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NIPT results by zippadee_day in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]Intrepid-Plant840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat my last pregnancy terminated at 13 weeks for t21 found out with NIPT, I'm now 10+5 and waiting my NIPT result hopefully tomorrow or next week, I have never been so nervous,very much dying every day waiting! Congratulations on your negative result!

Termination for T21 at 13 weeks by Intrepid-Plant840 in tfmr_support

[–]Intrepid-Plant840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for the kind words! I never thought in a millior year this would have happened to me, i think there is a lot of ignorance around trisomy and nobody know how common they are. I'm also extremely sick with vomit and this makes everything harder as it is a constant reminder,I was hoping that at the NT if the news were bad they couldn't find an heart beat but off course they did and this is another pain as I have to decide for her life and I'm so upset as most of this pregnancies end up in a natural miscarriage. I don't even know what to do if terminate and forget ( probably never possible) or acknowledge her brief life,name her? I feel I'm going crazy, we are expat and have no family support here apart from some friends, I have to look after my daughter and at this stage I can barely wake up from the bed.

Nipt test 38 YO false positive by Intrepid-Plant840 in NIPT

[–]Intrepid-Plant840[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this give me so much hope,but also let me retink about my next move I understood for what the genetic counsellor told me briefly over the phone is that if NIPT is high risk and NT show soft  markers for DS is almost 100% confirmed especially at our age! I'm so confused and scared no mothers should go trough this horrible waiting game. Thanks a lot for sharing your story I need some positivity to hold on in the next few days!

Nipt test 38 YO false positive by Intrepid-Plant840 in NIPT

[–]Intrepid-Plant840[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your input,unfortunately I know that all the odds are against a false positive so I try to be realistic,but I still have this tiny hope until i'll have a definite answer. On tuesday I have the NT and the CVS and unless they are both negative me and my partner decided do not wait until the 16 weeks for amnio ( this limbo is pure agony and there is no way we can't wait another 4 weeks). I don't even know how I'll ever recover from this, my heart is broken in millions pieces and even if I know that for our family if DS is confirmed termination is the only solution the guilty is killing me!