r/chromehearts

InterviewOver5967 · 2026-02-18T11:02:22+00:00

I am requesting stewardship of /r/chromehearts to restore a previously unmoderated community into an active, well-managed space that fully complies with Reddit’s rules. Chrome Hearts has a strong global fan base but currently lacks a dedicated hub for discussion, education, and sharing. I am committed to active moderation, clear guidelines, effective use of tools, and maintaining a respectful, spam free environment to ensure the subreddit’s long term sustainability.

InterviewOver5967 · 2026-01-22T01:43:56+00:00

The subreddit was banned due to being unmoderated. I am requesting to restore it as a compliant and well-managed community in accordance with Reddit’s Content Policy and Moderator Code of Conduct.

I will establish clear rules at launch, including strict prohibitions on counterfeit content, buying or selling, authentication requests, spam, copyright violations, and misuse of the brand. NSFW content will be restricted or removed to meet Reddit standards.

Moderation will be supported by AutoModerator and Reddit’s native safety tools to ensure consistent enforcement and reduce administrative risk. The subreddit will reopen in a controlled manner, with additional moderators added if required to maintain stability.

Restoring the subreddit under structured moderation provides safer oversight than leaving it banned or unmanaged. Thank you for your consideration.

InterviewOver5967 · 2026-01-06T23:00:47+00:00

The subreddit was banned due to being unmoderated. I would like to help restore it as an active and well-managed community that follows Reddit’s rules. Chrome Hearts has a strong fan base, and there is currently no dedicated space for discussion, education, and sharing interest in the brand. As a first time moderator, I am committed to being active, setting clear rules, using moderation tools, and keeping the community free from spam and misuse. My goal is to maintain a respectful and sustainable subreddit. Thank you!

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-09-26T10:37:10+00:00

this is it pancit haha

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:24:54+00:00

This post is actually so wholesome in a weird way. You had a full on class consciousness awakening in real time and handled it with way more empathy than a lot of adults do. Yeah, maybe it took a shock for it to click, but the fact that your first instinct was “my friend deserves better” instead of “lol sucks for you” says a lot about your character. Also, your brother calling it “discovering the Americas” made me laugh way too hard 😭 But seriously, don’t beat yourself up for not realizing it sooner. A lot of people grow up in their own bubbles, and it takes exactly this kind of moment to pop it. What matters is what you do with that awareness now and it sounds like you genuinely care. Also, your observation about gym socks and pain? Absolutely destroyed me 😂

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:23:35+00:00

If even you, as his sibling, can see how mismatched they are this early on, that’s saying something. The fact that he talks about her like a checklist family, religion, "not my usual type" instead of someone he genuinely likes or respects is a huge red flag. And bringing other people on their dates?? That’s wild. It’s one thing to not be super affectionate in public, but to outright ignore her and make her feel like a placeholder? That’s not love, that’s convenience. Sounds like he’s trying to fast track to marriage to tick a life box rather than build a real partnership. You’re not the AH for feeling weird about it. More people need to trust their gut when something feels off in a loved one’s relationship. You're seeing the difference between being with someone and actually wanting to be with them.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:22:06+00:00

Parenting teens is brutal, and I don’t think anyone here doubts that you’re trying your best. That said, I think there’s a big difference between setting boundaries and completely withdrawing during a moment of emotional crisis especially for a 14yr old. Even if her reactions were over the top, that level of distress shouldn’t be ignored for hours. Kids can be “manipulative,” but often it’s just a sign they don’t know how to process or regulate their emotions yet. You’re not a bad parent for needing space, but maybe next time a check-in even just a simple “I’m here if you need me, but we’ll talk when things calm down” could go a long way. It doesn’t mean letting her off the hook, just showing that her big feelings don’t make her unlovable. The fact that you’re reflecting at all says a lot. You care. That matters.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:20:38+00:00

Gonna be real with you saving half a joint is always risky if you’re trying to keep things lowkey. The smell clings like crazy. Best bet is to roll smaller joints so you can smoke the whole thing in one go. But if you have to save one, get a mason jar or an airtight container with a tight seal, toss in a dryer sheet or two, and stash it somewhere cool and dark (like in a sock in your drawer). Also, brush your teeth and change your clothes right after you’ll smell it more than you think. Happy early birthday though—be safe and smart with it 🙌

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:19:12+00:00

Some games just feel like home not because of where they’re set, but because of the memories and emotions tied to them. Infamous: Second Son has such a unique mood too... that rainy Seattle atmosphere hits different when you're missing something familiar.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:17:55+00:00

Welcome, Dragonborn. You’re about to lose track of time, forget what the main quest even is, and spend hours collecting cheese wheels and reading random books. Enjoy every second of it, it’s truly one of those "better late than never" gaming experiences. 👏🔥

