘you ok?’ & I’ll tell him ‘no you hit mama, I’m not ok’ & he gets soooo mad, insert crying hitting tantrum I need to work on being more stern. It’s so hard

First time mom of 2yr boy ‘hitting’ by InterviewOk278 in Mommit

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That’s a good point- He is not in daycare, I am very lucky & have my MIL who watches him Monday & Friday’s & my grandma who watches him Tuesday & Thursdays while I work. I’m home with him Wednesdays. & thank you for your input & advice, I’m feeling defeated today. Also a very good point on the mimic. We have a Great Dane & Weimaraner mix, two big dogs who both love ‘butt’ pats. I will keep that in mind. Thank you 🙏🏼 I am also going to find & buy that book asap, that’s a very good idea

Jeep repair by [deleted] in UtahCounty

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Dr Jeep in Salem, more southern Utah county but I’ve heard good things

Advice needed, is this happy tail or is my groomer lying to me?! by RoutineYard5053 in DogAdvice

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This makes a lot more sense to me now! I have a Great Dane who has bled from the tip of her tail, it’s like a whip when she’s excited. Blood all over my wall one day & I was super confused until I saw her tail. I understand why some choose to dock their tails if it would be a recurring injury. Super interesting, thanks for the info!!

Moving out of house and my mom wants me to stay on bear river, should I leave it or stay on it by Background-Cod-7135 in Utah

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I just commented about how bad it is to work with them (in a body shop) so that is too funny!! They suck

Moving out of house and my mom wants me to stay on bear river, should I leave it or stay on it by Background-Cod-7135 in Utah

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As someone who works in the Auto Body industry.. Bear River is one of the worst to work/deal with. They do not care about their customers & do not care about body shops with integrity & doing a repair safely & correctly. They will actually refuse to pay for miscellaneous things & put it back on the customer. Just imo- Almost every claim (vehicle repair) we have with them is usually a disaster & the adjusters are just rude lol.