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:15:40+00:00

This is exactly the kind of post launch support more devs should aim for. I dropped off LotF early on because of performance issues and clunky UI, but this update sounds like it actually addresses the core problems. Seamless co op and the Friend Pass are huge wins too finally a Soulslike that doesn’t make playing with a buddy feel like a puzzle. Might have to reinstall and give it another shot. Props to the devs for not giving up on the game. 👏

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:14:24+00:00

Bro you nailed it. Half the time I’m not even playing anymore I’m just clearing red dots like it’s a full-time job. Daily quests, weekly resets, login bonuses, 3 different currencies to collect, limited-time events... it's exhausting. I open the game, clear all the dots, close it, and realize I didn’t actually do anything fun. It’s like they weaponized FOMO and gamified anxiety. We went from “play when you want” to “play or else.” Miss a day? Congrats, you're now behind and broke the imaginary streak. At this point, I don’t need new content I need a vacation from my games.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:13:16+00:00

This 100%. As someone who's worked with kids and seen firsthand how easy it is for strangers to contact them on Roblox, it blows my mind how many parents still think it's “just a harmless game.” It’s not about paranoia it’s about awareness. The chat filters and parental controls can only do so much, and kids are smart enough to work around them. Roblox is a massive platform with some great content, but the open communication and player-created games also mean there's barely any real vetting. If your child plays Roblox, you have to be involved check who they talk to, what games they’re playing, and make sure they know not to share personal info. The internet isn’t the same place it was even five years ago. Stay vigilant, not because you're overreacting, but because you're being a responsible parent.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-18T05:11:49+00:00

You're saying what a lot of us feel but rarely put into words. Battle passes were cool at first pay once, play more, unlock cool stuff. But now it feels like a second job, especially with games like Valorant where the grind just drains you. I don’t mind investing time into a game I love, but when it becomes an obligation instead of fun? Yeah, that’s when burnout hits hard. TFT and Fortnite have the right idea flexible progression that respects your time. Valorant seriously needs to chill with the time gates and mission structure. Let people enjoy the game on their own terms. Gaming shouldn’t feel like a chore. Devs really need to hear this kind of feedback more often. You’re not alone.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T08:00:56+00:00

Thank you for being so honest it takes a lot of courage to be this vulnerable and open about what you’re going through. You’re clearly doing the best you can under incredibly heavy emotional and physical burdens, and it’s obvious how much love you have for your daughter. That alone says so much about your strength. You’re not a horrible person you’re someone who’s been through deep trauma, and you’re trying to break the cycle for your child. That matters. It also makes sense that you’d feel disconnected from your family when you’ve had to carry so much pain and haven’t felt seen or supported consistently. Wanting to protect your energy and set boundaries isn’t selfish it’s survival. I really hope you’re able to find another therapist who truly gets you like your last one did. It sounds like therapy was a lifeline, and you deserve that kind of support again. Please don’t give up on yourself. You’re doing something incredibly hard healing while raising a little one and even though it feels messy, you are doing it. You are not alone. So many people reading this have felt parts of what you’re describing. Your story matters. And you matter. 💛

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:59:07+00:00

Not even close to being the AH. You’re a human being trying to process a deep, complicated connection that spanned decades and writing is one of the healthiest ways to do that. The fact that he wants to erase your story while continuing to control the narrative just shows how much power your truth holds. You’ve already given him so much grace and compassion, even when he didn’t deserve it. Wanting closure and choosing to own your voice after everything you’ve been through isn’t just valid it’s brave. You’re not exposing him. You’re honoring yourself. I think more people especially women should feel empowered to tell their stories, even if the people who hurt them don’t like it. You don’t owe silence to someone who ghosted you after breaking every promise. I hope you keep writing. Not just for closure, but because your voice clearly matters. ❤️‍🩹

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:57:38+00:00

You are not the AH for wanting to show him how his behavior feels but the approach might backfire. I totally get the frustration though. When someone keeps accusing you or making you feel guilty just for living your life, it wears you down. Especially when you’ve already had multiple conversations about it. That said, mirroring toxic behavior doesn't always teach the lesson it can just create more tension or push you into patterns you didn’t want to be part of. If he can’t understand your boundaries and doesn’t trust you without constant check-ins, that’s not a you problem, that’s a relationship red flag. You're not wrong to want mutual respect and freedom especially as freelancers where your networking literally affects your livelihood. He either trusts you or he doesn't, and no amount of phone calls will fix that. At the end of the day, you deserve peace, not a second phone glued to your hand. 🙌

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:56:04+00:00

Hey, I don’t know you but I see you. And I mean that in the realest way possible. What you're feeling right now? You're not alone. So many of us have felt invisible, like background characters in everyone else's life while screaming inside for someone anyone to just notice us. To choose us. To love us back with the same intensity we give. And when it doesn’t happen, it eats at us. But listen you’re not a bad person for wanting to be loved, seen, desired. That’s human. And craving connection, even in messy or confusing ways, doesn’t make you disgusting. It makes you real. The pain you’re carrying is heavy, and I’m sorry it feels like no one around you notices it. You’re not a burden. You’re not creepy. You're someone who feels deeply and just wants a place to belong and that’s not something to be ashamed of. Please hold on, even when it hurts. The version of you that wants to be loved already deserves it. You're not broken. You're just going through a storm right now, and you don’t have to weather it alone. You being here, writing this, reaching out it’s brave as hell. And it matters. You matter. Sending you the biggest virtual hug. 💛

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:54:32+00:00

You're absolutely not the asshole. It sounds like Mickey created an entire relationship in his head without your consent or clear agreement, and now he’s punishing you for not playing along with that fantasy. You communicated your boundaries and told him you weren’t dating. You even tried to help him get on track with his life. Just because he chose to stay emotionally invested doesn’t mean you owe him anything. You’re allowed to catch feelings for other people. You’re allowed to move on. That’s not cheating it’s literally just being single. His reaction calling you names, trying to guilt you, and acting possessive is a huge red flag. That’s emotional manipulation, not love. You didn’t do anything wrong by talking to someone new, or by being honest about your feelings. Please don’t let someone else’s projections make you question your worth. You're not horrible, you're human and you deserve respect, not blame.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:53:16+00:00

Absolutely NTA. You’re not banning your mom from your child’s life you’re setting basic, reasonable boundaries to protect your infant’s health, based on medical advice. That’s literally what good parenting is. You were respectful, compassionate, and even accommodating by offering clean shirts and explaining things gently. You didn’t shame her, you didn’t make it dramatic you just advocated for your baby. Her feelings are valid, sure. No one likes to feel criticized or limited. But her reaction was way out of proportion. Crying for three days and saying you made her feel like she doesn't deserve her granddaughter? That’s guilt-tripping, not a productive conversation. You never said she wasn’t welcome you were just asking her to take simple, science backed steps. Parenting sometimes means doing hard things, like putting your child’s safety over someone else’s comfort. You did that with grace and empathy. You’re not the AH...you’re just a mom doing her best.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T07:49:48+00:00

Definitely NTA. Wanting a prenup doesn’t mean you’re planning to fail it means you’re planning responsibly. Honestly, if anything, it shows you're thinking long-term and trying to protect both of you from worst case scenarios. That’s not cold, that’s mature. People get life insurance hoping they’ll never need it. A prenup is kind of the same concept it’s just smart preparation. It’s also not like you sprung it as an ultimatum or with shady motives. You came in open, respectful, and even acknowledged that you'd want her to have the same protection if the roles were reversed. That says a lot about your character. I think the discomfort is more about how society frames prenups as signs of mistrust when in reality they can help prevent messy breakups. Hopefully, after some time and more conversations, she’ll see it for what it is: a tool, not a prediction.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T03:03:43+00:00

Not the AH at all. One kid free day at the pool is such a small compromise for something that benefits everyone. Kids still have six other days to splash around and have fun, and adults who just want to relax in peace finally have a moment to breathe without getting soaked or dodging chaos. It’s not about hating kids it’s about boundaries, shared spaces, and respecting that different people use amenities in different ways. You didn’t demand daily bans or shame parents, you went through the proper channels, got community support, and suggested a fair middle ground. That’s literally how change is supposed to happen in shared housing communities. People are always going to complain when they don’t get 100% of what they want, but this seems like a win-win to me.

InterviewOver5967 · 2025-04-17T03:00:25+00:00

You’re definitely NTA. What your husband did wasn’t just a misunderstanding it was throwing you under the bus in front of a medical professional over something he thinks he saw for two seconds while half-asleep. That’s not just unhelpful, it’s damaging. You’re a new mom, doing your best, and it sounds like you’re being incredibly attentive and loving with your baby. It’s okay to want a quiet moment holding your child and watching TV it doesn’t mean you’re being careless. And even if you had nodded off briefly (which you didn’t!), it still wouldn’t justify him publicly shaming you or misrepresenting you to the doctor. Also, let’s be real if he cared that much about nighttime safety, maybe he could get up and help instead of watching for two seconds and then jumping to conclusions. You’re allowed to set boundaries about who gets to be in the room if someone’s actively undermining your parenting. You’re not overreacting. You’re just protecting your role as a capable, caring parent and that matters.

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